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LadyPact -> RE: Any Guys Ever Fantasize About Being Dominated by Their Sister? (8/24/2009 1:31:50 PM)
I was already aware of that when I put up the cutting thread. LOL.

kiwisub12 -> RE: Any Guys Ever Fantasize About Being Dominated by Their Sister? (8/24/2009 1:45:48 PM)
The reason most of us are sqicked out about incest is because it has been drilled into our brains that siblings are off limits - and the reasons for this are genetic - or in other words, funny looking kids or grandkids. We don't actually think about that aspect for the most part - but that is the only reason i can think of that makes total sense. I rather think that the general public isn't smart enough not to reproduce with siblings, hence the civil laws. If said siblings were smart enough to move out of town, wear wedding rings, and be perfect neighbours that just couldn't have kids, who would care? Of course, ethically, i don't think the best thing to do is secretly submit to the sister. The sister might decide that brother is a nancy boy and have an inaccurate idea of his sexuality. That certainly wouldn't advance his agenda. edited to add that i haven't ever fantasised about my brothers (pains in the arse when i was young) but i have a couple of first cousins who are pretty fine. [:D]

seababy -> RE: Any Guys Ever Fantasize About Being Dominated by Their Sister? (8/24/2009 2:07:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lostkitten3 Jeeze does it have to be a full blown kink? Can't he just play around with her? Like flirting? I play with people every day. It's not Kink, but it's a little kinky, a litttle flirty. How the fuck else do you know if someone is interested? Do you really proposition every person when you first meet them or do you flirt and test the waters first?? Seriously. You people are some of the most conservative kinksters I have ever met. Get off the rules horse. They are there to make sure people don't get hurt. He clearly is not intending to hurt her! I am sure if he did accidentally, she'd hit him or tell him to piss off. She is his sister for crying out loud! I wasn't going to touch this thread until I saw this. My perspective is if one of my brothers "flirted" with me or tested the waters it wouldn't be like being approached by a formerly platonic friend that I could set straight and move on. Once done it would break something precious for me and I would feel violated and betrayed. It wouldn't be something I would just shrug off with a "Oh well men what can you do?" The harm would be done. Thats without it going any further than testing the waters. I'm his sister for crying out loud!

Acer49 -> RE: Any Guys Ever Fantasize About Being Dominated by Their Sister? (8/24/2009 2:09:57 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: udaboss I know. It's incestuous. It's wrong. It's sick. It's incredibly perverted. But I have a little sister (3 years younger than me) with whom I had a particularly intense sibling rivalry. Oddly, I have incredibly powerful fantasies of submitting to her as her slave. I have had these fantasies my entire life. And no, I'm not a hick in the hills. I come from a well-educated upper middle-class family. And it's weird, but I suspect it's quite possible she might actually have fantasies of enslaving me. It's just little things over the years. Like several years ago she sent me a birthday card with a penguin in a collar and on a leash being held by a woman. All you saw was the woman's legs below the knees. It was a kind of hip, art decco style card so she had plausible deniability. But I have to wonder why my sister would send me a card like that. And ever since she bought a house a couple of years ago, whenever I go back to my home town, she insists I stay with her and not at my mom and dad's house or with one of my brothers. She's actually extremely insistent on this. And when I was home in May we were having a discussion about movies and I simply said the word "dominatrix" and the conversation stopped and she just stared at me. It's just little things like that. What I'd really like is for her to pin me down in a wrestling match and make me her slave. She's actually quite a hottie, even though she's in her late 40s now. Can't say I have, enen if I were a submissive

udaboss -> RE: Any Guys Ever Fantasize About Being Dominated by Their Sister? (8/24/2009 2:20:06 PM)
Look, just to be clear, I fantasize about being dominated by lots of girls. It's what submissive males do. My sister is just one of over 100, and she's not even in the top 10. I'm not in any way obsessed with her. But every so often I masturbate over the thought of having femdom sex with her. Just once in a while. Yeah, I think it's kinda weird. That's exactly why I asked the question on this board. I wanted to see if others had similar thoughts. I also want to point that she lives over a thousand miles away in my original home town. I only go back there two or three times per year to see my family and hook up with old friends, and rarely stay more than four days. I also wanted to comment that I'm not reading a dominant attitude toward me in what she does. I said I wondered about some rather strange things over the years. We were talking about movies and Angelina Jolie came up and I said I heard she was a kinkster and liked being a dominatrix. Suddenly the conversation just stopped and my sister stared at me. I was the one who felt uncomfortable. I don't know what she was thinking, but she's a very bright, extremely talkative woman, loves to hold the floor and it is very unlike her to suddenly just stop talking and just stare at someone. But I know it could very possibly have no significance whatsoever. It was just weird. I must say some people on this thread seem very eager to judge others. I guess it makes them feel better about themselves.

