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mnottertail -> RE: Help with seducing my Dom! (2/26/2006 2:38:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: slavejali How long to go now Pita? I just thought of something else re your meeting with your Master..its not really on topic though...so forgive me. One of the things I experienced just before meeting Master was "panic". Even when i was at the airport waiting for him to arrive, i really had fright and flight syndrome. i just wanted to mention that in case your nerves take over...the thing that helped me was just to keep repeating "its going to be alright..its going to be alright". Also, not to be too hard on yourself or him, if everything doesnt go exactly as planned, it is going to be a whole new learning curve getting to know each other in the flesh..i guess you already know all this..but im so excited and nervous and everything for you. This is probably the most fucking profound and useful thought here to date.......... To futher this thought.........YOU WILL PANIC........wallow around in that a little, before you flip out and decide shit ain't right........... Well said slavejali....... Ron

slavejali -> RE: Help with seducing my Dom! (2/26/2006 2:49:10 PM)
Another thing: Are you going to take anything when you first meet? Something to give him, or something to represent your relationship? I made a bouquet. It was made with switches from a willow tree I had on the property and i entwined roses in it. It ended up on the airport floor, i just dropped it when He embraced me.

angelic -> RE: Help with seducing my Dom! (2/26/2006 3:02:36 PM)
i've said this before and quite frankly surprised i seem to be the only one concerned. Unless i seriously missed something here, she is going to 'move in' with One she's never met. There is no 'first meet' this is it!! i almost suggested for the seducing of Him, tell Him you were getting a hotel and wanted to meet in a public place... figured i would get majorly outvoted here. i'm still concerned though, but that doesn't mean i don't wish her the best. i do

slavejali -> RE: Help with seducing my Dom! (2/26/2006 3:14:57 PM)
angelic: i can hear your concerns I would be the first one to recommend someone be safe...........but...to be honest...i didnt live out my own advice.....5 hours after meeting Master He had me alone in a house with the nearest neighbour was miles away...no one would hear me scream..i didnt do any safecall thingies..nothing.. which i know logically it was kinda stupid..but thats what i did. But saying that...i had done my homework..previous to him coming, He was known in the scene, he had references, he had proofs he wasnt an axe murderer...so really i didnt think i was taking much of a risk. As long as Pita has done her homework i feel ok for her.

mnottertail -> RE: Help with seducing my Dom! (2/26/2006 3:27:34 PM)
angelic, I first of all would like to assure you that she is minnesotan, and we don't kill easy, see? Seriously tho, it is my understanding from posts here and in other venues, that she has done her homework. Ron

angelic -> RE: Help with seducing my Dom! (2/26/2006 3:30:36 PM)
ok... i will put the worrying mom part of me to rest.

angelic -> RE: Help with seducing my Dom! (2/26/2006 3:37:51 PM)
pita i DO wish you nothing but happiness!!!

Wildfleurs -> RE: Help with seducing my Dom! (2/26/2006 3:43:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: angelic i've said this before and quite frankly surprised i seem to be the only one concerned. Unless i seriously missed something here, she is going to 'move in' with One she's never met. There is no 'first meet' this is it!! i almost suggested for the seducing of Him, tell Him you were getting a hotel and wanted to meet in a public place... figured i would get majorly outvoted here. i'm still concerned though, but that doesn't mean i don't wish her the best. i do Just so you know you aren't the only one frankly I think its absolutely irresponsible especially when unmentionables are involved in a decision like this. But...... Its not my life, so I wish pita and her dominant luck and happieness. C~

