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jay737 -> Sensual Dominance/submission (8/21/2009 3:34:10 AM)
I’ve just been looking into Sensual Dominance/submission. From what I have learned this defines the very essence of what I am about. Just reading the articles felt like all my inner desires were taken straight from my mind. I consider my self a sensual Submissive seeking a Sensual Dominant. Take a look at this article http://www.virtual-bdsm.com/sensualdominance.html be interesting to hear your thoughts on it.

LillyoftheVally -> RE: Sensual Dominance/submission (8/21/2009 3:40:20 AM)
What is your actual question?

Cloudz -> RE: Sensual Dominance/submission (8/21/2009 3:42:36 AM)
Was there a point, other than to out yourself as a sensual sub?

jay737 -> RE: Sensual Dominance/submission (8/21/2009 4:19:26 AM)
Just getting to know new things maybe I was a bit naive in thinking it was some kind of new concept well it was to me anyway. Just wanted to hear other peoples opinions not trying to just out myself I’ll delete the post if it angers you that much.

LillyoftheVally -> RE: Sensual Dominance/submission (8/21/2009 4:24:18 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: jay737 Just getting to know new things maybe I was a bit naive in thinking it was some kind of new concept well it was to me anyway. Just wanted to hear other peoples opinions not trying to just out myself I’ll delete the post if it angers you that much. Ahh well there was a thread with a lot of talk of sensual submission recently, try doing a search before informing us of things? And maybe ask a question to spark debate. I know you are new, so benifit of the doubt.

AcademyForSlaves -> RE: Sensual Dominance/submission (8/21/2009 11:12:56 PM)
Hi. I agree that sensual domination is fantastic. Lots of slaves we've trained are into sexual domination, teasing, sex slavery and chastity. Some men submit better when you control their cock.

ServiceNeeded -> RE: Sensual Dominance/submission (8/21/2009 11:30:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: jay737 Just getting to know new things maybe I was a bit naive in thinking it was some kind of new concept well it was to me anyway. Just wanted to hear other peoples opinions not trying to just out myself I’ll delete the post if it angers you that much. Jay, don't delete anything! people on here are just haters sometimes and not very welcoming ahem of clearly new people.... Maybe next time a more direct question like "Does anyone consider themselves a sensual sub/dom?" or "what is something that would help a sensual sub __?" "what was your best sensual domination experience?" ---- will help you spark the discussion you are wanting. Though it is clear you were just wanting general comments, it is hard for people to respond on something they know will be read by a lot of people to a stranger, lol, & hard to just pick something to add, so a more direct question might get things going. You were in no way offensive, demanding, or rude so why someone would reply as if so I don't know, it just wasn't clear what specifically you were wanting to talk about or wondering about that is all. I don't think any attitude was necesary at all, you were clearly not rude or demanding, if someone doesn't like it they can have some manners and pass over it rather than calling you out in public for nothing. It does not encourage discussion or new people and serves no purpose. So don't take it too much to heart they probably didn't mean anything by it and it is the internets! ;P lol Besides, realisticly everything in the history of the world has probably been discussed before, so whatever if someone wants to discuss it again, explore themselves, invite new people to discuss that is fine. It's not a forum for "research" it's discussion -- there are new people every time that might have something else to add or someone might just want to talk & explore themselves. That is what it is about, interaction, not just looking stuff up online so I think it is nice you wanted to participate. It is better than sitting on the sidelines and not trying to explore what you want/etc. Congrats :) See ya 'round & welcome to the jungle I guess! LOL [8D] haha

sirsholly -> RE: Sensual Dominance/submission (8/21/2009 11:38:26 PM)
welcome to the boards Jay. In addition to your post there is the "search" function on the top right of your screen. It will bring up many of the past threads on this topic.[:)]

Cloudz -> RE: Sensual Dominance/submission (8/22/2009 2:50:26 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: jay737 Just getting to know new things maybe I was a bit naive in thinking it was some kind of new concept well it was to me anyway. Just wanted to hear other peoples opinions not trying to just out myself I’ll delete the post if it angers you that much. No anger dear boy...just a question. No - the concept is not new, only your awareness of it is. Relax and read the boards for a bit. You will learn a lot and may enjoy the journey. Be well.

