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OnlyMaster4u -> WHAT IS THE WORST SITUATION YOU HAVE ENTERED? (8/18/2009 6:36:57 PM)
So i ask a question to everyone and it is simply this. What type of relationship have you ever been involved with that was your worst. As an example: Vanilla, cheating, married etc... My curiosities span from past experiences and just bad behavior.

beargonewild -> RE: WHAT IS THE WORST SITUATION YOU HAVE ENTERED? (8/18/2009 7:10:54 PM)
In a brief summary: Moved in with a person after dating for a month, three months later we bought a house together, three months after that the relationship ended when I walked out on him and walked away from the house and subsequently had to claim personal bankruptcy.

Lashra -> RE: WHAT IS THE WORST SITUATION YOU HAVE ENTERED? (8/18/2009 8:38:30 PM)
A vanilla marriage to a man who said he appreciated, respected and desirew a Dominant woman. Who then after the "I do's" were said, then wanted a traditional, christian wife like his mother. I am the opposite of traditional and christian, so after a few years of arguing and unhappiness I called it quits. The happiest day of my life was the day I had my divorce. ~Lashra

girlygurl -> RE: WHAT IS THE WORST SITUATION YOU HAVE ENTERED? (8/18/2009 9:41:43 PM)
Was friends with a guy for several months, we started dating. He was very attentive, brought me flowers all the time (delivered them to work). Took me to dinner a lot... sex was pretty good.... AND THEN................ His temper started to show, I backed off, asked for space... HA! Next thing I know I'm thrown down a flight of stairs, my belongings were thrown out in the middle of the street.... police came the end (I THOUGHT). He began stalking me, would show up at my house in the middle of the night. Held me captive in my bedroom and told me if I said a word or moved he would blow up my house and the whole phucking block. Eventually after telling him he was right I was a piece of shit (just to get him out of my house) he left. AND THEN...... He took a baseball bat to my car windows and nearly hit my mother with it. The police were called again, now the dude had a warrant out. He showed up at clubs, found out where I worked and called like 100 times over and over.... I had to excuse myself (needless to say, I didn't keep that job) AND THEN..... I moved again. He found me, he threw green oil based paint up at my bedroom window, which proceeded to come splashing down on five other cars. He also took his trusty baseball bat again and whacked the hell out of my car. AND THEN (the last one) I was working for the local phone company as a zero operator.... you know, the kind that takes calls from inmates to place their collect calls... TA DA.... sweet revenge.... Me: .... bell, your name please? inmate: collect call from mike Me: cough cough (as i look up at the screen and recognize his parents phone number) Me: ok, collect call from mike, one moment please inmate: k? is that you? Me: will you accept a collect call from mike? called party: yes Me.... ha ha ha ha ha bye mike Entering a relationship with a volatile crazed person was my worst situation (as far as relationships goes)

Toppingfrmbottom -> RE: WHAT IS THE WORST SITUATION YOU HAVE ENTERED? (8/18/2009 9:55:40 PM)
He was a mommies boy who let his mom control everything in his life including when and how he could see his gf, and how much money he got to do thatwelll that went on for 4 years and then I asked his mom for 250 dollars he owed me since I payed for his plane ticket to see his dad in Spokan, since both of us were invited, and the way every one was dragging their ass the trip was in danger so I said I'll buy both our tickets, you can pay me back later. WEll his mom freaked out got super mad and my name was mud around that place and since he had to ask if he could come see and me, and I was person non grata, he wouldn't ask to come over, I finally got so sick of it and him and the whole situation I dumped him. And there was a now x of mine in lodi, he claimed he needed personal space to deal with some issues he was having with an x fiance popping back into his life and pressuring him about why he won't talk to her blah blah blah, and finally he said he couldn't handle a gf right now so I dumped him, and less than a week later him and someone I called a friend came online to tell me they were dating an they were sorry they didn't mean to fall in love it just happend. The whole time he'd been supposedly "dealing with x fiance issues and having so much emotional turmoil he couldn't handle a relationship's demands at the time he'd been hanging out and spending the whole time w/ith my best friend. It's ok he was a dead beat any way who had no money lived with grandma refused to get a job or support himself in anyway, and had family problems. quote: ORIGINAL: OnlyMaster4u So i ask a question to everyone and it is simply this. What type of relationship have you ever been involved with that was your worst. As an example: Vanilla, cheating, married etc... My curiosities span from past experiences and just bad behavior.

