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gentlemanprince -> An apology to the ladies (8/24/2009 7:10:51 PM)

For a long time I've read your complaints about all the annoying emails you receive from men who never read your profiles or simply send one line messages. To be truthful, I dismissed those complaints with the thought that as a submissive/slave male, I'd sure like to get emails of almost any sort.

Well, during the past few weeks I've been receiving scads of those same kinds of emails from Dommes and female submissives alike. Clearly they were cut and paste and almost all gave yahoo IM addresses. Now I know what you mean. It is annoying, and I probably receive far fewer than you do.

So my apologies to you ladies for not appreciating what you are enduring.




LadyPact -> RE: An apology to the ladies (8/24/2009 7:14:26 PM)

Thank you.  I've been tempted at times to create a word document and list all of the emails that I get in a 24 hour period, just for an example of what an average day is like.  I love friendly emails from the folks here on the forums.  The things I get that come from those who are primarily on the other side are less than stellar.




Lockit -> RE: An apology to the ladies (8/24/2009 7:14:31 PM)

Ahhh Princely one... wait till you get a cock shot. [;)]

You don't have anything to be sorry about as far as I can tell, but you are a sweetheart!




lovingpet -> RE: An apology to the ladies (8/24/2009 7:28:17 PM)

And exactly how sorry are you OP???? Inquiring minds want to know! LOL

In all seriousness, I think it often takes finding ourselves in others' shoes to really understand. I'm glad you've had a moment of clarity and I hope it will help you have better success going forward! All my best!

lovingpet




porcelaine -> RE: An apology to the ladies (8/24/2009 7:44:55 PM)

thank you for your kind words. while i appreciate them in the spirit they're meant, i wouldn't wish those notes on anyone. my brain cells have been woefully unstimulated. i may need resuscitation soon. [:D]

i wish you well in your search. hopefully the right lady will grace your path.

porcelaine




lizi -> RE: An apology to the ladies (8/24/2009 8:17:21 PM)

How nice, what a kind gesture OP. I've tried explaining the sheer volume of email I get to men and how negative/silly/unthinking/icky it can be and most don't really seem to understand the truth of what I'm saying. Maybe it's what you said- that it's hard to understand until it happens to you.




pyroaquatic -> RE: An apology to the ladies (8/24/2009 9:01:42 PM)

That is why he is a gentlemanlyprince.

Also....

FROG!!!!

*squeezes*




Eivarden -> RE: An apology to the ladies (8/24/2009 9:10:07 PM)

Though nowhere near what they get, I as well understand when I usually get messages like;

quote:

what r u into? cam? my yahoo is blah_blah_imsexy@yahoo. com


Though I actually do respond to them.
Just in case.




PeonForHer -> RE: An apology to the ladies (8/25/2009 2:12:44 AM)

Do you really answer those?  Must admit, I just see those as spam and delete them instantly.

*Chuckle*  One wrote recently asking,  "Would you like to serve me, then for me to beat you with my collection of canes?  Would you like x, y, z?"  It continued in the same vein for another paragraph . . .  I wrote back just saying "No."  She (?) replied saying only, "OK".




MsStarlett -> RE: An apology to the ladies (8/25/2009 4:02:01 AM)

*giggle*  It's been a long time since I wrote that to you Peon.  I'm flattered that you remember.  [:D]

Thank you for your sympathy Prince. 

I often tell subs who don't understand the complaint that they should just go down load a hot photo from a porn site, put it up on a 'fake' FemDom account with an exact duplicate their own  profile.  Sit on that account for one weekend so they show up as "Fresh meat - On Line Now" on the front 'meat market' page.  Then flip through the mail by the end of two days.  I guarantee that you will have at least a dozen mails a day from men who never got passed "Available Female" when looking.

I have actually learned to curb that.  I do my CM'ing in the early morning, therefore I don't show up as "On Line Now".  Only the guys who are actively seeking or who read my posts here send me CMail these days.  That's a good thing.





gentlemanprince -> RE: An apology to the ladies (8/25/2009 7:58:20 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Lockit

Ahhh Princely one... wait till you get a cock shot. [;)]



A cock shot from a woman? Now there is something I might want to see, if only for the uniqueness. No, on second thought you may be right. Some of the birdbrains in the chatrooms don't seem to know the difference between a prince and a princess.




NoreenSwan -> RE: An apology to the ladies (8/25/2009 8:12:33 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: porcelaine

thank you for your kind words. while i appreciate them in the spirit they're meant, i wouldn't wish those notes on anyone. my brain cells have been woefully unstimulated. i may need resuscitation soon. [:D]

i wish you well in your search. hopefully the right lady will grace your path.

porcelaine



Nothing says I'm sorry like a diamond tennis bracelet...

Just joking around.

What she said ^^^




OttersSwim -> RE: An apology to the ladies (8/25/2009 10:10:56 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: NoreenSwan
Nothing says I'm sorry like a diamond tennis bracelet...

Just joking around.

What she said ^^^


I have to admit, the concept of jewelry that you wear with an activity like a bracelet for playing "tennis" has always intrigued me.    I used to watch Leave it to Beaver, and I just got a mental image of Beaver's mom gushing "Oh Ward, you got me vacuuming pearls!"

Sorry for the hijack...my brain works in mysterious ways...[;)]




gentlemanprince -> RE: An apology to the ladies (8/25/2009 12:49:07 PM)

The right lady has and we are very happy. Thanks for your good wishes.




LadyPact -> RE: An apology to the ladies (8/25/2009 12:55:37 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: OttersSwim

quote:

ORIGINAL: NoreenSwan
Nothing says I'm sorry like a diamond tennis bracelet...

Just joking around.

What she said ^^^


I have to admit, the concept of jewelry that you wear with an activity like a bracelet for playing "tennis" has always intrigued me.    I used to watch Leave it to Beaver, and I just got a mental image of Beaver's mom gushing "Oh Ward, you got me vacuuming pearls!"

Sorry for the hijack...my brain works in mysterious ways...[;)]



Geez.  And here I was thinking about how "tennis" might relate to the swing of a sadist with a toy in her hand.


Carry on.




MsStarlett -> RE: An apology to the ladies (8/25/2009 4:00:54 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: NoreenSwan

Nothing says I'm sorry like a diamond tennis bracelet...



I'm cheap. I'll take stilettos.  I'll even give you great website where you can get them CHEAP!




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