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RE: Help with seducing my Dom! - 2/24/2006 8:25:28 AM   
foxglove716


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Status: offline 		congrats on your move in pita, I hope everything goes well. Keep us posted!

Your game sounds like a lot of fun to me. I would of course dress very sexy, and then become suddenly clumbsy.

"Oh no! I dropped this knife!! *bending over* Ouch! it poked me! *sucking on finger sexily*"

and dont forget to use suggestive gestures with any phallic shaped items around the house!

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RE: Help with seducing my Dom! - 2/24/2006 8:32:26 AM   
Littlepita


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Status: offline 		Thanks truesub. The point of this little challenge is to have lots of fun. We know its going to be a win/win for us both. I just want to hold the official title of Winner!

Thank you foxglove and I will keep everyone posted. I am sure I will have lots of question once I am living the life and not just fantasizing about it.

I do plan to do some bending over. Since I am not allowed panties that should get to him I'm thinking.

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RE: Help with seducing my Dom! - 2/24/2006 8:36:48 AM   
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I fear I will be too shy and nervous to perform at my best.


do your best to appear as confident as you can...this slave has found that most folks, in general, find confidence to be incredibly sexy, regardless of the motions you are going through.

Prince has some fabulous music to seduce to---the CD "Come", in it's entirity, is a great soundtrack to a seduction scene!!! work out your soft ambiant lighting with candles or nightlights, burn some incense & cut up some juicy,succulent fruit to feed to Him.

Do you meditate at all? if so, use that to help you center by focusing on a mantra that will boost your confidence and put you in a sexy headspace!!!

Most of all, have fun!!!

Good luck to you and your Dom!!!

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RE: Help with seducing my Dom! - 2/24/2006 7:18:33 PM   
sanita


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Status: offline 		If you aren't allowed to touch him, are you allowed to touch him with things? And do you have a certain amount of immunity for what you do to win? i would hate for you to get in trouble for crossing a "Don't Torture the Master" line.

If you were to tease a little, like tickle him with a featherduster on the ear, or even a long peacock feather, maybe you could drive him nuts enough to want to grab you and wrestle a bit. Really, the reason for the fun wrestling could be anything, but usually, the outcome starts with kisses.

i am guessing if he grabs you, that is not against the rules of the game.

The more you struggle, the more he has to put into holding you wherever he wants you.

Another idea is to make a game within the game. Put your cell phone on silent, so he can't hear it ring if he calls you, and text message him from a good hiding place. Tell him in text what you are doing (to/with yourself, too...), and ask if he'd like to come find you. If he gets hungry enough, he may come find you just to get dinner.

You could also play "Hot and Cold" and hide something special you got for him. Tell him he's getting hot when he gets close, or colder when he is heading the wrong way... Hide the last treat on your person.

Anyway, those are a few ideas. *l* Of course, if he reads these boards, we may be innoculating him.

Good luck to you and your Master, Littlepita.

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RE: Help with seducing my Dom! - 2/24/2006 7:28:42 PM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		Fire red engine lipstick and nothing else.........

Wear that and nothing else...........

Sleep at the foot of the bed. Kneel while he eats, beg to be fed. Ask to go to the bathroom........

Leave him to his whims, play stupid.

What do you do when you want to get fucked by a stranger that turns you on?

Why does it not work sometimes?

Do not accept a change to challenge, do not prove anything.........that is sufficient........harbor no dreams.

Ron

seriously, If you are gonna go into this trying to be female, you are fucked.......and not in the way you intend.........We want 'em clean and natural, and of course the first thing is to let him win.....

Why fight inside the house, when every day you can fight outside of it.

Plotters are for history books, babe.

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RE: Help with seducing my Dom! - 2/24/2006 8:32:13 PM   
Littlepita


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Status: offline 		Thanks Mercnbeth and Sanita. I will definately be myself and try to use some of those great ideas during my day of seduction. He joked tonight on the phone that he better not cave in too soon since I seem to be having so much fun planning my attack. He doesn't read the board right now, thank goodness!!





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RE: Help with seducing my Dom! - 2/24/2006 8:51:16 PM   
Littlepita


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Sheesh mnottertail! You have confused and made me think so much I have to address you in a separate post!

