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Need Some advice - 8/30/2009 9:24:21 PM   
BloodyMistress19


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Status: offline 		I'm needing some advice about a D/s situation!!

if a older experienced Mistress has time, please contact me!!


thank you
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RE: Need Some advice - 8/31/2009 1:33:48 PM   
SylvereApLeanan


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Status: offline 		Just fyi, if you post your situation on the boards, you're more likely to get responses.  You'll also get the benefit of multiple opinions.
 
Best of luck.

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RE: Need Some advice - 9/4/2009 1:23:17 AM   
maleslave5020


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Status: offline 		 If a Domme uses a 12 inch strap oon and insert it all the way in a male subs butt.. is that ok health wise?

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RE: Need Some advice - 9/4/2009 3:47:13 AM   
DarkSteven


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quote:

ORIGINAL: maleslave5020

If a Domme uses a 12 inch strap oon and insert it all the way in a male subs butt.. is that ok health wise?


Welcome to collarme.

Generally, when you have a comment upon someone's post, you respond to it in their thread.  If you have a new question or statement, you should start a new thread.

To answer your question... anal sex is a matter of getting used to it.  A 12 inch strap on is big, so I'd recommend starting off smaller and working up to it.




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RE: Need Some advice - 9/4/2009 4:42:38 AM   
thishereboi


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

quote:

ORIGINAL: maleslave5020

If a Domme uses a 12 inch strap oon and insert it all the way in a male subs butt.. is that ok health wise?


Welcome to collarme.

Generally, when you have a comment upon someone's post, you respond to it in their thread.  If you have a new question or statement, you should start a new thread.

To answer your question... anal sex is a matter of getting used to it.  A 12 inch strap on is big, so I'd recommend starting off smaller and working up to it.





Darn it, I was going to tell him it was fine as long as he drank 18oz of OJ first. While I realize my advice makes no sense, I really just wanted to see if I could get him to do it. Now he's going to read your post and know I am full of it.

OP I would answer your question, but you didn't post it. If you want to c-mail, that is fine, I will try to help if I can. But Sylvere Apl.eanan was right when she said you will get more responces if you post it here.

< Message edited by thishereboi -- 9/4/2009 4:45:27 AM >

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RE: Need Some advice - 9/4/2009 5:02:27 AM   
MsFlutter


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Status: offline 		in order to consider the 12" approach, I will ask this:

Does the height of the recipient in any way determine the size of insertable they can accommodate?

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RE: Need Some advice - 9/4/2009 10:37:23 AM   
Dnomyar


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Status: offline 		Only 12 inches??????. Come on guy think big.

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RE: Need Some advice - 9/4/2009 5:43:14 PM   
luvzdabutt


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Status: offline 		I don't think the Domme will have any ill effects at all.

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RE: Need Some advice - 9/6/2009 9:13:28 PM   
maleslave5020


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Status: offline 		thought i was on the board..  how do i get on and ask the board..?

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RE: Need Some advice - 9/6/2009 9:19:15 PM   
fluffypet61


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Status: offline 		You are and you did.  Syl was talking to the OP not you.

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RE: Need Some advice - 9/6/2009 9:19:31 PM   
blackpearl81


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quote:

ORIGINAL: maleslave5020

If a Domme uses a 12 inch strap oon and insert it all the way in a male subs butt.. is that ok health wise?


Yup. Especially if he needs his tonsils scratched from behind.

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RE: Need Some advice - 9/6/2009 9:22:06 PM   
DavanKael


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Status: offline 		You're on a thread on the boards, maleslave5020.  You have done what is called 'hijacking' a thread which means that you've gone off on a tangent unrelated to the thread...but, wait, the original poster gave so little information (And seemed, instead, to want private cmail attention) that she may have been wondering about 12" strap-ons up a male sub's ass.  Were you, Bloodymisteress19?
  Davan
(Who hasn't placed a 12" strap-on up anyone's ass but I do believe I used a 10" one that was very thick and squirted, actually.  And, I whole-heartedly endorse boijen's suggestion about drinking 18oz of orange juice first along with eating a heaping serving of seaweed salad)

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RE: Need Some advice - 9/6/2009 9:50:15 PM   
maleslave5020


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

Only 12 inches??????. Come on guy think big.


Are you into that mistress.?

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RE: Need Some advice - 9/6/2009 9:52:01 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		Did he just call Ray "Mistress"?

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RE: Need Some advice - 9/6/2009 9:54:51 PM   
LadySweetOrSour


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Status: offline 		Raymonds a chick????? Who knew?

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RE: Need Some advice - 9/6/2009 10:09:33 PM   
DavanKael


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Status: offline 		Sorry, misquoted: I endorse thishereboi's suggestion.  Apologies for citing the incorrect person. 
  Davan


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RE: Need Some advice - 9/6/2009 10:14:33 PM   
DavanKael


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Status: offline 		I'm pretty sure it's against TOS for folks to give others gender-reassignments against their wishes, maleslave5020, no matter how much you desire to wank.  While I don't know Raymond, I've never noticed him to espouse some deep desire to lose his 'outtie' and become in 'innie'. 
  Davan
(Who maybe should go to sleep...or not)

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RE: Need Some advice - 9/6/2009 10:32:49 PM   
blackpearl81


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DavanKael

I'm pretty sure it's against TOS for folks to give others gender-reassignments against their wishes, maleslave5020, no matter how much you desire to wank.  While I don't know Raymond, I've never noticed him to espouse some deep desire to lose his 'outtie' and become in 'innie'. 
Davan
(Who maybe should go to sleep...or not)


You didn't get the memo, did you?

:(

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RE: Need Some advice - 9/6/2009 10:36:28 PM   
blackpearl81


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Dear Members.
 
Pursuant to Internet Memo 23-45.6, we now respectfully request that you take the following into consideration when addressing other people on public sites and/or forums:
 
1. Women are men
2. Men are women
3. Kids are FBI agents.
 
 
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RE: Need Some advice - 9/6/2009 10:48:52 PM   
DavanKael


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Status: offline 		That, of course explains everything, blackpearl81! 
The memo has some fun possibilities....  :> 
And, I don't just mean when my personal amusement when some sub skips up to an Dom and addresses him as Mistress (Yes, I am taking some liberties envisioning some of the more appreciably masculine CM Dominants who come to mind in this scenario: I assure you it is with all due respect and appreciation and a little creative license given my penchant for certain forms of masculine behavior).  Yes, maleslave5020, you must put this memo into practice immediately and you simply have to go to the Gorean forums (Not because I am picking on the Gorean folk but because I think that there are some there who would enjoy having a bit of fun) and call every male Dominant you encounter there (Which should be all of the males) Mistress.  Then, come back and let us know how that went for you. 
  Davan
(Who still feels cheated that the Great CM Pissing contest was waffled on by the instigator of it and has high hopes that this could create another opportunity for a cage match scenario.  I think I am becoming more sadistic....)

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