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Has anyone used their postion to improve the health of ... - 2/25/2006 3:26:42 PM

openmindedslave

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Has anyone had any good experiences involving improving the life of the sub, when it comes to elimating bad habits, weight lost or other personal improvenment for the subs wll being ?

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RE: Has anyone used their postion to improve the health... - 2/25/2006 4:00:10 PM

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Well since Master wont write to these forums, i will write on his behalf.

Master has helped improve my health. I was pretty sick before Master came, for years i suffered with pain and severe bleeding, when he first came one of the first things he did was take me off to the doctors to get a hysterectomy (badly needed).

As I had been bleeding so badly for so long and really wasnt eating much protien, I had anemia, this made me kinda weak. Also, due to other circumstances, my health had become a last on the list priority for me, so Master changed that.

Since the two years we have been together now, I'm so much healthier now. I'm taking martial arts classes wtih Master and can even do the splits again lol.

I really appreciate the support He has given me in so many ways.

Bad Habits: I didnt really have any, He has given me one back though (ugh)..ive started smoking again as he does (Id quit for like 5 years )...oh well...................

The good far outways the bad *grin*

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RE: Has anyone used their postion to improve the health... - 2/25/2006 4:11:37 PM

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I am so excited for you( except the smoking lol..I am allergic myself )

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RE: Has anyone used their postion to improve the health... - 2/25/2006 4:16:23 PM

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i always try to bring the best out of ppl that give themselves in my hands
anyhow some do not react good on the try to make them think on their own, or get their health and body improved

i like some intelligent talks, so i try to make sure *we* can have them too.

i let them read...search for theater cards....siteseeingtours......we got some home training equipments

i try to find out what they like to do...want to do....

and of couse i try to teach them basic housework hehehehe

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RE: Has anyone used their postion to improve the health... - 2/25/2006 7:58:39 PM

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ORIGINAL: openmindedslave

Has anyone had any good experiences involving improving the life of the sub, when it comes to elimating bad habits, weight lost or other personal improvenment for the subs wll being ?

DEAR OPENMINDED-SLAVE,(MOI?!)
i am more myself when i am a perfect slave;
i am better;i look better; i feel better;i know im better,with her...than without,but,improving each other occurs,naturally ,by lifestyle anyway;unless she's fattening you up,to cook you ,in the oven....
but in reality
what ,or where is the slave that has the time ,for vice ,outside the tops'- rule ?
are you a chimney stack in bed after you cum, cause its your, only chance ,to smoke your brains out ,then -you have to go back ,to being a slave?....,or
am i bulleamic ,in,between times i am waiting ,for HER, under HER ,or worshiping HER, and being HER object....SHE is;and,
therefore ,you are( improved);
you are made, in the reflection ,of your god,so to speak;
granted;i may ,become a fat slob ,without a sex-life which means being a slave,to me ,or
no-
i have, not much reason ,to starve myself ,refrain ,from getting loaded;on sweets,or,food,and wine,
not much reason to
whip myself into shape,or be a "slave,to please",
without HER;somewhere ,in the picture....so i guess you can sometimes see the difference.

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RE: Has anyone used their postion to improve the health... - 2/25/2006 10:52:38 PM

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Yes....slave bishop used to smoke.

I made her stop.Not cold turkey of course...dont need a bitchy slave.

she was getting kidney stones from too much caffeine,so I switched her to caffiene free again not cold turkey,caffeine withdrawels are horrible.

If your going to change them for the better make sure your doing it the right way.
No cold turkey,extreme dieting,exercise without a check up first...afterall you wanted them healthy to begin with,dont kill em tryin.....lol

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RE: Has anyone used their postion to improve the health... - 2/25/2006 11:14:00 PM

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Master makes sure I take care of my health as well as His. As His caregiver I tend to concentrate on Him more than myself

For instance, last week I had a sore shoulder and He took me off to the doctor's to make sure there was nothing seriously wrong. If it had been left up to me I would most probably have self medicated myself at home.

He also tells me to take some time for myself and do things that I enjoy. I've begun going to the beauty parlour for facials and manicures, things I did not bother with before. I'm encouraged to buy quality things instead of cheap stuff. He is slowly breaking me free of years of frugality, so that I get used to the idea that there's nothing wrong with spoiling myself occasionally

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RE: Has anyone used their postion to improve the health... - 2/25/2006 11:21:20 PM

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Nothing wrong with being frugal either lol. I'd rather spend the 8 bucks that high end lipstucks and stuff cost on materials so I can sew more bibs. I'd rather spend the 24 bucks a trip to one movie would cost on several out of the local rental place ect ect

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RE: Has anyone used their postion to improve the health... - 2/25/2006 11:31:31 PM

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ORIGINAL: FelinePersuasion

Nothing wrong with being frugal either lol. I'd rather spend the 8 bucks that high end lipstucks and stuff cost on materials so I can sew more bibs. I'd rather spend the 24 bucks a trip to one movie would cost on several out of the local rental place ect ect

I agree with that.Plus when you rent you can pause go pee and come back no dirty stares...lol
But I also feel for someone who is not used to pampering themelves its good to go nuts once in a while.
I know when I buy some things I buy them cheap,but then some stuff like leather cuffs or a collar I want to last I go all out.

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RE: Has anyone used their postion to improve the health... - 2/26/2006 6:47:25 AM

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Not on purpose.

I don't use oils when I cook except for waffles and to put in water to help keep pasta separated -- no oils otherwise, I use applesauce or other substitutes.

We don't eat much red meat and we eat high fiber foods and a majority of our dairy products are hormone free now.

It was a big change for Fox. But has it made him healthier?

I don't know.

I know that I feel more motivated myself to eat better and to exercise because he's more active himself and he's 11 years younger. If I want to go for a walk or go bowling or do something that isn't on the computer, I go with Fox.

In a sense then I think we balance each other health benefits out and being happier I think is also healthier and we are both happier with this stable 24/7 than without it.

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RE: Has anyone used their postion to improve the health... - 2/26/2006 9:06:22 AM

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My training (fem supremacy) has a strong spiritual element. If a slave gives him/herself to me the first thing I tell them is, “Be the best that you can be so you can be that for me. (and themselves, of course). My training involved meditation, special diet, exercise & things that would not be considered part of bdsm. Still they are important aspects of training because of the complexities in our lifestyle it’s important for us all to have a solid and balanced foundation.

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