Littlepita -> RE: Help with seducing my Dom! (2/26/2006 3:54:17 PM)
Thank you all for your concern and advice. I really do appreciate it! ((hugs)) Slavejali you are so dead on with your post about panic. We have been planning this for so long and I have been doing great with it all. But, today it has hit me so hard. Almost to the point of panic which I am wallowing in [;)] My Joe has been incredible with me and has let me voice all my fears and listen to me with such patience. He has shared his own fears with me which has helped a lot. It is true that we have never met face to face and that we are brand new to this lifestyle. We do plan to take the D/s fairly slowly. We do truly love each other. We have had over 10 months online and phone where we have talked at least 4 hours a day. He has never done one thing to make me not believe he is exactly who he says he is. We have shared so much that I have no doubt we are going to be great together. Yeah, I’m freaking out about seeing him face to face and we know it will be a transition. We know we have to go slow and continue to communicate. More then anything we are friends and he wants to help me get on my feet and be able to take care of myself. He has already done so much for me and has been the most supportive person I have ever met. I trust him and really believe that trust will just get stronger after we are together. But, to ease your mind Angelic. [:)]He will be coming to my sister’s home to pick me up and will meet the family. We are moving where my parents are a very short distance away and if I have any problems they will be there for me. Now, I’m upset that I don’t have anything for him besides myself. I will have to see what I can come up with. Your idea was lovely Jali Oh and to answer the most important question! We have 4 days to go! Oh my!!!! [:D]

angelic -> RE: Help with seducing my Dom! (2/26/2006 4:26:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Littlepita Thank you all for your concern and advice. I really do appreciate it! ((hugs)) Slavejali you are so dead on with your post about panic. We have been planning this for so long and I have been doing great with it all. But, today it has hit me so hard. Almost to the point of panic which I am wallowing in [;)] My Joe has been incredible with me and has let me voice all my fears and listen to me with such patience. He has shared his own fears with me which has helped a lot. It is true that we have never met face to face and that we are brand new to this lifestyle. We do plan to take the D/s fairly slowly. We do truly love each other. We have had over 10 months online and phone where we have talked at least 4 hours a day. He has never done one thing to make me not believe he is exactly who he says he is. We have shared so much that I have no doubt we are going to be great together. Yeah, I’m freaking out about seeing him face to face and we know it will be a transition. We know we have to go slow and continue to communicate. More then anything we are friends and he wants to help me get on my feet and be able to take care of myself. He has already done so much for me and has been the most supportive person I have ever met. I trust him and really believe that trust will just get stronger after we are together. But, to ease your mind Angelic. [:)]He will be coming to my sister’s home to pick me up and will meet the family. We are moving where my parents are a very short distance away and if I have any problems they will be there for me. Now, I’m upset that I don’t have anything for him besides myself. I will have to see what I can come up with. Your idea was lovely Jali Oh and to answer the most important question! We have 4 days to go! Oh my!!!! [:D] pita, you didn't have to share that with me about Him meeting your parents and that you are a short distance away... i cannot express how much that eased my mind... NOW i'm happy! LOL

mnottertail -> RE: Help with seducing my Dom! (2/26/2006 4:34:29 PM)
OK, this is too far afield, I would like to help you littlepita but I am not that way, you will have to seduce him all by yourself, ok? I mean, for fuck's sake that's what this post is about!!!!!!! LOLOLOL, Go get 'em, tiger. Ron

Littlepita -> RE: Help with seducing my Dom! (2/26/2006 4:34:58 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: angelic pita, you didn't have to share that with me about Him meeting your parents and that you are a short distance away... i cannot express how much that eased my mind... NOW i'm happy! LOL Good! I want everyone to be happy for me and what I am doing. And believe me you are not the first one to voice these concerns. I hear about it from my mother on a weekly basis. [:)]

Vancouver_cinful -> RE: Help with seducing my Dom! (2/26/2006 4:39:42 PM)
Very excited for you, Pita!! Can't wait to hear how things turned out. I would try to seduce by coyly dropping comments through the day about things you have fantasized about him doing to you all these months you've been waiting...Reading erotic stories is a good idea, too. Especially if you write them yourself about the two of you. Combine that with accidental exposure and a lot of blushing. LOL I'm reassured to hear that you are near family. It's nice to have that support. May things go wonderfully. Cin

