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rockspider -> RE: The ultimate orgasm (11/16/2009 12:34:52 AM)
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I don't know about this is the same thing we are talking about. But it is a state I have only been able to achieve with a few women in my life. Even with them it would not be something they could achieve on command every time. The absolute best way to get there is on a kind of holiday or even at home when you have a whole lazy relaxing day without interruptions. Not that you have sex during the day, more that both is enjoying themselves and know that come sometimes in the evening something special is going to happen. It is great in a 5 star seaside tropical resort but certainly can happen at home as well.
What I do is upon getting in the bedroom is chaining her up in the fairly common spread-eagled position on a nice big double bed. Not tight at all, she must have plenty of room to move but unable to touch herself or me. That kind of thing. I will slowly massage her but staying clear of her pussy and start playing with her body for really long time. Both in a teasing but also caressing way. Meanwhile I constantly talk to her in a soft nearly monotone voice telling her what she looks like, what I am doing, going to do and that kind of stuff. The touches will often stray toward her pussy but never actually touch, like now I am going to but changing my mind in the last moment. Well she would certainly make it known both vocally and with her body language that it really is what she wants more than anything else. After this has been going on for quite considerable time I do start stimulating her pussy. It could be with fingers, vibrators or orally but I always only do this until she is just hanging on the edge of the orgasm. I will then withdraw. It is very much a game of knowing her body and keeping her a knife edge from exploding. Sooner or later she will like loose contact with me and really turn like mentally in to herself. The signs to look for is that she stops looking at you and like floats away. That is when I finally push her the last little bit. When that orgasm do come it is awesome some scream like they are in a slaughterhouse, some sounds like animals. I normally do the penetration there which some finds totally awesome while other didn’t even notice. They all described it different but something like irresistible waves travelling the length of the entire length of their body, was something fitting in most. I always remove the restraint then. One just lay there completely in the same position saying nothing but would like shiver every few minutes for long time. She later described it as a feeling of total exhaustion and the shivers like mini orgasms she just couldn’t stop. Well the next day she would be like a kitten constantly touching and like trying to get closer and closer. She would say her whole body still tingled and any touch would feel like fire. We did on those occasion have sex multiple times but not try and repeat the performance of the day before. She used to say that at least 2 days in between was needed. Well we did spend a 2 week holiday somewhere and on the third day the restraints was on the bed. The oils, vibrators and all the other paraphernalia in place.
I don’t know about this is what the OP describe. But it the best I have seen. It is not every woman it can be done with. Lots seem to be hard to keep on that knife edge and then others becomes desensitized or the opposite where it just hurts. Also the paramount thing is to know her body. The more, the better. So it takes time.
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