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Drifa -> RE: shaken not stirred. (8/29/2009 9:27:04 AM)
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ORIGINAL: sexisubi
they are just concerned its from a kinky website, sure my roommate has never been blind to the fact that i enjoy certain things, she found a lot of my toys before in our closet and laughed about it. however now, when she looks at this website she feels that i'm taking the kink a bit too far, the occational thing for her is fine, but im not really occational and i enjoy it a bit more then she does.. which she doesnt really understand.
One thing I bet your roomie does not have clear is that there is not one, uniform, everyone-must-do-this kind of BDSM or D/s. Some of the more extreme posts you see here are likely wankers - guys putting a fantasy out there cloaked thinly in a question hoping to get responses that validate the fantasy and enable them to wank off to them.
And sure, while *I* may enjoy having stuff done to me that would not be *your* cup of tea, that doesn't mean either of our preferences are wrong, just different. There are people on these boards who don't do ANY rough play. There are others that live for torture of various types. And many shades of play in between. They key part is that we are all looking at our desires with open eyes, acknowledging them, and indulging them consensually.
One person has a fantasy/desire If another adult gets off on the reciprocal fantasy/desire, and the two of them consent to go get it on along those lines, that's their fun! It doesn't oblige any of the rest of us to participate in that type of activity, or even approve of it.
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