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Best S&M memory - 8/28/2009 4:19:16 PM   
markoliver2282


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Hello everyone.  New to Collarme and after reading some forums decided to start a new thread.

What is your best S&M memory?

Mine was about 4 years ago.  i was serving an older Domme at the time and went over to her house.  She had had a bad day and was angry at some guy at work.  So when i went to her house she was in a mood to do some damage so i was spanked ad paddled harder then usual.  She then started telling me about her day and how she just wanted to kick this guy in the balls.  Well she gets this big smile on her face and asks if i would be willing to voluntear my balls for the kick.  i said yes and she had me spread my legs and prepare for the kick.  It was scardy seeing get ready to kick me in the family jewels.  She wound up and acted like she was going to kick me, but stopped at the last minute, then gave them a little tap rather then a kick.  She told me i was a wonderful slave and that she was impresed that i would stand there and let her kick me.  We wound up having sex that night for the first time.  I just find that memory so hot because standing there waiting to be kicked was so scary, plus her telling me i was a wonderful slave made it so great.  I know most of you will think it is a weak story because she did not actually kick me but i dont care i thought it was great.
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RE: Best S&M memory - 8/28/2009 9:15:14 PM   
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Hi.

I'd have to say it was the time a few of us Mistresses got together and had a femdom party. We decided to only use one male sub among all of us so it was a blast. Think the sub had lots of fun too. you could tell he liked having all us women to obey. I'm so glad we decided to film it. I liked sharing a sub and I guess it gave us more control in the end. One of the best times I ever had.

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RE: Best S&M memory - 8/28/2009 11:44:50 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: markoliver2282

Hello everyone.  New to Collarme and after reading some forums decided to start a new thread.

What is your best S&M memory?

Mine was about 4 years ago.  i was serving an older Domme at the time and went over to her house.  She had had a bad day and was angry at some guy at work.  So when i went to her house she was in a mood to do some damage so i was spanked ad paddled harder then usual.  She then started telling me about her day and how she just wanted to kick this guy in the balls.  Well she gets this big smile on her face and asks if i would be willing to voluntear my balls for the kick.  i said yes and she had me spread my legs and prepare for the kick.  It was scardy seeing get ready to kick me in the family jewels.  She wound up and acted like she was going to kick me, but stopped at the last minute, then gave them a little tap rather then a kick.  She told me i was a wonderful slave and that she was impresed that i would stand there and let her kick me.  We wound up having sex that night for the first time.  I just find that memory so hot because standing there waiting to be kicked was so scary, plus her telling me i was a wonderful slave made it so great.  I know most of you will think it is a weak story because she did not actually kick me but i dont care i thought it was great.


No, that is not a weak story. I'm very glad you shared that with us because that makes me feel good, because I very often do the same thing you are describing there... in the context of romantic BDSM, I love it when I can order my sub to do something that I know she's scared of--and she says yes--and I act like I'm going to do it, but I stop at the last minute--and yeah, that makes me think my sub is a wonderful sub and I tell her that and it's always a very special romantic moment between us when that happens.

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RE: Best S&M memory - 8/28/2009 11:51:21 PM   
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quote:

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Hi.

I'd have to say it was the time a few of us Mistresses got together and had a femdom party. We decided to only use one male sub among all of us so it was a blast. Think the sub had lots of fun too. you could tell he liked having all us women to obey. I'm so glad we decided to film it. I liked sharing a sub and I guess it gave us more control in the end. One of the best times I ever had.


Other than vanilla-type experiences with hiring strippers, I've never had the experience of a few of us male Doms getting together and having a maledom party, only using one female sub among all of us. I'd imagine that would be pretty fun. Even in non-sexual BDSM, I've had many experiences of a few of us male Doms getting together and having a "party," only using one straight male sub among all of us. And that was always fun.