hizgeorgiapeach -> RE: WHAT IS THE WORST SITUATION YOU HAVE ENTERED? (8/18/2009 10:39:41 PM)
Egads, picking a "worst" out of the plethora of particularly BAD relationships I've had is a monumental task.... Let's see....... there's the "straight dom" I moved to another state to live with, who - after I got moved, bailed him out financially, got us a place to stay, furnished it, and got him a running vehical..... turned out to be bi, prefered males, wanted a "girlfriend" so his ultra conservative religious family wouldn't figure out he was pretty much gay, and was less dominant than I am on a particularly submissive day. I dumped him when I found out that he was essentially gay and had lied to me - I found out by finding his yahoo profile as a CD/Tranny looking for a Male Soul Mate to finish turning him into a "perfect" woman. The photo - which was recognizably him, despite having the head chopped off - was taken on my couch - in My Clothes! before that there was the "dominant" male who quit his job 3 months after moving in with me to the home I owned free and clear, laid around for a year on his ass on the couch expecting me to cater to his whims AND to pay all the bills..... who beat me up regularly (no - not SM play - beat me up as in Physically Abused me).... and told his next victim - whom he found online via a chatroom while I slept at night - that we were alternately "just friends" or that I "didn't know how to be obedient" (why bother being obedient, when he was gonna beat the fuck out of me whether I obeyed or disobyed, ya know?) before that was my younger spawn's sperm donor - who had a fixation on Gor, cheated on me with 3 of my previously close friends, lied to me every time I turned around, and proceeded to tell me it was somehow My fault that he was a lying, cheating schmuck... (after all, according to him - if I hadn't been "fat and ugly from pregnancy" with HIS offspring, he wouldn't have "needed" to cheat... and of course him Lying about it was to "protect" me from myself... ) I finally ditched him when I came home from working an 8 hour shift to keep a roof over our heads - leaving him at home with my then 11 (now 22) and newborn (now 11) only to find that he'd gone back to bed and slept all day, neglecting them because he'd been up playing a friggin Online Game (think World of Warcrack, 90s edition) until 30 minutes before I got out of bed to go to work that morning! Before that was the 7 year relationship with the diagnosed paranoid schizophrenic..... we'd lived together for a year when he was diagnosed, and despite the schizophrenia, we had a fairly decent relationship..... at least, it was good on the days that I could ignore just how flamingly insane he was. I left him when he refused to get the schizophrenia treated, even though I'd been begging him to do so for Years by that time. Finally gave him an ultimatum - get it treated or I leave - he refused, declared that the government (who was, of course, after him for reasons never disclosed) must have somehow "gotten to" me, so I said goodbye and didn't look back. before him was the biker, who dumped me to go back to his highschool sweetheart whom I later found he'd been cheating on me with prior to finally breaking up with me.... before him was the bi submissive who threatened suicide when I finally got fed up with him and dumped him for being a blithering idiot..... before him was a vanilla guy who dumped me (at 23) for a 15 year old (and who later went to prison as a pedofile and rapist).... before him was the eldest spawn's sperm donor - a complete loser that I had only gone out with to piss off my idiot brother, and whom I was getting ready to dump (after all, he'd served his purpose - amused me for a couple of months, and pissed off my idiot brother that I was dating one of his friends) when I found out I was pregnant with the now 22yr old. He managed to get himself fired a week before the kid was born, lied to me about putting in apps to find a new job when I went back to work after having the kid - and insteand would go to my parents' house, lay around on their couch watching TV and doing crossword puzzles while my mother took care of our newborn. I finally divorced him after he came and picked up my paycheck one afternoon - supposedly to go pay the natural gas bill, which had a cutoff notice - and when I got home, instead of a paid gas bill, he'd spent my paycheck (my Entire paycheck) on a computer system - for himself - because he wanted it and was Bored. Since I moved back from the fiasco with mr cocksucker, I've dated 4 guys....... I dumped the first because I found out he was smoking crack (vanilla) I dumped the second because he was a pompous, uptight, snobbish ass (dominant - decent sadist, but way to much of an asshole to tolerate for very long) ..... I dumped the third because he was an alcoholic (vanilla)..... and I dumped the 4th (recent, vanilla) because he was lying and cheating on me with some stupid stripper cunt.

KMsAngel -> RE: WHAT IS THE WORST SITUATION YOU HAVE ENTERED? (8/19/2009 1:10:05 AM)
suddenly my cheating ex husband doesn't sound so awful after all! (not that i'd ever do anything more than say hi at the kidlet's wedding, still)

hizgeorgiapeach -> RE: WHAT IS THE WORST SITUATION YOU HAVE ENTERED? (8/19/2009 7:12:05 AM)
(And people wonder why the male species isn't high on my list of favoritist people these days...... that's 23 years of history right there, in a nutshell... it might Also explain why I've called it quits on power exchange and relationships... )

VirginPotty -> RE: WHAT IS THE WORST SITUATION YOU HAVE ENTERED? (8/19/2009 7:16:10 AM)
The Holly & Potty Show[8\|]

GreedyTop -> RE: WHAT IS THE WORST SITUATION YOU HAVE ENTERED? (8/19/2009 7:20:37 AM)
I've never ENTERED into a bad situation. All my relationships have started out great. The guy I moved in with after my first husband and I split was awesome... had a nice place to live, nice motorcycles, taught me how to ride, kept a roof over our heads.. about 2 months later, I was his punching bag. About 6 months later I was finally able to say ENOUGH. Took my ex (who rode with a motorcycle club) and one of his biggest, ugliest club brothers to get me out. They had weapons.. had robin crawling on the floor, crying and begging me to stay. it was awesome :) I LOVED watching him grovel. I hope the bastard is rotting in hell now.