Lockit -> RE: Any Guys Ever Fantasize About Being Dominated by Their Sister? (8/24/2009 2:32:38 PM)
There was a film done on sibling relationships from the UK... it was rather interesting and worth watching if you can find it and you are interested. It can explain a lot of things most of us don't wish to fully understand, but make it something worth understanding I think. Now having said that... my brother and I no longer speak because of his little fantasy and going far too far. He would call me his gf's name and her my name. He tried to control me and how I lived to keep me tied to him. (We were adults and dad was the same, neither got what they wanted, but that didn't stop them from trying.) It was a sick little game that I gladly and happily live without now. But... at some point, I know he wanted three of us, mostly me and the one he didn't want... would have done him in a heartbeat. I am just glad my motto is... I can divorce anyone... and I mean anyone.

allthatjaz -> RE: Any Guys Ever Fantasize About Being Dominated by Their Sister? (8/24/2009 3:07:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Musicmystery quote: Oh come on people! An adult male has admitted a fantasy about an adult female. I agree. OP--while definitely not my thing (hell, I don't fantasize about being dominated by anyone), a Google search will show you several sites where quite a few people congregate with an interest in incest. There are several publications as well--a trip to the local sex shop should prove fruitful. Invite your sister for a joint trip...see her reaction, discuss them...who knows. Enjoy. Well said and I will add to that, that one of my serious fantasies is incest with my 'pretend' brother.

DesFIP -> RE: Any Guys Ever Fantasize About Being Dominated by Their Sister? (8/24/2009 3:51:35 PM)
I don't think bad mutations in offspring are the only reasons family members should be off limits. Beyond that, and even with two now adults, there is simply too much history for either to approach the situation and think about it calmly. If your older sister bossed you around when you were little, when you get together she most likely still does, or tries to. And you probably let her or act like a rebellious kid in response. Damn few of us sit around and discuss how to change old and long set patterns without emotions running high. As such, if your response is caused by 18 years prior relationship, then can you really be said to be able to truly give consent when the response pattern was formed many years ago? To my mind, no unless you've had ten years intensive therapy to undo those patterns. And since the only people I know who do that kind of heavy self work are those from extremely fucked up families, they aren't at all likely to get into such a situation which would undo all that work.

AnimusRex -> RE: Any Guys Ever Fantasize About Being Dominated by Their Sister? (8/24/2009 5:10:21 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LaTigresse Oh come on people! An adult male has admitted a fantasy about an adult female. A FANTASY! For crying out loud! We talk about doing some pretty fucked up things to one another, all in the name of good dirty fun and we are going to have a coronary about this? Just because it set our squick-o-metre off in a horrible high pitched scream? Dude, you are not the only guy that ever FANTASIZED about someone you were too closely related to. The difference is that, for the sake of family and all that stuff, you really need to keep this one your own little private fantasy. Don't tell her. Don't involve her in your kink. Just keep it to yourself, for your own little happy place. Concentrate on finding a non related, dominant woman to serve. Because wandering down this path hasn't got ANYthing good at the end of it. Trust me on this one. AMEN. This is NOT the most unusual or most disturbing thing I have encountered here. And as long as we are talking about consenting adults, I would put this under the umbrella of tolerance. The only thing I can add to the OP is that we the CM public, are probably the worst source of advice for this; not because of the topic, but because we don't know either you or your sister; Sorry, but you are going to have to work this out on your own.

Level -> RE: Any Guys Ever Fantasize About Being Dominated by Their Sister? (8/24/2009 5:14:19 PM)
I was kinda hoping this thread was about Catholicism... [:)]

udaboss -> RE: Any Guys Ever Fantasize About Being Dominated by Their Sister? (8/24/2009 5:40:57 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Level I was kinda hoping this thread was about Catholicism... [:)] Ha ha. I remember Sister Bernadette in particular. She was hot. They still spanked kids back then. 'nuff said.

Level -> RE: Any Guys Ever Fantasize About Being Dominated by Their Sister? (8/24/2009 5:49:49 PM)
You asked what I'm going to assume was a serious question, so you deserve a serious answer, which has been pretty much covered by others; consenting adults are just that, and it doesn't mean shit how I feel about what they do, but I would tend to think that pursuing this would be playing with fire. If you love her, then I would place that above ANY opportunity to get kinky with her. So yeah, go find a cute nun. [:D]

jasada89 -> RE: Any Guys Ever Fantasize About Being Dominated by Their Sister? (8/24/2009 6:16:50 PM)
um deff not my sister thats just wrong to me i have fantasied about my sister's best friend tho dominating me i used to suck up to her but ya deff not my sister or any family member for that matter but if thats what your into go for it i guess maybe if shes just gonna whip you and give pain that might be ok but if shes gonna give u a handjob blowjob or intercourse uh thats just weird