OK lets see here: Fire red engine lipstick and nothing else.........
I got the perfect shade!

Sleep at the foot of the bed. Kneel while he eats, beg to be fed. Ask to go to the bathroom........
Yeah he will love this stuff! Especially the kneeling and begging to be fed. Major turn on for him.

Leave him to his whims, play stupid. But I thought I was his whim???


What do you do when you want to get fucked by a stranger that turns you on? I don't know if I can remember that far back, but I think I played it coy and made sure he got the message without being overtly obvious.

Why does it not work sometimes? He doesn't like redheads or girls that act coy???

Do not accept a change to challenge, do not prove anything.........that is sufficient........harbor no dreams. So you're saying to be myself and expect to lose the bet?? Damn! I wanna win this thing!

seriously, If you are gonna go into this trying to be female, you are fucked.......and not in the way you intend.........We want 'em clean and natural, and of course the first thing is to let him win.....

Why fight inside the house, when every day you can fight outside of it.

Plotters are for history books, babe.

I don't understand Ron. What is wrong with being female? Does that imply that games aren't wanted and I must be pure and myself?

I didn't come up with this challenge he did. He loves the competive side of me and thinks this is going to a fantastic day no matter who wins. Which will be me by the way. I have skills you know?















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RE: Help with seducing my Dom! - 2/24/2006 9:21:44 PM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		You have it at the be yourself.

So you're saying to be myself and expect to lose the bet?? Damn! I wanna win this thing!

Do not focus on winning. Do not even try.
What is wrong with being female?
Being female is the thing.

Does that imply that games aren't wanted?
No, that is the game.......

I know this is somewhat of an inintelligible and esoteric dichotomy.....but it is the essence.........

Aren't you in martial arts? I know you have been at least hanging on the edge of discussions that went there.....

This IS THE VOID (if you understand that......)
This is fundamental principals, don't try to win, don't try to lose, don't let them see you sweat........

Your weapon is naked desire, red lipstick (which is not natural) and his concept that this is a tour de force...........
That IS your tour de force........
No effort, if you exert effort to win, or even consider it, then you have lost..........

If this makes sense in that vein, use it, if it does your soul good.

If I confuse you, then it does you harm..........
Consider me a troll and a player.

That is your best bet, I think.

Sincerely,
Ron.

I do wish you well, (hopefully, You and Yours; right?)


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RE: Help with seducing my Dom! - 2/24/2006 9:39:50 PM   
Littlepita


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Status: offline 		Yeah I think I got it Ron! That was just brilliant! Of course I had to read it slowly twice before I was smiling and nodding my head in agreement. I won't think of you as a troll, but as a benefit to my plea for help. Thank you. *I think I better go read that one more time just to be clear though. *

I do have a problem with this part though: Aren't you in martial arts? I know you have been at least hanging on the edge of discussions that went there..... I assume that is some metaphor for something???

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RE: Help with seducing my Dom! - 2/24/2006 9:58:53 PM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		See, I am unitelligible, even when I --

Get ahold of yourselves kids-----------

"Speake English as she is goodlye spoken" (fix it up) .. Jeoffrey Chaucer

no metaphor........

The Void is not confusion, it is perfect certainty.......

A good metaphor tho....

In the clutch of the world, tho I think that a man's winning is a far different matter than a woman's.
We both want the end result, but we achieve it by different means.
You perhaps, will want something on the order of; I was loved, carved on your gravestone.......

Most men would rather have, some sick ass shit like-- I was feared, or I won.......see what I mean?

If you understand that; that's the VOID.

I am trying to not bust a nut and be real serious here Littlepita.

Sincerely,
Ron

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RE: Help with seducing my Dom! - 2/24/2006 10:09:47 PM   
Littlepita


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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

See, I am unitelligible, even when I --

Get ahold of yourselves kids-----------

"Speake English as she is goodlye spoken" (fix it up) .. Jeoffrey Chaucer

no metaphor........

The Void is not confusion, it is perfect certainty.......

A good metaphor tho....

