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RE: Any Guys Ever Fantasize About Being Dominated by Th... - 8/24/2009 11:23:45 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Esinn

If this is the case all chicks wearing skimpy skirts must want to be raped. Especially the chick I saw 4 years ago, who I did not rape and treated kindly, with her big ole titties and shirt that said only, "Stop looking at my eyes". Forcing that gosh darn, "Rape me" dynamic.




Wait how is that even close to a similar comparison? Im sorry you have totally lost me there. To submit/dominate someone without out consent has no bearing on clothing choice and rape.

What he is saying is how many people here get pissed off when a s-type simpers calling them Master/Mistress on first meetings? How pissed would an s-type be if a bloke said kneel bitch in real life.

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RE: Any Guys Ever Fantasize About Being Dominated by Th... - 8/24/2009 11:23:47 AM   
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An adult male has admitted a fantasy about an adult female. A FANTASY!



Is that how you read it? See for me stuff like how 'if they were drunk' and 'Just act submissive around her. But I'd have to be subtle. ' makes it a little different from fantasy, a bit like comparing wanking over johnny depp to hiding under his bed.


I read it as a fantasy too.  However, I viewed it as one from a very creepy guy I would never bring my sister near.  I am sure many think I am quite the creepy with my views on religion.  So, to the creepy dude no real offense.

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RE: Any Guys Ever Fantasize About Being Dominated by Th... - 8/24/2009 11:24:25 AM   
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I didn't read anything that led me to believe anything has actually happened.

It is obvious the fellow is troubled. If he has a brain in his head he very likely is going to have a clue what most people would think about the idea. Make a fuss, either for or against, is not productive.

I have spent the greater percentage of my life around men and developing males. I could tell you storieeeeeeeeeeessssss. When the hormones kick in they get some pretty freaky ideas. Very very few of them actually do a damned thing, other than spank the monkey in the bathroom with mom's hand creme, when they think about those freaky ideas.

Anyone that does not admit or realize that guys have these sorts of crazy things roll through their head, have got their heads stuck someplace really dark.

Having the fantasy is not abnormal. As you may realize, I advised against making the fantasy a reality.


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RE: Any Guys Ever Fantasize About Being Dominated by Th... - 8/24/2009 11:26:43 AM   
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Anyone that does not admit or realize that guys have these sorts of crazy things roll through their head, have got their heads stuck someplace really dark.



To be fair, same is true of women also. We all get odd things crossing our minds, as I said we just read it differently and I agree, he shouldn't take it further at all really.

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RE: Any Guys Ever Fantasize About Being Dominated by Th... - 8/24/2009 11:26:46 AM   
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I live near a guy who appears to be dominated by his sister and also the woman who lives next door to him. Trump that!

Oh sorry, wrong thread..

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RE: Any Guys Ever Fantasize About Being Dominated by Th... - 8/24/2009 11:27:10 AM   
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you know... i have to be honest i think LaTigresse had the best advice... leave this one alone! think about your brother hitting on you.. and even if you except it.. think what mom would say... cause come one shell know shes your mom!

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RE: Any Guys Ever Fantasize About Being Dominated by Th... - 8/24/2009 11:38:29 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LillyoftheVally


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ORIGINAL: Esinn

If this is the case all chicks wearing skimpy skirts must want to be raped. Especially the chick I saw 4 years ago, who I did not rape and treated kindly, with her big ole titties and shirt that said only, "Stop looking at my eyes". Forcing that gosh darn, "Rape me" dynamic.




Wait how is that even close to a similar comparison? Im sorry you have totally lost me there. To submit/dominate someone without out consent has no bearing on clothing choice and rape.

What he is saying is how many people here get pissed off when a s-type simpers calling them Master/Mistress on first meetings? How pissed would an s-type be if a bloke said kneel bitch in real life.


I do not think the creepy guys intention was to grovel at her knees.  I do not think the creepy dude will beg for strangulation.  I see it as more creepyly (heh)  playful than forcing a dynamic..  I think everyone is getting a little edgy here.

Thanks for the correction though!  I better understand.  I still go with my gut and say it is creepy not interesting and not forced.

Possibly we can here more from the creepy dude himself.


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RE: Any Guys Ever Fantasize About Being Dominated by Th... - 8/24/2009 11:40:53 AM   
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ORIGINAL: sexisubi

you know... i have to be honest i think LaTigresse had the best advice... leave this one alone! think about your brother hitting on you.. and even if you except it.. think what mom would say... cause come one shell know shes your mom!


I am not homophobic but my brother hitting on me.  Ya, I feel ya.


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RE: Any Guys Ever Fantasize About Being Dominated by Th... - 8/24/2009 11:55:16 AM   
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ORIGINAL: udaboss

I know.  It's incestuous.  It's wrong.  It's sick.  It's incredibly perverted.


for what it's worth your post didn't bother me. nor is it uncommon at all. although many will never admit to such in an open forum like this. but others exist with themes of this nature. just google.

in response to your question, no i didn't. my older siblings were a sincere pain in the tuches and i suspect they inspired or directly contributed to my sadistic mindset. i suppose i should say thanks.

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RE: Any Guys Ever Fantasize About Being Dominated by Th... - 8/24/2009 11:56:31 AM   
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i think its normal to fantasize about anything, period. your actions beyond fantasys is what matters in the whole "is this fucked up?"

as for seducing baby sister, look at what you gain and lose, at best you have a domme that you already know,
the bad side would be she gets creeped out and you lose or destroy that relationship, destroy the relationship with other family members, people who know you both, maybe hinder your job and carrier by becoming the guy who tried fucking his sister.

your fantasy is normal in my opinion, you have someone who has displayed a dominant role over you and is unobtainable fantasy's can come from that. i think it would be a very bad idea to act on this,
some fantasys should stay in your head, i have a prison rape fantasy for example, i dont think me going into the prison system is a good idea and would not result in fantasy completed.


