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facesitting session - 8/29/2009 5:45:31 PM

anton920

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its been a fanasy of mine for a long time to have a female dominate me and possibly tie me down and facesit me in panties how do i go about finding someone or even paying for a session thanks..

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RE: facesitting session - 8/29/2009 6:00:41 PM

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What city do you live in?

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EDIT; Never mind..You live to far away..

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RE: facesitting session - 8/29/2009 7:48:33 PM

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Finding a pro is easy. Go to erosguide or maxfisch.

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RE: facesitting session - 8/29/2009 7:50:41 PM

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pass on the panties too

if my lady is going to sit on my face its going to be skin next to skin

so my tongue ..lips and mouth can please her as much as i possibly can

panties cum off before she sits on my face ...better licking that way

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RE: facesitting session - 8/29/2009 8:39:15 PM

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Open your wallet for a pro. Just remember, you are a client. Nothing more, nothing less.

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RE: facesitting session - 8/29/2009 8:57:33 PM

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Hmm, I'd personally not suggest going to a pro.
But it is your money lol.

IMO most vanilla girls don;t mind face sitting, once they are comfortable with you, and you are that far along in the relationship.
(But there is still going to be a chunk who will be too easily embarrassed, or just straight up refuse to allow someone to give them oral.)

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RE: facesitting session - 8/30/2009 1:56:06 AM

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Face sitting is just another sexual act and you don't need to be kinky to be doing it.

Being tied up and have a girl sit on your face till you desperately need air is a bit more up our street and its unlikely you will find a willing participant in the vanilla world (not quickly anyway)

I would say go for a pro that states she loves face sitting but don't expect her to be sitting on you with bare skin.

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RE: facesitting session - 8/30/2009 2:29:31 AM

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I agree, a pro Domme will cater for this senario :)

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RE: facesitting session - 8/30/2009 2:34:49 AM

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Anton says in his profile and his post that he is willing to pay a ProDomme for the service. I think his question is how does he find a ProDomme?

Anton, I don't know, but perhaps put the word ProDomme in the the search section for your state? Maybe someone else can be of more help than I.

Good luck.

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RE: facesitting session - 8/30/2009 5:50:01 AM

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pro doms ...look here ....eros.com ...under bdsm ..click on the map for your state and away you go

some good some bad ..good luck

or maxfisch.com ...plug in your state ...and hopefully a bunch of names pop up in your area

good luck in your search ..

or you can try collarme ..but i like my chances better on the other 2 sites i gave you ..mal

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RE: facesitting session - 8/30/2009 6:27:34 AM

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Also many facesitting fans, and ladies here Mistress Destinys Forums

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RE: facesitting session - 8/30/2009 8:15:54 AM

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Many Professional Dominants will not allow you direct contact with their genitals, so if you do go to one make sure to ask.

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RE: facesitting session - 9/10/2009 1:32:08 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: allthatjaz

Face sitting is just another sexual act and you don't need to be kinky to be doing it.

Being tied up and have a girl sit on your face till you desperately need air is a bit more up our street and its unlikely you will find a willing participant in the vanilla world (not quickly anyway)

I would say go for a pro that states she loves face sitting but don't expect her to be sitting on you with bare skin.

I would point out that a pros bare skin would be a bad thing in many cases. Try and get to know someone

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RE: facesitting session - 9/10/2009 1:43:40 PM

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Why would pros' skins be bad, Billy? Do their buttocks tend to be more abrasive on the face than those of lifestyle dommes?

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RE: facesitting session - 9/10/2009 1:49:03 PM

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sit on my face and tell me that you love me , and i'll sit on your face and tell you I love you ;)
actually for just face sitting you could probably just get an escort will cost less money then a pro if you are going to pay someone :P half the "pros" I have seen around aren't much more then bitchy escorts that charge double an escort might :P but then again I've never paid for either so it's just casual observations :)

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RE: facesitting session - 9/10/2009 1:52:45 PM

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sit on my face and tell me that you love me , and i'll sit on your face and tell you I love you ;)
actually for just face sitting you could probably just get an escort will cost less money then a pro if you are going to pay someone :P half the "pros" I have seen around aren't much more then bitchy escorts that charge double an escort might :P but then again I've never paid for either so it's just casual observations :)

Glad you posted this as I was deciding if i even wanted to respond to the stupid reply to my post.