Littlepita -> RE: Help with seducing my Dom! (2/26/2006 4:49:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Vancouver_cinful Very excited for you, Pita!! Can't wait to hear how things turned out. I would try to seduce by coyly dropping comments through the day about things you have fantasized about him doing to you all these months you've been waiting...Reading erotic stories is a good idea, too. Especially if you write them yourself about the two of you. Combine that with accidental exposure and a lot of blushing. LOL I'm reassured to hear that you are near family. It's nice to have that support. May things go wonderfully. Cin Thank you so much Cin. That is a very good idea about the reading a story to him. He has been reading me stories over the phone since we met. He has always said he would love to have me read one to him. I don't have time to write my own, but I know I can find something that might just get his blood pumping. [;)]

Petruchio -> RE: Help with seducing my Dom! (2/26/2006 5:06:48 PM)
Once when I had bought a gift, I laid a trail of Hershey kisses from the bed to where the gift was hiddent.

Vancouver_cinful -> RE: Help with seducing my Dom! (2/26/2006 5:34:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Littlepita I don't have time to write my own, but I know I can find something that might just get his blood pumping. [;)] I'm a writer, and have a huge store of erotic stories...and have written tailor-made stories for people based on their fantasies before, as well...Email me on the other side if you want to chat more about it. Cin

Littlepita -> RE: Help with seducing my Dom! (2/26/2006 6:15:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Vancouver_cinful quote: ORIGINAL: Littlepita I don't have time to write my own, but I know I can find something that might just get his blood pumping. [;)] I'm a writer, and have a huge store of erotic stories...and have written tailor-made stories for people based on their fantasies before, as well...Email me on the other side if you want to chat more about it. Cin You have mail. [:)]

Littlepita -> RE: Help with seducing my Dom! (3/8/2006 5:25:57 AM)
Hello everyone!! I thought I would update anyone that was interested in what has happened to me since last I wrote. Well, it has been one week today since my Joe came to pick me up in Florida and take me to our new home in Georgia. It has been the most incredible week of my life. We are so in love and so happy. My Dom is simply the most awesome man I have ever met. I got my collar, which is so beautiful on our 4th day, it's silver with beautiful heart like scroll work and in the middle hangs a purple rose, which drops down to two different purple stones encased in silver. I also got an anklet that is silver with little slave bells and the BDSM symbol on it. I just love the way it sounds when I walk. We also signed our contract that my Joe had written just for us to reflect exactly what we are and what we want. OK, I know you all want to know about the challenge. I don't think it will come as a big shock to any of you when I say that I lost. I sort of figured I would. My Joe explained to me that of course he had to win. He had to show me that he can always be in control and if he would have lost control with the challenge then perhaps I wouldn't trust him to keep control later when I would need to be assured that he was in control. I did understand that and I respect him so much for it. However!!! I still got my prize. I had decided on an ID braclett that would say His pita on it. But, then in the jewelry store that my Joe likes and has used for other things for me, we found the most beautiful braclett. It is siver with inlaid onyx, tourquiose and gold. It is on a beautiful sterling silver chain. We didn't want to engrave the back of the plate that the stones are on so he bought me a siver ID braclett at another place and had the name engraved on it and the jeweler will put the plate on the braclett from his store. So on one side of my wrist I will have the beautiful braclett and the other side of my wrist will be the ID plate with the name His pita on it. There is a little dangly heart on the ID plate too. I just love it so much!!! I am for sure the most loved and spoiled little girl! It is a wonderful feeling that I have never known before. Thanks for reading and letting me gush. I'm off to have breakfast and start our day. My Sir has told me that today I will be put across the spanking bench and pushed a little to see what I can take. Mmmmm I sure hope I can take alot!! I already know that I love the floggers and spankings very, very much! [:D]

slavejali -> RE: Help with seducing my Dom! (3/8/2006 5:42:49 AM)
Its great to hear from you Pita! and im so glad everything is going wonderfully!

MHOO314 -> RE: Help with seducing my Dom! (3/8/2006 6:38:55 AM)
YEAH!!!!!!!!!!!! We are so relieved and so very happy!

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