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RE: Eeeew....We Went To A Public Dungeon - 9/1/2009 11:42:16 AM   
DemonKia


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As a top / D-inclined type, I personally think that bottoms should put together their own 'bottoming kit', full of the toys they want used on themselves . . . . Partly for the reason raised below, but also as part of that person's process of self-discovery . . . . . With hints of 'taking responsibility for one's own self' in there, too . . . . . .

I've gotten to the place where I get squicked about sharing floggers & such, but I'll admit to being a bit of a germ-phobe . . . . .

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ORIGINAL: NearlyAcquiesced

*fast reply*

As an aside, I have bought all my own "pain gear" because the thought of someone hitting my bits or anything that might bring blood with a flogger or whatever they used on another girls bits makes me icked out like omg. AND IT IS SO RAMPANT.



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RE: Eeeew....We Went To A Public Dungeon - 9/1/2009 12:21:04 PM   
TickledToDeath


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ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

We went to Paddles last night and were not blown away. It's the only public place we've ever gone to so we really don't know how it compares to others.
The first thing that turned us off was the layout. The hallways were narrow and you sometimes literally had to step over someone who was scening in the middle of the hallway...i.e. two dommes were having their boots licked by two sub males who were sprawled out blocking the access to the left side. We watched an hour long flogging and found the two to be unemotional and cold. It was as if they were following a script. In fact just about every scene we watched was void of energy and excitement and emotion. Not even gonna get into all of the single male wankers trolling around. And the biggest issue we had was that there were no sanitary wipes. People would use the dungeon furniture with bare skin and then not wipe it down afterwards. Yuck. Is this how a typical dungeon tends to be? I doubt we'll ever go back there for these reasons. We were surprised because Paddles is supposed to be one of the better clubs.


What you describe above is why my wife and I do not go there anymore, well one of the reasons. While I may have suggested on this forum and to anyone else who asked me where they can go as far as bdsm clubs or dungeons go, of that nature, I did so in the hopes they they may have changed and cleaned up their act. Obviously, they did not. Over the  years they did indeed get steadily worse and the people who frequented the establishment also became worse and more....skeevy. Oh well, I guess I will not be recommending Pads to anyone anymore.
Hellfire when in the "meat packing district" of  NYC was far worse than that described about Paddles.
That was scary! LOL
There really to my knowledge is no other place of that nature. The Loft I think is gone completely or is in Brooklyn now.
The Whipping Post I believe is a memory as well.

All other "dungeons" are pay for play as far as I know.

TTD

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