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shibariplease -> Sissification HTF? (8/23/2009 12:37:10 AM)
I'm really not trying to flame here, but I just tried something to this effect via webcam and I have to know. HOW THE HELLLLL is THIS SUPPOSED TO BE STIMULATING!? It's a fetish, which means SOMEBODY likes it. Why???? whats so great about it? It does absolutely nothing for me and I wanna know how it would do something for someone who likes it. Whats the mindset?! I mean really that had to have been the worst spent 40 minutes of my entire life and I can say that truthfully. I know it sounds like a rant it half-way is. I still want to know how ppl like this.

VanIsleKnight -> RE: Sissification HTF? (8/23/2009 12:43:01 AM)
What -is- sissification anyways?

dreamerdreaming -> RE: Sissification HTF? (8/23/2009 1:27:58 AM)
Humiliation, maybe? Not sayin' its that for all the boys- some are just cross-dressers. But for the ones who are getting off on the D/s aspect of it, it seems to me its about control, and humiliation. YUM. What if I asked you what's so great about shibari?? It does nothing for me, but its your kink. So that's fine- enjoy it. YKINMK.

thesubmissiveboy -> RE: Sissification HTF? (9/12/2009 8:03:46 AM)
I tried it once as part of a humiliation punishment. Heels, wig, tartan skirt, the full works and it really didn't do anything for me. But it was very effective in humiliating me in front of two rather attractive girls. It made them laugh which I guess is the important thing.

onlyfreelycaged -> RE: Sissification HTF? (9/12/2009 8:35:51 AM)
there's just something about a man in a dress that drives me wild.. now, what a guy sees in having his cock sucked on, I'll never be able to understand.

sweetsub1957 -> RE: Sissification HTF? (9/12/2009 9:23:39 AM)
It's a fetish, which means SOMEBODY likes it. Why???? whats so great about it? The same thing could be said about being tied up, spanked, or anything else for that matter. Rope makes me go bananas, but it leaves others I know cold. I don't see what's so great about sissification either, but some people go bananas over either doing or seeing it. It's just a matter of respecting & allowing others their kinks even if we don't like those kinks.

krosiema -> RE: Sissification HTF? (9/12/2009 10:07:18 AM)
Maybe it helps being submissive, since society sees being a man as one who doesn't cry, who's emotionally stoic, etc etc.? Of course, I'm a girl, so I guess I'll never know.

mnottertail -> RE: Sissification HTF? (9/12/2009 11:07:20 AM)
WTF is HTF? RNM

JstAnotherSub -> RE: Sissification HTF? (9/12/2009 12:15:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mnottertail WTF is HTF? RNM hes the female? cmh

stella41b -> RE: Sissification HTF? (9/12/2009 12:37:44 PM)
All I can say is here is that I'm not convinced. Not one bit. If this really was something that you're just not into, or really that unpleasant to you, then why start a thread on it? Why demand justification or an explanation from others who are into it when you so very clearly claim you're not into it? Why not just move on and forget about it? I mean, either you are into it, or you're not. And if you are, then why don't you just admit it instead of all this big brouhaha pissing on it and putting it down? Why start a thread by making all those contradictory statements? If you're so damn sure you're not into it and it doesn't float your boat, then surely the why isn't important. If you want others to be honest with you then you have to be honest with them. A big part of that is being honest with yourself. And it's that which I feel contains much more of the answer to your question 'why' than what me or anyone else here can provide you with. Just sayin'

VampiresLair -> RE: Sissification HTF? (9/12/2009 12:42:42 PM)
You enjoy shibari... why? How is that stimulating? What works for some doesnt for others. Fox gets off on being tied up and overpowered, but he is completely and utterly turned off by humiliation. Others get completely turned off by overpower play, but turned on by humiliation. Point is, what FOX likes, which is why we enjoy it. I dont rightly care what other people get into, as long as he and I are happy. Point is, what does it matter to you what someone else gets out of it? It still isnt going to work for you. You tried, you found a limit. Good for you, so now you know not to try again. Trying to understand why it turns someone else on sint going to make it turn you on. I understand why a sub gets turned on, but subbing still wont do jack for me. Live and let live. DV

Lashra -> RE: Sissification HTF? (9/12/2009 12:58:34 PM)
Well you discovered something, it just ain't your kink. So you can toss the memory into the trash can and forget about it, put it as a hard limit on your resume. For me I love to dress my man up in fem clothing and do very naughty things to him, he loves it, I love it. It is just how we roll sometimes. ~Lashra

OsideGirl -> RE: Sissification HTF? (9/12/2009 1:04:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: shibariplease It's a fetish, which means SOMEBODY likes it. Why???? whats so great about it? It does absolutely nothing for me and I wanna know how it would do something for someone who likes it. Whats the mindset?! I mean really that had to have been the worst spent 40 minutes of my entire life and I can say that truthfully. I know it sounds like a rant it half-way is. I still want to know how ppl like this. Somewhere out there is someone thinking the same thing about something you like. Move on.

mnottertail -> RE: Sissification HTF? (9/12/2009 1:06:29 PM)
and there is also someone beating off to the way you spelled punishment with the extra e, OP... all kinda people make up this world.

KYsissy -> RE: Sissification HTF? (9/12/2009 1:21:25 PM)
quote: and there is also someone beating off to the way you spelled punishment with the extra e, OP... all kinda people make up this world. I came to the conclusion a long time ago, if you can imagine it, someone is into it.

mnottertail -> RE: Sissification HTF? (9/12/2009 1:23:32 PM)
What the mind can conceive and believe, the mind can achieve. W. Clement Stone or was it Napoleon Hill

windchymes -> RE: Sissification HTF? (9/12/2009 6:29:00 PM)
Scottish tartan plaid tams and scarves do it for me. [:)]

DavanKael -> RE: Sissification HTF? (9/12/2009 7:07:28 PM)
I'm not into it either , OP. I'm not sure why this warrants a thread with the tone/approach you have taken, as some others have pointed out. I will say that the well-placed coffee cup in thesubmissiveboy's pic made the thread worth visiting. :> Davan

DemonKia -> RE: Sissification HTF? (9/12/2009 7:25:41 PM)
FR, after read thru Since it is possible to learn how to achieve sexual ecstasy thru the act of breathing, everything else is gravy . . . . . (& BDSM is organized & labeled gravy of the specified types . . . . )

DavanKael -> RE: Sissification HTF? (9/12/2009 9:50:38 PM)
Hey, Kia---- If you know how to do that, if you would send me detailed instructions, I would be eternally grateful! ;> Davan

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