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Real0ne -> RE: Calling all pussy slaves (2/25/2006 11:43:34 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AAkasha quote: ORIGINAL: Real0ne quote: ORIGINAL: AAkasha You are assuming the person typing on the other end is a woman and a femdom. There are many, many men who pose as women (and femdoms) in chat rooms with one hand on their dick and one hand on the keyboard, asking male subs to "tell me your fantasy now, my slave." Akasha yeh you are right. a woman would never do something like that. had to be a man! only men do that! I didn't say that. I was pointing out that it's not uncommon for men to pretend to be women in order to get jerkoff material in chat rooms. I think women are less likely to fake and pretend they are men. I also wouldn't presume only men make multiple accounts on collarme to post on the boards, but most I have seen have been men. Akasha thanks for clarifying that. for a minute there i thought you were trying to imply that the people i was talking about were most likely men.

Real0ne -> RE: Calling all pussy slaves (2/25/2006 11:48:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TexasMaam Give Me a boy who will let Me guide him and teach him how, and I'll give him a gold star! Texas Maam[/color] Oh come on!!! Any guy that needs to be "guided" and cant figure it out first time out of the box, or is that in the box..... sux and doesnt know what he is doing LOL i surely would not scoff at guidance if thats what she wants but frankly its really fun to see how many ways i can trip someones trigger and how fast i can find all of them out.

SweetDommes -> RE: Calling all pussy slaves (2/26/2006 8:56:46 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Real0ne quote: ORIGINAL: TexasMaam Give Me a boy who will let Me guide him and teach him how, and I'll give him a gold star! Texas Maam[/color] Oh come on!!! Any guy that needs to be "guided" and cant figure it out first time out of the box, or is that in the box..... sux and doesnt know what he is doing LOL i surely would not scoff at guidance if thats what she wants but frankly its really fun to see how many ways i can trip someones trigger and how fast i can find all of them out. I'm with Texas on this one ... if I have a guy who insists on doing it his way no matter what it happens to be doing to me, he's going to get a boot to the head right real quick. The fact that my "triggers" change depending on my monthly cycle is only one of many reasons that I prefer go give my boys some guidance. I would say it also has something to do with the fact that I, like most Dommes, like to be in control gasp of shock from the crowd I know, I know, surprising, isn't it?

DiannaVesta -> RE: Calling all pussy slaves (2/26/2006 9:15:09 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AAkasha The post about oral sex made me think of another, larger issue. This is for all you pussy slaves who line right up and raise your hand and insist you are the TRUE, BEST, 100% devoted pussy slave and that your "pussy devotion" is greater than no other slave. This is for you slaves that fantasize about being locked permanently in a pussy device, locked and forced to use your tongue until your mouth and jaw are ready to collapse. This is for the pussy slaves that want to put Oral Worship at the TOP of their list, and they are actually very sad to hear that a woman might not be that interested in oral worship. Attention Super Pussy Slaves: We have zero use for you. Zero. In fact, you go to the bottom of the list as far as useful slaves go. If you proclaim out of the gate to a woman that pussy worship is your forte', you may as well be telling her you are a leper. If when she asks you what talent you are most proud of you say "I can lick a pussy for hours, Mistress!" you may as well be telling her you don't shower and enjoy stinking on a regular basis. Here's the reason. It's really quite simple. There are some men out there that see women simply as a pussy that happens to be attached to a female body, and the fact that she has a brain, personality and her own needs is secondary. There are subs that have turned "pussy worship" into a form of objectification akin to being unable to talk to a woman without staring right at her breasts the entire time and make comments about how nice her tits are. If you are so wrapped up in pussy worship that you actually annjoy, bother and berate your girlfriends to the point that they have to lay there and try to watch tv and fake orgasms, you have taken it too far. There are some men that will whine and complain if they don't get to "eat their lady" a certain number of times a week, and who cares what kind of mood she is in or if she's simply sick of it. These subs also don't care if she came and is quite satisfied, these subs interrupt and ruin the post-orgasm bliss to say "Are you ready for another ma'am? Please! This pussy slave needs to worship you!" There are some subs that make insulting comments about ex girlfriends, insinuating that these ladies were less sexual or frigid because they did not let their man suction-cup his mouth to her pussy every night for 2 hours. They blame these women who were simply sick and tired of being a pussy-for-licking for a guy who really cared little about her pleasure, he just wanted to eat her out. There IS such a thing as "too much" when it comes to pussy worship, and it really comes down to this. When a man cares more about eating pussy than about the woman he's with, he really needs to invest in a rubber vagina to lick each night. Akasha lol- I laughed so hard I peed my pants. Its true tho.

