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wildflower26 -> tips for new D/s relationship? (8/18/2009 10:06:26 PM)
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Hi all. I hope I'm not replicating something discussed in another thread. I've several times seen it emphasized that people should use the search feature rather than just bringing back an old topic as if it's an original and hasn't already been discussed. I tried the search feature and nothing came up, but maybe it's because I'm simply not skilled at narrowing down what I'm looking for as a topic concisely. I'm certainly not very concise here so far!
I'd been searching for a D/s relationship for about a year to a year and a half. A local guy contacted me. He's around my age; he seems reasonable. We traded a few messages and then did some chats. When that seemed somewhat compatible, I invited him to speak with another man on this board who's known me to get his perspective, and for me to get my friend's perspective. Things were still going well, so we met at the local club. And then a few days later, we met. Then we met again.
It seems to be going very well so far. We're both expressing our questions and doubts to each other that come up as we go along, and we seem to have a great deal of D/s compatibility, and also a lot of vanilla compatibility.
We haven't known each other for but a week or two, though we've spent plenty of time speaking with and getting to know each other within that time frame.
Any suggestions or pointers? The two of us are exploring a Master/slave dynamic, and so far, it seems to be going well. No red flags going up, except perhaps the speed at which we're both pursuing this. We both do have our own lives and are staying in those. :)
It's just....so exciting and so new.
*Anyway* -- me and all my yammering. Thanks for listening and for any suggestions.
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