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is it possible??????????????????? - 8/24/2009 8:13:38 AM   
lamsub2009


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Status: offline 		to intertwine d/s bdsm and swinging? my dom and i were just wondering what everyone thinks about this.....we have found that it is extremely hard to mix these things. our ultimate would be to take our everyday d/s life and throw in some of our love for bdsm and mix it with swinging, not sure if that can ever work but we wanted to know what ya'll thought....would love to hear from ya'll.........
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RE: is it possible??????????????????? - 8/24/2009 8:14:57 AM   
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RE: is it possible??????????????????? - 8/24/2009 8:15:14 AM   
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RE: is it possible??????????????????? - 8/24/2009 8:18:06 AM   
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Status: offline 		I personally know at least 4 couples that do both. 

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RE: is it possible??????????????????? - 8/24/2009 9:41:56 AM   
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Status: offline 		funny im having a hard time seeing how it wouldnt work!

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RE: is it possible??????????????????? - 8/24/2009 9:43:29 AM   
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ORIGINAL: lamsub2009

to intertwine d/s bdsm and swinging? my dom and i were just wondering what everyone thinks about this.....we have found that it is extremely hard to mix these things. our ultimate would be to take our everyday d/s life and throw in some of our love for bdsm and mix it with swinging, not sure if that can ever work but we wanted to know what ya'll thought....would love to hear from ya'll.........

Just do it!


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RE: is it possible??????????????????? - 8/24/2009 10:55:40 AM   
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Status: offline 		Substitute M/s for D/s and aye we do it. 

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RE: is it possible??????????????????? - 8/24/2009 11:17:35 AM   
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ORIGINAL: lamsub2009

to intertwine d/s bdsm and swinging? my dom and i were just wondering what everyone thinks about this.....we have found that it is extremely hard to mix these things. our ultimate would be to take our everyday d/s life and throw in some of our love for bdsm and mix it with swinging, not sure if that can ever work but we wanted to know what ya'll thought....would love to hear from ya'll.........


i'm aware of many that have done so. what challenges are you encountering? without this feedback it is a little hard for us to provide suggestions.

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RE: is it possible??????????????????? - 8/24/2009 3:10:58 PM   
lamsub2009


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Status: offline 		we are having trouble finding the honest ppl that do all lol we have found that a lot of ppl say that they want to experiment with or learn but not a lot of ppl that really want to.....we also are being kinda "snubbed" by some because of the d/s bdsm. and it could also be the area....thanks to all who replied and hopefully this will help you to see what we were talking about lol

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RE: is it possible??????????????????? - 8/24/2009 4:14:35 PM   
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Status: offline 		It seems from your reply that you are going to swingers groups and trying to find BDSM.  Have you tried going to BDSM groups and seeking the swingers within them?  

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RE: is it possible??????????????????? - 8/24/2009 5:47:40 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		the majority of bdsm couples I know are swingers. It seems to go hand in hand for the most part.


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RE: is it possible??????????????????? - 8/24/2009 6:40:03 PM   
windchymes


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Status: offline 		It's not that bizarre of an idea, so you could have gotten away with half the question marks.....

It might take some time and searching, but I know a couple who used to swing and it heavily contained bdsm aspects.  (They're divorced now, though, and living in different parts of the country.)In the long run, it shouldn't be too hard to find what you're looking for.

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RE: is it possible??????????????????? - 8/24/2009 8:46:47 PM   
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Status: offline 		Seems, to me, anyone open enough to be one may as well also be the other (me included were I to have a partner to swing with).

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