DiannaVesta -> RE: Calling all pussy slaves (2/26/2006 9:28:12 AM)
Any type of fetishism can produce a selfish slave. Still, it can also be a wonderful tool to manipulate and train a slave the way you want him. I know this for a fact! lol

Real0ne -> RE: Calling all pussy slaves (2/26/2006 10:36:19 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SweetDommes quote: ORIGINAL: Real0ne quote: ORIGINAL: TexasMaam Give Me a boy who will let Me guide him and teach him how, and I'll give him a gold star! Texas Maam[/color] Oh come on!!! Any guy that needs to be "guided" and cant figure it out first time out of the box, or is that in the box..... sux and doesnt know what he is doing LOL i surely would not scoff at guidance if thats what she wants but frankly its really fun to see how many ways i can trip someones trigger and how fast i can find all of them out. I'm with Texas on this one ... if I have a guy who insists on doing it his way no matter what it happens to be doing to me, he's going to get a boot to the head right real quick. The fact that my "triggers" change depending on my monthly cycle is only one of many reasons that I prefer go give my boys some guidance. I would say it also has something to do with the fact that I, like most Dommes, like to be in control gasp of shock from the crowd I know, I know, surprising, isn't it? of course if you prefer to give guidance needed or not then your will be done. What if the boy is in sync and getting you off regardless? thats what i'm talkin about!! :) not all boys "need" guidance to do the job right! each to their own but i never seen anything really complicated about getting a woman off frankly. several times!! Like a minimum of 10!!! LOL

maidentouse -> RE: Calling all pussy slaves (2/26/2006 1:25:12 PM)
MissTress thank You for posting such a sensible response here i thoroughly enjoyed your post about pussy slaves and toally agrees that a submissive male is likely better doing your dishes ironing cooking or laundry and as for pussy im not sure wimps deserve pussy at least how i was trained that was reserved for real men . sissy boy

SweetDommes -> RE: Calling all pussy slaves (2/26/2006 2:16:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Real0ne of course if you prefer to give guidance needed or not then your will be done. What if the boy is in sync and getting you off regardless? thats what i'm talkin about!! :) not all boys "need" guidance to do the job right! each to their own but i never seen anything really complicated about getting a woman off frankly. several times!! Like a minimum of 10!!! LOL By the time the boy is in sync with me, the time for guidance is over. I believe that the OP was in reference to guys who have never before seen the Dominant in question, but is assuming that he knows exactly how to please her with his tongue. That's not how it works. The 'guidance' phase is when the relationship starts - letting the boy know what needs to be done, when, and in what order. As Texas said, it's about getting to "teach him how." Your reply to me shows a lot of conceit, in my opinion - you are assuming that you are so wonderful that you would never ""need" guidance to do the job right" ... but for a new partner, don't you need cues ... something to let you know what is working and what isn't? That counts as guidance.

AAkasha -> RE: Calling all pussy slaves (2/26/2006 2:45:03 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SweetDommes quote: ORIGINAL: Real0ne of course if you prefer to give guidance needed or not then your will be done. What if the boy is in sync and getting you off regardless? thats what i'm talkin about!! :) not all boys "need" guidance to do the job right! each to their own but i never seen anything really complicated about getting a woman off frankly. several times!! Like a minimum of 10!!! LOL By the time the boy is in sync with me, the time for guidance is over. I believe that the OP was in reference to guys who have never before seen the Dominant in question, but is assuming that he knows exactly how to please her with his tongue. That's not how it works. The 'guidance' phase is when the relationship starts - letting the boy know what needs to be done, when, and in what order. As Texas said, it's about getting to "teach him how." Your reply to me shows a lot of conceit, in my opinion - you are assuming that you are so wonderful that you would never ""need" guidance to do the job right" ... but for a new partner, don't you need cues ... something to let you know what is working and what isn't? That counts as guidance. I'll agree with you here. When a man makes an arrogant statement like "I don't see what's so complicated about getting a woman off frankly" it shows he probably thinks way too much of his own abilities and not nearly enough about the unique nature of individual women and their bodies. That kind of "I know all about it!" right out of the gate to me is a warning sign that he's going to be a miserable failure, and also not ASK for feedback or WANT to know if he's doing a poor job. Instead, he'll assume it's the woman's problem if she's not convulsing in orgasms. Akasha