In the clutch of the world, tho I think that a man's winning is a far different matter than a woman's.
We both want the end result, but we achieve it by different means.
You perhaps, will want something on the order of; I was loved, carved on your gravestone.......

Most men would rather have, some sick ass shit like-- I was feared, or I won.......see what I mean?

If you understand that; that's the VOID.

I am trying to not bust a nut and be real serious here Littlepita.

Sincerely,
Ron



*Sigh* You Dom's and your confusing way of getting a point across. Or maybe it's after 1am and I'm truly feeling a little loopy right now.

Yes Ron, I do want my gravestone to say that I was loved. That would be very nice and gratifying to me.

OK, since I am sleepy I will bottom line this thing and see what it gets me. I don't really care about winning. I care about making him feel special and loved. I care about rocking his world and blowing his mind. I care that at the end of the day I get to hear, "Good girl" no matter who wins. That is what I want the most in this little challenge of ours.

Is that good?



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RE: Help with seducing my Dom! - 2/24/2006 10:14:36 PM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		Yep, sleep the sleep of angels, kiddo.

You got the grasp of the main points.......

XO,

Much Health, Wealth and Happiness to You and Yours,

Ron........(say goodnight, Gracie)

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RE: Help with seducing my Dom! - 2/24/2006 10:22:03 PM   
Littlepita


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Yep, sleep the sleep of angels, kiddo.

You got the grasp of the main points.......

XO,

Much Health, Wealth and Happiness to You and Yours,

Ron........(say goodnight, Gracie)


Thank you Ron! This has been lots of fun and thought provoking. I will save this thread for my Sir to read once we're finished with the challenge. I am sure he will enjoy the exchange. Peace out! This pita is heading off to dream about red lipstick and sterling silver hoop earrings. *my newest wish for my winnings*

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RE: Help with seducing my Dom! - 2/24/2006 11:07:25 PM   
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pita, i understand that your relationship is just that *smiles*... again just be careful... moving in with One you've never met and then no 'safe' words... ok enough


I agree here moving in is a big deal when you "know" each other.

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RE: Help with seducing my Dom! - 2/24/2006 11:10:29 PM   
brightspot


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What he's NOT expecting is you walking around the house in lingerie and ignoring him! It will make him crazy, which will soon turn to lust. And you WILL be the winner.


As for seduction I like the above idea.

Good luck,

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RE: Help with seducing my Dom! - 2/24/2006 11:25:24 PM   
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Why does it not work sometimes? He doesn't like redheads or girls that act coy???


There are men who don't like redheads?

st50

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RE: Help with seducing my Dom! - 2/25/2006 4:54:46 AM   
Littlepita


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Why does it not work sometimes? He doesn't like redheads or girls that act coy???


There are men who don't like redheads?

st50



Well, none that I have actually met.

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RE: Help with seducing my Dom! - 2/25/2006 5:58:18 AM   
NeedToUseYou


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Status: offline 		Don't know if you already left or not. But here's what would drive me crazy.

Tell him you want to lose, because you need it so bad. That you don't care if you lose, you just need him in you, etc..... Start going over the most twisted scenes you think you might do if you lose, and beg for him to do them to you now. That's the point of the whole affair, is so he can prove, you don't own him sexually. So, if you say that the first day, and just focus on what he'd do if you lost(which is what he really wants). He's bound to break down.

That's my best strategy I can think of.

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RE: Help with seducing my Dom! - 2/25/2006 7:47:16 AM   
Cloudz


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Why does it not work sometimes? He doesn't like redheads or girls that act coy???


There are men who don't like redheads?

st50



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RE: Help with seducing my Dom! - 2/26/2006 2:33:27 PM   
slavejali


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I just thought of something else re your meeting with your Master..its not really on topic though...so forgive me.

One of the things I experienced just before meeting Master was "panic". Even when i was at the airport waiting for him to arrive, i really had fright and flight syndrome. i just wanted to mention that in case your nerves take over...the thing that helped me was just to keep repeating "its going to be alright..its going to be alright".

Also, not to be too hard on yourself or him, if everything doesnt go exactly as planned, it is going to be a whole new learning curve getting to know each other in the flesh..i guess you already know all this..but im so excited and nervous and everything for you.

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