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OttersSwim -> Spa Night with your Lady (8/26/2009 8:03:12 AM)
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I have a group over on Fetlife that is oriented to the femdom girlie boy relationship and dynamic. I just put this up over there, and thought I would share it here too as it has application for anyone in relationship to a dominant Lady. You don't have to be girlie to do this for her!
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My Lady and I often do "spa nights" at her house where we do manicures and pedicures, pluck and shave, take baths, and be girly together. It is much fun and I can highly recommend it!
So as the subs/slaves in the relationship, we can do a lot to make it a special night for her. Here are some tips and ideas: :)
Clean up! - spa night should be done in a clean room, with a clean bathroom. Take some time and clean up the place where you will be sharing this experience.
Atmosphere! - spa night is always better with soft music playing in the background, candles lit, and nice scents in the air.
Wine! - or whatever you and your Lady enjoy drinking - have it on hand in nice glasses. Maybe some nibblies too? Some cheeses or olives...or chocolate... :P
Organize! - get your tools together ahead of time, so you don't spend 'spa time' trying to find and organize stuff. This means nail tools, tweezers, razors & cream, clothes, makeup, etc.
Bath Boy/Girl/Girlie Boy! - take a bath together and be your Lady's bath attendant. Shave her legs...and other areas...per her desires...wash and condition her hair...exfoliate together. She can do the same for you if she so desires. If your tub has room for the both of you, you can get in with her. Get out first and be on hand with a clean warm towel to dry her off. Rub each other with a good smelling lotion and maybe some scented powder.
Pluck! - check out some websites on plucking eyebrows - Here. and get in there and help your Lady keep a nice shape to her eyebrows. Discuss what she wants first...check often during the process...and avoid giving her the perpetually surprised arch if you can.
Nails! - My Lady and I each do each other's nails. I do her hands and feet, and she does my feet. This means learning to give a manicure and pedicure. There is a tutorial on the pedicure in our forum here and the manicure is very much the same procedure just on the hands.
Hair! - check out some fun easy to do hairstyles like braiding, french braiding, rolls, curls, etc. and try them out on spa night! Brush her hair and do some fun things with clips, bands, scrunchies, etc. How else are you going to get practice doing your Lady's hair?
Makeup! - wouldn't it be fun to be able to do your Lady's makeup if she asked? This is the night for practice. Get out on the web and familiarize yourself with the basics (and have her show you) if you are not already knowledgeable.
Power Exchange! - Ladies...this might also be a good night to engage in some power exchange with your girl/boy/girlie boy. Making him wear a butt plug, restrictive clothing or bindings, or having a paddle onhand...just in case...you know. :)
Fun! - this is a play night for both of you and is primarily meant to be fun. So have some together and celebrate your/her girlie side with Her, and give Her some pampering in the process - and hopefully get some yourself.
Enjoy! [:)]
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