Real0ne -> RE: Calling all pussy slaves (2/26/2006 2:54:53 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SweetDommes quote: ORIGINAL: Real0ne of course if you prefer to give guidance needed or not then your will be done. What if the boy is in sync and getting you off regardless? thats what i'm talkin about!! :) not all boys "need" guidance to do the job right! each to their own but i never seen anything really complicated about getting a woman off frankly. several times!! Like a minimum of 10!!! LOL By the time the boy is in sync with me, the time for guidance is over. I believe that the OP was in reference to guys who have never before seen the Dominant in question, but is assuming that he knows exactly how to please her with his tongue. That's not how it works. The 'guidance' phase is when the relationship starts - letting the boy know what needs to be done, when, and in what order. As Texas said, it's about getting to "teach him how." Your reply to me shows a lot of conceit, in my opinion - you are assuming that you are so wonderful that you would never ""need" guidance to do the job right" ... but for a new partner, don't you need cues ... something to let you know what is working and what isn't? That counts as guidance. my point is that if out of a couple hours the first 5 - 15 minutes is to long to let me find out what trips your trigger the first time in my life that i went down on ya, then i suppose guidance would be in order. otherwise for most, they love it that i have the ability to perform the way i do :) i do not need someone to tell me what works and what doesnt and neither does anyone else who is "good"! most cases after a few times i know more about what gets them off than they did. that and i have shown some new ways they never guessed they would ever get off, often giving them better orgasms than their way. which really gets their attention. well assuming more intense is better. its not an assumption on my part i can provide references! LOLOL i swear you all act like very natural acts of sexuality requires one to be a rocket scientist with schematics and blueprints! LOL

AAkasha -> RE: Calling all pussy slaves (2/26/2006 2:58:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Real0ne quote: ORIGINAL: SweetDommes quote: ORIGINAL: Real0ne of course if you prefer to give guidance needed or not then your will be done. What if the boy is in sync and getting you off regardless? thats what i'm talkin about!! :) not all boys "need" guidance to do the job right! each to their own but i never seen anything really complicated about getting a woman off frankly. several times!! Like a minimum of 10!!! LOL By the time the boy is in sync with me, the time for guidance is over. I believe that the OP was in reference to guys who have never before seen the Dominant in question, but is assuming that he knows exactly how to please her with his tongue. That's not how it works. The 'guidance' phase is when the relationship starts - letting the boy know what needs to be done, when, and in what order. As Texas said, it's about getting to "teach him how." Your reply to me shows a lot of conceit, in my opinion - you are assuming that you are so wonderful that you would never ""need" guidance to do the job right" ... but for a new partner, don't you need cues ... something to let you know what is working and what isn't? That counts as guidance. my point is that if out of a couple hours the first 5 - 15 minutes is to long to let me find out what trips your trigger the first time in my life that i went down on ya, then i suppose guidance would be in order. otherwise for most, they love it that i have the ability to perform the way i do :) i do not need someone to tell me what works and what doesnt and neither does anyone else who is "good"! most cases after a few times i know more about what gets them off than they did. that and i have shown some new ways they never guessed they would ever get off, often giving them better orgasms than their way. which really gets their attention. well assuming more intense is better. its not an assumption on my part i can provide references! LOLOL i swear you all act like very natural acts of sexuality requires one to be a rocket scientist with schematics and blueprints! LOL This kind of "it's not rocket science, I know I am great in bed, I have references! Trust me!" line of thinking is a sure indication a guy is crappy in bed. The more they brag and insist they need little/no guidance, the worse they are. They think they know it all. Give me a virgin over this any day. At least he has an open mind. Akasha

Real0ne -> RE: Calling all pussy slaves (2/26/2006 3:04:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AAkasha This kind of "it's not rocket science, I know I am great in bed, I have references! Trust me!" line of thinking is a sure indication a guy is crappy in bed. The more they brag and insist they need little/no guidance, the worse they are. They think they know it all. Give me a virgin over this any day. At least he has an open mind. Akasha for whatever the voice of inexperience is worth. Yeh references dont know nutting either only kaska does! get a virgin!!! LOLOLOL

AAkasha -> RE: Calling all pussy slaves (2/26/2006 3:14:43 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Real0ne quote: ORIGINAL: AAkasha This kind of "it's not rocket science, I know I am great in bed, I have references! Trust me!" line of thinking is a sure indication a guy is crappy in bed. The more they brag and insist they need little/no guidance, the worse they are. They think they know it all. Give me a virgin over this any day. At least he has an open mind. Akasha for whatever the voice of inexperience is worth. Yeh references dont know nutting either only kaska does! get a virgin!!! LOLOLOL What is "kaska"? You lost me on that one. The reasons references don't mean anything when you are talking about the act of going down on a woman is that women are very different in their responses. Their bodies are also very different. Also, women tend to lie to make men feel better about their performance in bed anyway. Ever heard of a woman faking an orgasm? Akasha