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RE: Any Guys Ever Fantasize About Being Dominated by Th... - 8/24/2009 11:57:44 AM   
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Jeeze does it have to be a full blown kink? Can't he just play around with her? Like flirting? I play with people every day. It's not Kink, but it's a little kinky, a litttle flirty. How the fuck else do you know if someone is interested? Do you really proposition every person when you first meet them or do you flirt and test the waters first??

Seriously. You people are some of the most conservative kinksters I have ever met. Get off the rules horse. They are there to make sure people don't get hurt. He clearly is not intending to hurt her! I am sure if he did accidentally, she'd hit him or tell him to piss off. She is his sister for crying out loud!

The answer to every question in your first paragraph can be answered with because she's his sister.

Everything under the sun that anybody can come up with isn't just ok because someone decided to label it kinky.  If you see nothing wrong with being a little kinky and a little flirty with your immediate family members, hey, more power to you.  However, there are a significant number of people on the planet that feel such things go against a certain standard of morals and ethics.  When something is against your standards, sibling D/s aside, you give your opinion, don't you?


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RE: Any Guys Ever Fantasize About Being Dominated by Th... - 8/24/2009 11:59:00 AM   
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Ask Her....I always thought family members were part of one's support group. She's Your Sister... cant You discuss things with Her?

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RE: Any Guys Ever Fantasize About Being Dominated by Th... - 8/24/2009 12:11:03 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Everything under the sun that anybody can come up with isn't just ok because someone decided to label it kinky.  If you see nothing wrong with being a little kinky and a little flirty with your immediate family members, hey, more power to you.  However, there are a significant number of people on the planet that feel such things go against a certain standard of morals and ethics.  When something is against your standards, sibling D/s aside, you give your opinion, don't you?

Much of what we discuss on his site is considered by the general population to go against a certain standard of morals and ethics.  Folks should try and keep that in mind before sitting in judgment against what two or more consenting adults might wish to do with each other. 

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RE: Any Guys Ever Fantasize About Being Dominated by Th... - 8/24/2009 12:22:03 PM   
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I don't see anything morally wrong with control issues between relatives. The amount of closed-mindedness in this thread is disappointing, imo.
This is clearly a case of "it's okay as long as nobody gets hurt". No victim, no crime. Some may think spanking an adult is sick and disgusting, and we'd be quick to inform them it's not. Just because this particular kink is less common than that doesn't mean it crosses any lines whatsoever.


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RE: Any Guys Ever Fantasize About Being Dominated by Th... - 8/24/2009 12:24:20 PM   
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Find someone else to role play it. *shrug* No biggie.

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RE: Any Guys Ever Fantasize About Being Dominated by Th... - 8/24/2009 12:28:05 PM   
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Sorry, Eleven, but in that capacity, you're just like everyone else.  Yours was an opinion, just like Mine.  I haven't violated TOS by giving My opinion on the subject.  The same way that I haven't when topics come up for discussion on if it's ok to cheat on your spouse because someone's calling it D/s or any other topic that might not be acceptable to everybody because they hold a certain value system.  Not everybody involved in wiitwd believes that it's a free for all.




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RE: Any Guys Ever Fantasize About Being Dominated by Th... - 8/24/2009 12:30:50 PM   
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I don't find this creepy at all. I know several guys who would like to have sex with their sister. And there are probably WAY more of them out there but they just don't tell anyone. These guys I speak of, I only happen to know this because they're very good friends of mine since childhood and they know I'm an open-minded, non-judgmental person. But this isn't anything I haven't heard of.

They don't actually HAVE the sex with their sister. They know it's wrong. This guy appears to know it too. He said he would find it "terrifying" if he found out she wanted to dominate him and knew he would like that because the temptation would be difficult to resist.

When I lived in Los Angeles I knew a guy who gave his sister foot massages. He was not a messed up guy. I know that's not quite the same thing, but I'm just sayin'

Creepy is licking urine off the floor, or some of the other practices some members of CM do.


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RE: Any Guys Ever Fantasize About Being Dominated by Th... - 8/24/2009 12:41:39 PM   
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Oh come on people!

An adult male has admitted a fantasy about an adult female.


I agree.

OP--while definitely not my thing (hell, I don't fantasize about being dominated by anyone), a Google search will show you several sites where quite a few people congregate with an interest in incest. There are several publications as well--a trip to the local sex shop should prove fruitful. Invite your sister for a joint trip...see her reaction, discuss them...who knows. Enjoy.

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RE: Any Guys Ever Fantasize About Being Dominated by Th... - 8/24/2009 12:41:39 PM   
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It's the ol' "person has a fantasy, and then imposes his/her ideas on the other person's behavior". I've seen several male subs state that every female they meet must be a Domme and therefore want to dominate them. Everything the woman does or says is somehow turned into his fantasy idea. This appears to be the case with the OP and his sister's behavior.

That being said, the idea of incest is inappropriate to me.

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RE: Any Guys Ever Fantasize About Being Dominated by Th... - 8/24/2009 1:19:54 PM   
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Sorry, Eleven, but in that capacity, you're just like everyone else.  Yours was an opinion, just like Mine.

I didn't share an opinion on the matter in question, so no, it wasn't.  What I said relates directly to one of the site's most important rules; "
This isn't a place to insult the kinks, preferences, lifestyles, etc. of others. If you don't like what another person enjoys, rest assured that there are plenty of others out there that probably don't like your activities either."

Leaving it at YKINMK is fine.

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