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TimrehIX -> RE: Mixed messages on Chastity (8/27/2009 3:21:57 PM)
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ORIGINAL: thishereboi
I would have to wonder about that also. When my mistress didn't want me to masturbate, she told me to keep my hands off it and I did. Maybe it is different for men, but I would think if your mistress says don't touch, you don't touch. Why would you have to be locked away from it in order to do what your told?
I am a horn dog. If left to my own devices I can cum 3 to 6 times in an afternoon. When told not to cum it takes significant effort not to, especially when the Doms I talk to are mostly just e-people. When the only contact I have with a person is through email or instant message, it’s hard to keep motivated not to jack off. It’s not like they will know. (Though I will cop to it when asked.) If I meet a guy in person and he forbids me from cumming I have no guarantee he will ever schedule a time to meet up again, so why deny myself for some one I might not see again.
With a chastity device you know this is an ongoing situation. You are actually restraining yourself for some one who gives a shit. You will see them again they are interested in you enough to send you away with a few hundred dollars worth of hardware attached to your junk.
My biggest concern with the wearing chastity for a long period of time is the possibility of it being discovered. I would try to get a plastic lock with a serial number, or be sent home with a key that has been made inaccessible some how. I like the idea of putting it in an envelope the Dom has sealed with wax. That has all kinds of symbolism to it.
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