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jamesthehumanrug -> RE: New to the lifestyle (2/25/2006 4:39:40 PM)
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greetings, september,
oh how i will,always need you ,can i see you is all my eyes can say....,but, anyway,
.....if i have your permission, to add my inferior comment, to your gracious post, see my words ,ALWAYS ,under you;
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ORIGINAL: september
I am new to the lifestyle but know this is where I belong. I had my first Dom experience last week and found it intoxicating. I am basically looking for a submissive for total control. What I find most inviting is the voluntary submission of power. For me, this is more a lifestyle. I am very assertive in the vanilla world and enjoy power situations there also. While I know the Dom-Sub life is a bit more magical, I don't really have an on and off switch. I don't feel ashamed or anything. I just like it and have shared my feelings with a few friends, including my roommate.
In addition, I am kind of feeling my way around this BDSM. I am not into as much pain as are the submissives that have contacted me. I am amazed at how far they ask me to go without knowing me. I mean I want to explore a lot but slapping and spitting, which seems to be a crowd pleaser, is out for me. I know I am in control but I guess I just want to say to someone who understands tht it gives me pause. I have been honest with the submissives who have asked but they all keep hinting. And some of this is just thinking out loud.
My question is, I'm just a regular gal, no dungeon, I share an apartment with a roommate, etc. I think my big intimidation is that I am not all leather slicked out with a lot of toys and suspension machines. I don't present the great force to be reckoned with facade. I'm just looking for a servant boy to live for my every whim. Counsel me great Doms, I appreciate your wisdom and generosity.
a. - you find out opposits dont attract is the reality ,esp. , with "roomates"; the more info. you give someone; the more ammo,they have ,to use ,against you later.
IE: you wouldnt want to dominate a king, in royal-circles, and ,then; have a caveman be able to walk up to you later and say, to you; hey!;i know you ! did'nt you tell me you can do that dominant kink ,to a so and so!....
like attracts like,
vanilla has potential,but,
there are simians, in ,both social/intimate-cultures.
b. - i hope you pause ,over me; i'm dreamin ' it ; please; do pause a long time; stop ,and,pause long ,and,hard,over me anytime.....(sorry;lost my mind ,for a moment,but ,only,for a moment,tho...)
c. - ,when space is,not accomodating,enuff,for you ,Goddess;why comprimize? ;use an ,under the bed secreted-slave;,or ,upside-down,in your closet slavey?it's your porogative(don't ask;yes: i got plagiarized ,and,so ripped on that big-hit-song ,too, misstress ,would i lie,to you? ,woops; O.K.; I did ,THAT;one,too; &,lost ,on ,that GIANT-mega-hit-song ,also....)
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