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jthaddeus -> Clubs and public/semi-public scenes (8/19/2009 11:00:13 PM)

Hello,

I live in LA, and I'm curious about clubs, and the people who do public/semi-public scenes. I'd like to find out more, and I think, I might even want to try this, but for now, I want to just find out what's going on. Is the right first step to visit a club and see what they do, or should I approach someone who does this personally, and ask for introductions that way?

If I should start by going to a club and seeing what the score is, if anyone could recommend LA clubs which are friendly to those who are new to the whole thing, I would greatly appreciate it.

Thank you very much.

Sincerely,

-- j



GreedyTop -> RE: Clubs and public/semi-public scenes (8/19/2009 11:02:52 PM)

google Lair De Sade. 

Drop them an email, let them know youre new to the clubbing thing.. Kane is a wonderful guy....



LadyPact -> RE: Clubs and public/semi-public scenes (8/19/2009 11:11:26 PM)

One of the establishments that I hope to visit soon Myself.  I've heard some good things about the place.



GreedyTop -> RE: Clubs and public/semi-public scenes (8/19/2009 11:15:58 PM)

obviously, I havent been in a while.. . but I always enjoyed the space.    Clean, well set up, and comfy.  



OsideGirl -> RE: Clubs and public/semi-public scenes (8/20/2009 7:36:36 AM)

Absolutely. Let Kane know that you're new and he'll take you around and make you feel comfortable.



AnimusRex -> RE: Clubs and public/semi-public scenes (8/20/2009 9:36:43 AM)

kim and I are members of Lair De Sade, and enjoy our occasional trips there. We play publicly, since we enjoy being watched. The facilities are very nice, clean and well-equipped, and yes, Kane is a good guy, and the people are pretty friendly.

The best way to start is to attend one of their Insights, a non-play Saturday afternoon open house and discussion sessions- you can get in without being a member, and get to know the place without the pressure of scening.

Welcome, and best of luck.



Mercnbeth -> RE: Clubs and public/semi-public scenes (8/20/2009 10:02:53 AM)

 
The Threshold Society
quote:

...Threshold exists in order to help those who wish, to explore this lifestyle and expand their  personal horizons.  We are not here for, and will actively shun, those just interested in prurient entertainment. Therefore, we ask that you contact us only if you are truly interested in finding out about becoming a member and are able to be in the Southern California area...


Lair De Sade
quote:


Over 6,700 square feet, multiple buildings, a basement, a kitchen and three rest rooms all set up and furnished for your enjoyment...Lair De Sade is a members only club and is not open to the general public. However, non-members may attent The Lairs 'Insight', if accompanied by a current member or by presenting an invitation (which may be obtained by writing to us)...


Passive Arts Studios
quote:

...the Nations largest, most elegant and best equipped dungeon. Fully air conditioned and heated, cleaned daily and filled with state of the art equipment, PAS has a total of 7 complete theme rooms and Dungeons in 7000 square feet plus a 2500 square foot social area complete with stage and lighting...


Sanctuary
quote:

...Sanctuary is a Los Angeles-based pansexual organization comprised of people of all genders, sexual identity and sexual orientation who have an interest in the exchange of power within The BDSM and Leather Lifestyle. The purpose of the organization is to provide a supportive environment for it's members to learn, understand and practice the art of  safe, sane and consensual Power Exchange between consenting adults.
Sanctuary, as an organization, strives to promote awareness of the B/D, D/s and S/M lifestyles through education and understanding by providing social and educational opportunities such as Munches, Socials, Play Parties, Seminars, Discussions and Workshops for it's members, although many events are open to non-members as well...




Stephann -> RE: Clubs and public/semi-public scenes (8/20/2009 10:27:39 AM)

The Lair's a great place to start, and Merc listed most of the regular dungeons.  There's also Dragon's Gate in OC,

http://www.dragonsgatestudios.com/main_set.html

If the 'clubbing' scene is more your style and you enjoy goth/industrial tones to your fun, you can also check out Club Hell this coming Wednesday (and every last Wednesday of the month)

http://www.industry-la.com/

There's also FetishNation, every second Saturday at Circus

http://www.myspace.com/fetishnation

And Bar Sinister, every Saturday

http://www.barsinister.net/home.php

That's probably about as exhaustive of a list as you'll find of regular events. 

Stephan



jthaddeus -> RE: Clubs and public/semi-public scenes (8/21/2009 7:53:20 AM)

Thank you all. It sounds like I've got a fun little bit of research to do =)
Unfortunately, I'm about to be out of area for a brief family obligation, but as soon as I get back I'll start down a few of these paths and see where they lead.

Once again, Thank you. It's much appreciated. :)

-- j



AcademyForSlaves -> RE: Clubs and public/semi-public scenes (8/21/2009 11:22:44 PM)

Hi.

I love doing bdsm in public with a sub but only if the sub is into it. Makes it more fun if we're both having a good time.

Try munches and parties first and then see if you can handle doing it in public.

Hope this helps.



pompeii -> RE: Clubs and public/semi-public scenes (8/22/2009 2:29:52 AM)

Come up to San Francisco and the Silicon Valley where you can experience the Citadel and Edges (and, I'm sure, a few others I don't know about).

PS: No more the venerable Power Exchange (love it or hate it, it's gone for good) ...



WyldHrt -> RE: Clubs and public/semi-public scenes (8/22/2009 3:38:26 AM)

I have to 4th... no, 5th...wait... 6th? the Lair De Sade. I've only been there twice, as I'm not local, but really liked the facilities and atmosphere. As has been said, Kane is a good guy and very newb friendly. 



TickledToDeath -> RE: Clubs and public/semi-public scenes (8/22/2009 1:19:35 PM)

I have heard good things about "Passive Arts". I do believe it is in the LA vicinity.



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