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Going away - 8/26/2009 3:41:59 PM

littleone35

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In about a month i will be going away on a family vacation. I will be traveling on a cruise ship out of the USA (where i live) it is an 8 day cruise. Master cannot come he cannot get the time off work. It will be hard to call him to, cell phones i have heard don't always work that good at sea. I will be missing him like crazy. i am gonna write him a letter every day i am away telling him what i did that day (give then to him when i get back). He already told me he wants me to have fun.

I of course will be wearing my collar. other then the letters any ideas how i can not miss him as much, cause i am gonna miss him but maybe something to ease the ache. Please don't say don't go i have to it is all paid for.

Matt's littleone

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RE: Going away - 8/26/2009 3:48:34 PM

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I love wearing Himself's clothes when I'm gone or he's away. I always, always take several of his T-shirts with me when I travel back to the states.

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RE: Going away - 8/26/2009 3:49:36 PM

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My Lady and I have a little stuffed bunny that we send along with the one going away when we are to be apart. It has a little black collar and is representative of our relationship...and of me as I am "the bunny".

It is mighty comforting to have with....we also send along a microfiber or fake fur blanket so snuggle into.

How about wearing something? A plug or something would certainly remind you of him.

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RE: Going away - 8/26/2009 3:49:50 PM

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Thanks Bita that is a good idea bring a t shirt or 2 of his.

Well otter if you are talking about a butt plug It would not work cause i am gonna be in a swmsuit most of the time (except for dinner) but thnks for the idea

Matt's littleone

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RE: Going away - 8/26/2009 4:00:45 PM

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May such things continue to be all that amount to "problems" in your world.

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RE: Going away - 8/26/2009 4:16:01 PM

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Most cruise ships have internat cafes. I just went on a cruise last week and had no problem staying in contact.
Enjoy.

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RE: Going away - 8/26/2009 5:10:15 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: littleone35

In about a month i will be going away on a family vacation. I will be traveling on a cruise ship out of the USA (where i live) it is an 8 day cruise. Master cannot come he cannot get the time off work. It will be hard to call him to, cell phones i have heard don't always work that good at sea. I will be missing him like crazy. i am gonna write him a letter every day i am away telling him what i did that day (give then to him when i get back). He already told me he wants me to have fun.

I of course will be wearing my collar. other then the letters any ideas how i can not miss him as much, cause i am gonna miss him but maybe something to ease the ache. Please don't say don't go i have to it is all paid for.

Matt's littleone

this is a great opportunity to step outside of the box and do something different. you can bring your adventure to him in many ways. create a scrapbook with images and mementos that includes commentary from you. it is a unique souvenir idea and allows you to share your thoughts with him. you can also have a small notebook and write him daily notes or little love letters. these sentimental ideas are merely the tip of the iceberg.

absence not only makes the heart grow fonder, but you feel the yoke of ownership much stronger. being apart will allow you to remember who you are and why you love being his. enjoy the cruise and have a safe trip home.

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RE: Going away - 8/26/2009 6:02:16 PM

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All great ideas - but actually I was on a cruise several years back and cell phones worked just great when we stopped in port. I love the "wearing his shirts" idea. You could have a family member take pictures of you and your adventures. Put them with the letter of the day that you're writing him. That way when he's reading about your day, he also has an image to go with it. Find a special place on the ship or at port and let your mind "go to town" with thoughts of what the 2 of you could be doing there (reality or fantasy). Then write a "special" letter to him or plan an evening when you get back home to tell him of it.

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RE: Going away - 8/26/2009 6:44:44 PM

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The experience I had three years ago on a cruise taught me this:

*Check to make sure any phone calls you make aren't going to cost you a fortune.
*Mail sent from the ports of call took waaaaaayyyy too long to arrive.
*The internet cafe is the way to go. Be prepared to pay well for it however.

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RE: Going away - 8/27/2009 5:26:25 AM

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May such things continue to be all that amount to "problems" in your world.

Sigh, you said it before I could.

Do try to think of it that way, littleone35: in the big scheme of things, this is pretty small potatos. Sure, you will miss him, but eight days of doing something different will make the time pass in a flash, and a couple weeks later you'll be back where you belong and it will be just a memory. :)

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RE: Going away - 8/27/2009 5:38:56 AM

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*The internet cafe is the way to go. Be prepared to pay well for it however.

About a buck a minute...

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RE: Going away - 8/27/2009 7:07:56 AM

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And..make sure your cell phone plan is international not just nationwide if you plan on texting or calling and check roaming fees. I know someone who just got back from a cruise and her cell phone bill is high because of all the texting her sons did and she was not on a international plan just a nationwide plan.

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RE: Going away - 8/27/2009 7:50:21 AM

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quote:

...something to ease the ache...

focus on enjoying the time you have with your family...after all, he told you he wants you to have fun!

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RE: Going away - 8/27/2009 9:13:36 AM

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Thank you all for the ideas. The internet cafe is not really an option. By the time i finish writhing him it could be $10 Don't want to pay that every day $80 is lot and Master would be mad if i spent that money just to e mail him.

Thank you for reminding me to check with my cell phone provider to see i don't get slammed with roaming charges.

Mercnbeth you are right i should atke the time to enjoy my family we don't get together like this much.

Matt's littleone

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RE: Going away - 8/27/2009 9:34:20 AM

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little ones going away;
she's drifting out to sea;
she always loved to swim away;
maybe she'll find an island;
with a shady tree.................

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RE: Going away - 8/27/2009 10:14:40 AM

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Have fun but please be careful using Your cell phone and computer. My sister and brother-in -law went on a cruise from Florida to Antartica and return. They could use their cell phones, but the signal was routed thru the ships sattilite phone at a $10 per minute charge. Also in the news last year a man on a ship at a dock in Florida watched the Superbowl on His computer thru a phone link..... Later the phone company sent Him a bill for $26,000 for airtime used.....it was later resolved that He didnt have to pay because the ship was not in International waters at the time. If it had been out in Internationl waters He would be required to pay! Scotty

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RE: Going away - 8/27/2009 11:17:59 AM

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Later the phone company sent Him a bill for $26,000 for airtime used.....

wow!! - imagine the spanking youd get when that bill landed on the doormat in the morning!

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RE: Going away - 8/27/2009 12:17:31 PM

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Hell ENJOY yourself, you may want to get a whole bunch of post cards and use those to write your letters and then actually MAIL them, then when they reach him at home, you will have something more to talk about regarding specific things that filter in over time. The scrapbook idea is good too. My friend got one of her husbands t-shirt and put his picture on the front of it once when she went on a trip with some girlfriends. Wherever she went siteseeing and such or laying on the beach, or dinner, etc.... she took the t-shirt with her and put it on to pose for pics, and captioned the pics in her scrape book --- Ann and Jack at such and such. People get a kick out of it and Jack to this day said he "feels" like he's been there lol.

All in all, its 8 days, you will be enjoying yourself. You may find yourself missing him but really enjoying yourself so much you aren't pining for him. Be careful in that you don't set yourself before you even leave to PINE for him versus missing him.

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RE: Going away - 8/28/2009 1:37:37 PM

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<deleted> Didn't read before posting!

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RE: Going away - 8/29/2009 11:01:43 PM

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cell phones i have heard don't always work that good at sea

They work just fine on cruise ships, it's just expensive to use them.

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