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RE: Best S&M memory - 8/29/2009 11:53:13 AM   
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Being yanked by my hair by Ma'am (who is not nearly as tall as i am) and thus dragged, bent way back and stumbling backwards, towards whatever She might have in mind.  Through almost no physical effort on Her part, She thus manages to eliminate any size and strength advantage i might have and puts me completely in Her power.  It's a simple thing, very direct and even caveman-like; but it's such an effective way of reversing the supposed "natural order" with no tools, toys or special techniques that just thinking about it now i am feeling flushed and very... well, lets just leave it at flushed. 

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RE: Best S&M memory - 8/30/2009 2:01:19 AM   
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Tough choice. As a Domme I think it would have to be the boy who was doing puppy play with Me. I had carefully prepared a can of human mince and vegetables by peeling the label and glueing on the label from a tin of dog meat whose contents looked startlingly similar! I'd put it in the cupboard with the other tins of dog food (we had 3 dogs at the time!), though the really astute would have noticed it was slightly askew, not with the label fully facing out. We'd had a lovely afternoon of puppy play, including walkies out doors (large private property), and piddles, and fetch, and leash training ... all with special treats for rewards. So now it was tea time and I took puppy indoors for his tea. he did the excited capering and begging thing that puppies do and was told to sit and wait, which he did. Then I got the tin down and puppy looked a bit nervous. I forked it out into a nice clean doggie bowl, puppy was swallowing rather nervously by then. I put it down in front of him and said "OK puppy, now you may eat!" he looked up at Me with big eyes, and froze for a few precious moments, while I just met his gaze. Then he lowered his head and began to eat it. Oh My heart about burst! I let him have a few mouthfuls before I bent down and hugged and praised him. When I said it was "people food" he looked so relieved! I asked if he'd thought it was dog food, and he said he thought it might be. When I said "why did you eat it then?" he said "Because i trust You Ma'am and i know You wouldn't allow anything to harm me". Ahhhh that was special.

As a sub ... even tougher choice! Master and i have had some wonderful scenes. i think the outdoor scene the first time i visited Him will always be remembered by me for the first time i walked on a collar and leash, that was profound to me, and also for being made to pee on the ground about 300 metres from the highway, where there was just a chance someone looking up the bush track as they drove past might glimpse me! As a sub i have a strong exhibitionist streak so that was a mind blast!

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RE: Best S&M memory - 8/30/2009 2:44:43 AM   
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One of My most memorable, was when I filmed for the OWK last year in the Czech Republic. A great realm for the naturally sadistic :)



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RE: Best S&M memory - 8/30/2009 6:15:46 AM   
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i don't have too much experience but mine was when i was at home talking to a Mistress online, my freinds just came over and were outside talking to my mom.  But she told me that i was not allowed to get dressed until i played with my self for 2 full minutes.  Even though i was scared they would start knocking on my door, i could not resist doing what she told me.  It was the control exerted over me without her even being there that was just too hot. 

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RE: Best S&M memory - 8/30/2009 6:20:05 AM   
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being a sub male for my lady my mistress 2 things pop into my head that we did which were amazing indeed  the first time when she actually was successfull in fisting me for the first time was awesome  we had been trying for about 4 times before and no luck ...the knuckle part of her hand was the hardest to get in  she was great at it too ...using lots of lube ...communicating with each other ...going slowly ...she used her strapons also first on me to get me to relax and open up for her  gawd she looks great wearing that big 10 in strapon i must say  love strapon play but we wanted to take it to the next level with her anally fisting me  both are great ways to submit to your lady i must say  anyways after a nice long strapon fuck she put on the gloves ...lubed up ...and she said i was really relaxed for her once her fingers started going in ...gawd that feels great when your lady starts playing with your ass with her fingers ..and yes enemas before are a must  she loves fucking me with the strapons doggy style ..but she loves fisting me ..me laying on my back ..legs spread eagle so she has complete access to my cock ...balls ..and ass for her to play with  ok back to her fingers ..she counted slowly ...first 2 ...then 3 ..then 4 ..then i had all 5 fingers in but we came up to her knuckles again ...she grabbed more lube with her other hand ..and she said she was close ...and with one more big push her fist popped in me  gawd that felt amazing ...we both started laughing ...we did it ...we did it  it was such a wonderfull thing to share with her the power exchange is amazing  love the vulnerability of it too being fisted by a woman is amazing ..and once she slides in that feeling is awesome too  she said she loved how warm ...soft and smooth i felt her being in me ...and once she found my prostate and she started massaging that i came like i never came before ...what a rush it is to cum that way ...knowing there is nothing i can do to stop her once she is inside of me massaging my prostate im putty in her skillfull hands  after i came we both laughed again how much it was ...then she slowly pulled out of me ...she wiped the lube from her hand ...took off the gloves and she came up and gave me the biggest hug  she has been fisting me now for over 4 plus years and we still love it when she does that to me on a weekly basis  she likes going in bareback now ...no gloves are needed ...she loves how i feel inside ...yes she keeps her finger nails trimmed but for us that first time was truly amazing indeed  funny how much i crave that now and funny how relaxed i am after ..but it really is a great thing to share with your lady if she can fist you i must say ...love strapon play but being fisted is amazing  have fun ..mal

