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DavanKael -> RE: To Tired to kink! (8/26/2009 8:22:34 AM)
I am wired a bit differently than a lot of people on these points, I have noticed but here's my answer none-the-less: While sex (Which, to me would be included in kink) may require the exertion of effort, the sense of well-being, connectedness, re-energizing at a very core level (Even if everyone falls asleep afterward), etc. is worth shaking off the cobwebs and jumping into bed on a very regular basis. I believe that, if needed, a weekly minimum should be employed. My ex- and I (While not involved in D/s dynamics, so I'm speaking of straight-up sex here) had a 3-5 times a week 'number'. I would have preferred daily but he wasn't as libidinous as am I. Sex is important and it's good for you. Make time, I bet you'll feel better. :> Best wishes, Davan

kallisto -> RE: To Tired to kink! (8/26/2009 5:45:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DavanKael I am wired a bit differently than a lot of people on these points, I have noticed but here's my answer none-the-less: While sex (Which, to me would be included in kink) may require the exertion of effort, the sense of well-being, connectedness, re-energizing at a very core level (Even if everyone falls asleep afterward), etc. is worth shaking off the cobwebs and jumping into bed on a very regular basis. I believe that, if needed, a weekly minimum should be employed. My ex- and I (While not involved in D/s dynamics, so I'm speaking of straight-up sex here) had a 3-5 times a week 'number'. I would have preferred daily but he wasn't as libidinous as am I. Sex is important and it's good for you. Make time, I bet you'll feel better. :> Best wishes, Davan Davan, you hit the nail on the head (at least in my opinion anyway) [:)]

MagiksSlave -> RE: To Tired to kink! (8/26/2009 9:20:20 PM)
Thanks everyone, there has been some really great advice here. In the end though I think I am going to seek out a doc visit because, even though I am working my tush off I still should not be this tired all the time. My levels may be a bit off so it couldnt hurt to get some blood work done just to make sure that its a workaholic problem and not something else. It may be as simple as needing some extra vitamins or an iron supliment or something. edited because... Yep I deffinetly spelt my own name wrong! Magik

FawneTwo -> RE: To Tired to kink! (8/27/2009 11:54:40 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MagiksSlave It may be as simple as needing some extra vitamins or an iron supliment or something. Magik That's a good idea Magikslave. Best of luck and take care please.

Toppingfrmbottom -> RE: To Tired to kink! (8/27/2009 4:54:47 PM)
It's been my experince that not fighting the need to go to sleep and just going ni ni when I need to has done wonders for my energy. If it's 9 o clock and I just can't keep my eyes open that means I am tired enough to warrent going to bed early, since I am a 1 to 2 am ni ni person. either that or sick. quote: ORIGINAL: MagiksSlave Thats the thing though, even if I made time, and Im sure I could, I mean I have time right now dont I? I am just to tired to do anything, Im fighting to keep my eyes open right now and its just 9pm

MagiksSlave -> RE: To Tired to kink! (8/27/2009 7:30:20 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: FawneTwo quote: ORIGINAL: MagiksSlave It may be as simple as needing some extra vitamins or an iron supliment or something. Magik That's a good idea Magikslave. Best of luck and take care please. Thanks... It just makes sence to me that, this might be the problem. Im working hard but I still sleep usualy between 6 and 8 hours a night at least so I shouldnt be so tired. Magik

aldompdx -> RE: To Tired to kink! (8/28/2009 12:31:01 AM)
One is never too tired to be who they really are -- their true nature. One need not perform action in order to just be.

Prinsexx -> RE: To Tired to kink! (8/28/2009 2:34:43 AM)
The last time i got a good nights sleep was three kids and (x number) of relationships ago. I'm too tired to be tired.

MagiksSlave -> RE: To Tired to kink! (8/28/2009 8:36:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Prinsexx The last time i got a good nights sleep was three kids and (x number) of relationships ago. I'm too tired to be tired. Awww!!

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