Musicmystery -> RE: WHAT IS THE WORST SITUATION YOU HAVE ENTERED? (8/19/2009 7:21:38 AM)
The bad ones were all vanilla. Then, I was also younger, so who knows....

slutslave4u -> RE: WHAT IS THE WORST SITUATION YOU HAVE ENTERED? (8/19/2009 7:32:16 AM)
An 18 year vanilla relationship, of which 16 were married, 1 child. I found a letter she had written to her then boyfriend about killing me off for the insurance money. Letter found in her purse as she asked me to go get something out of it (of which in all of 18 years I never went into her purse). Divorce consisted of my going to Office Depot and buying a packet of legal documents and writing out my own divorce ($20) and having her sign it leaving her absolutely nothing but her freedom (only for our then 12 yr old child's sake) and $60 filing fee at the courthouse. She is now married to him, both are alcoholics and she now looks like she is 20 plus years older than she actually is!

Toppingfrmbottom -> RE: WHAT IS THE WORST SITUATION YOU HAVE ENTERED? (8/20/2009 4:04:59 PM)
If we have a huge history of choosing bad partners, or entering situations that turn bad then does that mean our picking ability sucks?

littlewonder -> RE: WHAT IS THE WORST SITUATION YOU HAVE ENTERED? (8/20/2009 6:29:05 PM)
typical cheater..nuff said.

IrishMist -> RE: WHAT IS THE WORST SITUATION YOU HAVE ENTERED? (8/20/2009 6:40:09 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OnlyMaster4u So i ask a question to everyone and it is simply this. What type of relationship have you ever been involved with that was your worst. As an example: Vanilla, cheating, married etc... My curiosities span from past experiences and just bad behavior. Only been in one my whole life...and if I could go back and start all over again...I would choose the same man, the same relationship, the same everything. It was not all good, and it was not all bad...but, it was what it was and I would not change anything.

calamitysandra -> RE: WHAT IS THE WORST SITUATION YOU HAVE ENTERED? (8/21/2009 4:33:36 AM)
My very first boyfriend turned into a stalker after I dumped him. Threatening letters, lounging around in front of our house, following me everywhere, slashing the tires on my parents car, breaking into my school on a weekend and spraying "I will kill you Sandra" all over the place, trying to break in while my younger brother and I were alone at home, and finally, luring me out of school (calling, pretending to be my father, telling the secretary that my mother was in an accident and asking them to send me home) and then waiting for me in the park I had to drive through to get home, dragging me from my bike and raping me. Not a good start into dating life.

sunshinemiss -> RE: WHAT IS THE WORST SITUATION YOU HAVE ENTERED? (8/21/2009 5:00:55 AM)
Hello folks, The worst situation I've ever had ... may it already be over. Well wishes everyone, and may your joy sustain you through any lingering grief and pain. sunshine

angelikaJ -> RE: WHAT IS THE WORST SITUATION YOU HAVE ENTERED? (8/21/2009 5:33:44 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: calamitysandra My very first boyfriend turned into a stalker after I dumped him. Did you press charges and if so what happened?

Ladynslave -> RE: WHAT IS THE WORST SITUATION YOU HAVE ENTERED? (8/21/2009 6:19:31 AM)
I would have to say ex #3. As near as I can figure, spent $750,000.00 (conservative estimate) gambling (95% my money) and then couldn't understand that I was divorcing him over money. Turned stalker, won a TRO after he threatened to put two bullets in my head and do the same to anyone around me, but the judge wouldn't make it a permanent because, "He has not had a history of physical abuse." Well, your idiot, I mean your honor, he didn't have a history of threatening to shoot people either, but he started doing that. Needless to say, I moved out of state that same day. Last I heard he was in jail, though I don't know nor care what for.

Ladynslave -> RE: WHAT IS THE WORST SITUATION YOU HAVE ENTERED? (8/21/2009 6:58:09 AM)
Oh wait, I nearly forgot... A year after all this, after I sold my house and his realtor friend told him the sales price, he takes me back to court to overturn our divorce because he has decided I didn't pay him enough money to get rid of him the first time. You should have seen the look on that judge's face when my lawyer whipped out the proof of his gambling habit and called it, "Community Waste." I don't think I have ever seen a judge give a man such a dirty look. LOL! Needless to say, I didn't have to pay him another dime, but he did have to pay my attorney's fee for wasting the court's time. Guess I made good on my threat, don't F**K with me, I can always afford a better lawyer than you.

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