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RE: Best S&M memory - 8/30/2009 6:30:08 AM   
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Pick one favorite?  That's a pretty tough call.  I think I'd have to go with the night of clip's first cutting.  I'm going to save Myself the keystrokes and just paste what I wrote previously when I posted the story originally.

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As many of you know, clip was here for a visit before his deployment overseas.  One activity that was on the agenda for his trip here was his first cutting.  A big leap for him and also a groundbreaking event for Me.

Allow Me to set the stage:  My clip and I were invited to a small local play space here just outside of town.  A wonderful establishment that has been so welcoming to us.  Outside of the city, where the trees and the stars could be one's only companions.

To Me, this was better than the public club that I've been known to play in Atlanta.  Small, intimate, better flexibility of standard rules.

Once the toys were out and the boy was secure, there was a short warm up.  I flogged him gently, warming his skin and preparing him for the treat that I was so anxious for us to share.

I increased the level of impact play.  Moved up in the intensity of floggers.  The shoulders and the back started to become pink.  As the play went on, I found My rhythm.  I found the zone where every strike lands perfectly.  As the play became harsher, neither of us were on the ground.

I moved the boy from the cross to the table and put the scalpel in My hand.  I felt his apprehension mixed with his devotion and his willingness to give of his flesh to please Me.  I took the safety guard off of the implement, and prepared to cut his skin.

No discussion I have had, learning that I had undertaken, could prepare Me for this moment.  It was not what other people had described.  The blade had something of a rough feeling to it.  I was surprised at the body's resistance to being cut open.  In My prior thoughts to the scene, I had decided that I wanted to duplicate the image of his brand.  I gently cut the letter "L" into him.

As I did so, his body responded and began to bleed.  I kissed his chest for his offering to Me.  The mark upon his chest was Mine alone.  Even now, I can not describe making those small incisions meant.

Already so far in top space, having tasted his blood, there was more work to do.  The mark was not yet complete.  I carefully carved the "P" into his chest, connected to the "L" in the same fashion.  The skin cut and the flesh exposed, I saw inside the body of My boy.  He laid there open for My eyes to see.  The beauty of which, I can't describe.

By the time I finished that second letter, I was so far in space that I had no comparison.  I had his body, his mind, his flesh, his blood. 
This was his offering to Me.  I accepted and relished every moment.  Our bond deeper.

May you find this thing that will impress your memory such as this had for Me.




ETA.  There were some folks who didn't care for this story the first time around.  Don't be surprised if someone feels the need to have an issue with it again.


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RE: Best S&M memory - 8/30/2009 6:39:45 AM   
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Doing my first flesh hooks suspension. The man I was suspending was a masochist but not a sub. The whole thing was mind blowing and his response was such that I became determined to try hook suspension for myself and see it from the other side.

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RE: Best S&M memory - 8/30/2009 8:20:23 AM   
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Dog food, nice touch.

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RE: Best S&M memory - 8/30/2009 1:46:59 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: MaamJay

When I said "why did you eat it then?" he said "Because i trust You Ma'am and i know You wouldn't allow anything to harm me". Ahhhh that was special.

Maam Jay aka violet[A]


That made me tear up! I love moments like those.

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