Level -> RE: Any Guys Ever Fantasize About Being Dominated by Their Sister? (8/24/2009 6:18:56 PM)
Did the period button on your keyboard break? [8\|]

udaboss -> RE: Any Guys Ever Fantasize About Being Dominated by Their Sister? (8/24/2009 6:29:20 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Level You asked what I'm going to assume was a serious question, so you deserve a serious answer, which has been pretty much covered by others; consenting adults are just that, and it doesn't mean shit how I feel about what they do, but I would tend to think that pursuing this would be playing with fire. If you love her, then I would place that above ANY opportunity to get kinky with her. So yeah, go find a cute nun. [:D] I actually don't want to (and won't) pursue it for exactly the reasons you give. That's the common sense thing to do (there would be very little opportunity anyway - like I said I only get home 2 or 3 times per year and just for a few days). My concern is that she might pursue it and, depending on how horny I was, I might not be able to resist. But I don't know that she even has these feelings at all, and my suspicion is that she probably doesn't. But, like I say, there have been some things which have happened in the past that make me wonder. Mainly, I wrote this post to see if other people had these feelings, and evidently a few have. This is my weirdest sexual thought, but I bet if everybody published their weirdest, private sexual thought we'd get some real doozies that would make my littleissue seem tame.

Level -> RE: Any Guys Ever Fantasize About Being Dominated by Their Sister? (8/24/2009 6:52:14 PM)
Agreed, few are willing to bare their souls.

Lostkitten3 -> RE: Any Guys Ever Fantasize About Being Dominated by Their Sister? (8/24/2009 7:15:49 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact quote: ORIGINAL: Lostkitten3 Jeeze does it have to be a full blown kink? Can't he just play around with her? Like flirting? I play with people every day. It's not Kink, but it's a little kinky, a litttle flirty. How the fuck else do you know if someone is interested? Do you really proposition every person when you first meet them or do you flirt and test the waters first?? Seriously. You people are some of the most conservative kinksters I have ever met. Get off the rules horse. They are there to make sure people don't get hurt. He clearly is not intending to hurt her! I am sure if he did accidentally, she'd hit him or tell him to piss off. She is his sister for crying out loud! The answer to every question in your first paragraph can be answered with because she's his sister. Everything under the sun that anybody can come up with isn't just ok because someone decided to label it kinky. If you see nothing w rong with being a little kinky and a little flirty with your immediate family members, hey, more power to you. However, there are a significant number of people on the planet that feel such things go against a certain standard of morals and ethics. When something is against your standards, sibling D/s aside, you give your opinion, don't you? Lady, you know I give my opinion, and it is often contrary to popular opinion, but in my life, and the life of my kids, and my friend's kids (all who have open, out of the box and within "the history of human sexuality" minds) I have seen all kinds of kink come from kids, especially power dynamics, and believe it or not they are sexual little beings too. Perhaps I traipse closer to the edge of sanity than you do in my human dealings, perhaps I accept that everyone has eccentricities and revel in most of them, learn to deal with others, but I have not met a man that hasn't had fantasies about his sister and his mother. Many have at one point or another in their lives tried to act on them.

VanityFix -> RE: Any Guys Ever Fantasize About Being Dominated by Their Sister? (8/24/2009 8:10:53 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: udaboss Mainly, I wrote this post to see if other people had these feelings, and evidently a few have. This is my weirdest sexual thought, but I bet if everybody published their weirdest, private sexual thought we'd get some real doozies that would make my littleissue seem tame. and you were pounced upon by the wolves, good job, i support such edgy questions and daring to face hostility, tips hat (side note i support the wolves too) in high school i had an older female friend who i had an odd kinda d/S relationship with, she first befriended me and adopted me as a little buddy/brother role then a submissive role in private, as well as a dom i looked up to her as a mentor and sought her council a lot, in a way i could see her as an older sister type and can understand the fantasy as alot of my developing fetish feelings came from that relationship, i do have 4 older sisters some having very dominant personalities, but never had any fantasy of them, i could see having one as pretty common but beyond being my sisters i just find their personalities very unattractive. there are alot of incest fantasys out there, momdom, babysitter/big sister, daddy/little girl ect. its pretty common and im sure the dirtiness of the idea adds to it, so go head and dream away i think anyone actually acting on real incest should realize the risk of destroying their family tho

jeninvegas -> RE: Any Guys Ever Fantasize About Being Dominated by Their Sister? (8/24/2009 11:59:53 PM)
I don't believe I've ever experienced anything like that... Perhaps it's the way her personality is that makes you feel that way??

allthatjaz -> RE: Any Guys Ever Fantasize About Being Dominated by Their Sister? (8/25/2009 2:15:49 AM)
Whilst I don't believe that the op should bring this fantasy into reality and I don't for a minute believe that his sister is having similar fantasies towards him but its more that he is interpreting her actions in his own light and seeing something that very probably isn't there, I really don't know what the shock horror reaction from some here is about. We all know and understand the gene pool and what happens or can happen when relatives breed and those are the very reasons we have been conditioned into the belief that its wrong. On the other hand, the early Romans were doing it, the Jews were doing it, the Hindus and Muslims were doing it long before they ever understood about the genetic consequences. In other words sisters have been sexually attracted to brothers and visa versa throughout history. Talking about it openly isn't an offense (at least to me its not) anymore than talking about gay people having sex because two males or two females are not able to breed. If no breeding is going on and both are consensual adults then whats the problem? One of my favorite films is Caligula. His first sexual experience is with his sister who he falls in love with.

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