LdyyR -> RE: Sensual Dominance/submission (8/22/2009 7:05:41 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: jay737 I’ve just been looking into Sensual Dominance/submission. From what I have learned this defines the very essence of what I am about. Just reading the articles felt like all my inner desires were taken straight from my mind. I consider my self a sensual Submissive seeking a Sensual Dominant. Take a look at this article http://www.virtual-bdsm.com/sensualdominance.html be interesting to hear your thoughts on it. Jay, Welcome to the boards. When I first got into the lifestyle, sensual domination was my only focus, then picked up a paddle, pulled some hair, met some service subs heard searing cries, saw some interesting red marks, etc. But I do understand where you are coming from as I could still revert to having my first love as my one and only. Maybe.

ShaktiSama -> RE: Sensual Dominance/submission (8/22/2009 8:03:28 AM)
Thoughts? Hmm. Well, I have always thought that the division between Sensual bdsm and "the other kind" could be a false one, in at least one respect. Sensual dominants are not as limited as one might think in their range of partners. As a senusalist, I'm not necessarily incompatible with more a hard-core masochist in the bedroom. The only thing I have to do is be sure that I'm working with a masochist for whom pain genuinely IS pleasure, and who does not have too much ambivalence about his/her needs. I.e., my partner gets a rush of endorphins and arousal from pain which intensifies desire, stimulation and ultimately orgasm. My partner does not need to be genuinely victimized by a Twue Sadist who is indifferent or actively turned off by a partner receiving pleasure from play. Very few things are MORE sensual than tormenting the right kind of masochist. But as a sensualist, I have to steer clear of the guys and gals for whom pain is necessary, but not sexual or pleasurable. And I can't do much with the people who want to prove their love or devotion by suffering pain or humiliation that doesn't excite them sexually.

Missokyst -> RE: Sensual Dominance/submission (8/22/2009 8:26:31 AM)
Having just seen another one of these on the other forum I will say one thing more It is starting to piss me off that so many who are new to this assume it is all about pain. Sado masochism is a part of what we do for SOME, but not for all. Bondage Discipline is a part of this for SOME but not for all. Domination and submission is a part of this for SOME but not for all. Some people do not get off on pain. Some people are bored with bondage or they actually obey, and don't need discipline. Some people are not into power, they are into activity. Why are so many focused on the stuff they seen on crime shows? Pleasure, pain, sensual dominance, cave man style.. look around, it is out there. But keeping the belief that bdsm is some evil that promotes pain.. sheesh.

liks2plzlf -> RE: Sensual Dominance/submission (8/24/2009 8:54:00 AM)
I prefer to be a sensual sub then, but it is not all up to me.

DominaDaphne -> RE: Sensual Dominance/submission (8/24/2009 12:18:03 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ShaktiSama As a senusalist, I'm not necessarily incompatible with more a hard-core masochist in the bedroom. The only thing I have to do is be sure that I'm working with a masochist for whom pain genuinely IS pleasure, and who does not have too much ambivalence about his/her needs. I.e., my partner gets a rush of endorphins and arousal from pain which intensifies desire, stimulation and ultimately orgasm. So well put! Especially because I was reconnecting with a sub I haven't seen in more than a year recently, recalled that he "liked having his balls cropped", and well into the scene watched in some awe as I got into a rhythm with the crop until he came with no other physical contact at all. Wow. Now I need to make sure he gets sufficient after-care next time, he was out sailing in gusty winds within the hour (his choice) and was off his game as pilot from being so subspacy beforehand.

live4edgeplay -> RE: Sensual Dominance/submission (8/24/2009 8:22:36 PM)
personally, I love sensuous edge play by a skilled Lady! for some reason, there is nothing better than serving a Lady while She is teasing and taunting and building that level of energy and excitement! hard to explain, but it's the greatest thing I've ever experienced!

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