SweetDommes -> RE: Calling all pussy slaves (2/26/2006 4:19:43 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Real0ne my point is that if out of a couple hours the first 5 - 15 minutes is to long to let me find out what trips your trigger the first time in my life that i went down on ya, then i suppose guidance would be in order. otherwise for most, they love it that i have the ability to perform the way i do :) i do not need someone to tell me what works and what doesnt and neither does anyone else who is "good"! most cases after a few times i know more about what gets them off than they did. that and i have shown some new ways they never guessed they would ever get off, often giving them better orgasms than their way. which really gets their attention. well assuming more intense is better. its not an assumption on my part i can provide references! LOLOL i swear you all act like very natural acts of sexuality requires one to be a rocket scientist with schematics and blueprints! LOL And my point is that every woman is different. If you have managed to totally figure out every single woman that you have been with in the first 15 minutes that you've gone down on her (at least with respect to "tripping her triggers"), then I have to conclude that one of three things has happened with you: you haven't been with very many woman.. you have been very lucky. not all of them have been honest with you (not all Dommes are liars - far from it, but I've seen plenty of evidence of a few who are/have been). I don't venture to guess which it is, but keep in mind that EVERY woman is different, and to say that you can figure out ANY woman within 5-15 minutes is incredibly conceited. I've been with guys that I can confidently say were fabulous, and I'm sure that others could varify the same ... but it still takes practice - getting to know your partner and the differences between him/her and your other partners, as well as how the two of you work together.

theRose4U -> RE: Calling all pussy slaves (2/26/2006 5:58:52 PM)
quote: Any guy that needs to be "guided" and cant figure it out first time out of the box, or is that in the box..... sux and doesnt know what he is doing LOL Got news for you I've had boys and nilla boyfriends that couldn't find my clit when I actually drew pictures ON IT!!! There's only so many times you can tolerate bad oral from someone that fancies themselves an expert...because an "expert" means that no matter what you tell them pleases YOU they'll just stick with their oh aren't I an expert groove.

AAkasha -> RE: Calling all pussy slaves (2/26/2006 6:17:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: theRose4U quote: Any guy that needs to be "guided" and cant figure it out first time out of the box, or is that in the box..... sux and doesnt know what he is doing LOL Got news for you I've had boys and nilla boyfriends that couldn't find my clit when I actually drew pictures ON IT!!! There's only so many times you can tolerate bad oral from someone that fancies themselves an expert...because an "expert" means that no matter what you tell them pleases YOU they'll just stick with their oh aren't I an expert groove. He is unteachable. You can't teach an "old dog" new tricks. Not that his attitude makes one want to try, anyway. Akasha

BitaTruble -> RE: Calling all pussy slaves (2/26/2006 6:17:32 PM)
quote: a guy can go down on you completely different than the boy you teach stroke by stroke and you will have a better orgasm than the boy you taught stroke by stroke. explain how this can possibly happen and lets see what you "really" know about it ;) I'm a bit confused. Are you asking them to prove your point? How can they explain your scenario when they disagree with you? Shouldn't 'you' be the one explaining it? Celeste

brightspot -> RE: Calling all pussy slaves (2/26/2006 6:23:00 PM)
quote: Attention Super Pussy Slaves: We have zero use for you. Zero. It never ceases to amaze me Aakasha how you not only think you can speak for all Fem-Dommes, but in this instance for how all "pussy slaves" think and feel too. Your egotism is unbelieveable[:'(]. *Brightspot

Real0ne -> RE: Calling all pussy slaves (2/26/2006 6:28:20 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: theRose4U quote: Any guy that needs to be "guided" and cant figure it out first time out of the box, or is that in the box..... sux and doesnt know what he is doing LOL Got news for you I've had boys and nilla boyfriends that couldn't find my clit when I actually drew pictures ON IT!!! There's only so many times you can tolerate bad oral from someone that fancies themselves an expert...because an "expert" means that no matter what you tell them pleases YOU they'll just stick with their oh aren't I an expert groove. No thats not news at all. i would not be surprised if a survey were taken that maybe 70+% of the guys would suk at pleasing a woman. (especially nilla guys) i have heard soooo many complaints from women about this its sad. Actually there are several women out there who have no clu what it is to have a vaginal orgasm and many who have never had any kind of orgasm and have to be taught as well.

littlesarbonn -> RE: Calling all pussy slaves (2/26/2006 7:35:38 PM)
I had intended to avoid this thread because it was becoming one of those areas where submissives would say the right thing to sound desirable to potential dommes, and then we'd get a bunch of stock responses about how it should always be about the woman rather than about the activity of sexual contact. But as those kinds of posts have continued in this thread, I thought I'd just take the unusual route and say that I agree with Akasha's original post here. It fits EXACTLY with my thoughts on this subject, and it's kind of nice to actually hear it stated by someone who won't get shot down for saying something like this (something that happens to me whenever I've attempted to do so in the past). Anyway, not much more to add other than to say I'd feel really bizarre EVER claiming that oral skill is a forte of mine, even if it was. A previous mistress once sent me to massage therapy school to learn how to take care of her better; a number of years later, a mistress told me I had no idea what I was doing because one style does not fit all. There's something to be said for the Socratic methodology of slavehood where one always admits to knowing nothing in hopes of learning all that one can achieve.

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