The fact as you pointed out that some pros(some not all of course) are just escorts (hookers) is why I said what i did. I would avoid being face sat by a hooker.

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RE: facesitting session - 9/10/2009 8:29:31 PM

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Guys, today is not September 16th!

Cheers,

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RE: facesitting session - 9/10/2009 11:57:44 PM

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its been a fanasy of mine for a long time to have a female dominate me and possibly tie me down and facesit me in panties how do i go about finding someone or even paying for a session thanks..

There is no material difference between your request and that of a random horny teenager who says, "It's been a fantasy of mine for a long time to have sex with a girl, how do I go about finding a girl to have sex with?" Well duuh, use basic social skills and develop a relationship with another human being to the point that she likes you, finds you personally attractive and wants to share intimate pleasures with you.

Make yourself attractive and desirable, spend some serious time in the gym, read a book, develop a charming personality and nice manners, learn to be interesting and witty and fun to spend time with. WTF are some guys thinking that they don't seem to comprehend this? It's not rocket science. If you don't have the social skills to develop a relationship and you're a boring slob, you're not gonna get laid whether it's vanilla or kinky.

Alternatively, hire a pro. Money can be a shortcut for this kind of effort, which is evidently too much for some guys to want to bother with. However, most pro dommes are not willing to engage in direct sexual contact, so you may be better off with a prostitute.

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RE: facesitting session - 9/11/2009 5:06:28 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: allthatjaz

Face sitting is just another sexual act and you don't need to be kinky to be doing it.

Being tied up and have a girl sit on your face till you desperately need air is a bit more up our street and its unlikely you will find a willing participant in the vanilla world (not quickly anyway)

I would say go for a pro that states she loves face sitting but don't expect her to be sitting on you with bare skin.

When someone says facesitting, the bit about not being able to breathe, that's what comes to mind for me. When some says queening, I think they're stepping around saying oral sex. That's a personal distinction MsKitty and I hold. (In fact, our facesitting regiment is as Her as my sponsor in my 12 step program to stop breathing....try as we might I just can't seem to stop. So as you can see, I need the help to handle my unhealthy addiction to air.)

To the OP: And I think of all the kinky things, that this would actually be the easiest to get a vanilla chick into...just laugh when she gets up to give you air and she'll either think you're nuts or start to giggle too (and it's always fun to find out if women laugh with their entire bodies or not).

Finally, hiring a pro will not result in oral sex. And often it takes going to a pro for more than a facesitting session as because it's a fairly intimate act, some may have a rule to not facesit on the first session, some may not. You need to take your time finding a pro that has the energy that works for you.

And don't listen to the individuals who don't know jack about Pros. Most Pros aren't escorts and will gladly state so to you if you suggest any sexual activity and warn you about stepping into the "no-no" territory. Escorts have no problem calling themselves escorts. There's no reason to be confused except if you listen to the guys that are either bitter they have to pay for it or have no experience in dealing with pros and just make assumptions (assumptions being what they are and all.).

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RE: facesitting session - 9/11/2009 2:21:53 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: BoiJen

quote:

ORIGINAL: allthatjaz

Face sitting is just another sexual act and you don't need to be kinky to be doing it.

Being tied up and have a girl sit on your face till you desperately need air is a bit more up our street and its unlikely you will find a willing participant in the vanilla world (not quickly anyway)

I would say go for a pro that states she loves face sitting but don't expect her to be sitting on you with bare skin.

And don't listen to the individuals who don't know jack about Pros. Most Pros aren't escorts and will gladly state so to you if you suggest any sexual activity and warn you about stepping into the "no-no" territory. Escorts have no problem calling themselves escorts. There's no reason to be confused except if you listen to the guys that are either bitter they have to pay for it or have no experience in dealing with pros and just make assumptions (assumptions being what they are and all.).

Now that is funny, you assume that assumptions were made. You assume that anyone that would say that some pros are escorts (I did say some, not most) are guys who are bitter and have to pay for it or have no experience.

Seems all internet forums have your type that assume that anyone who disagrees is wrong or worse. Does not matter if it's kink, cars, bikes or cooking. So to get it right for you. No pros are escorts and if I or anyone thinks that even one in history was we are bitter and have to pay for it?

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