Andalusite
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MsStarlett, I assumed Peon meant that it would have served him right if I *had* let them lick them! I've had a couple of my previous boyfriends lick my shoes/boots before, and it can be rather erotic if we're both in the right mood, but it's generally not one of my triggers. My feet are super ticklish though. One of my previous boyfriends tried to suck on my toes unexpectedly one night, and I squealed and accidentally kicked him in the face! He wasn't hurt, I was barefoot, and didn't do it very hard, but I've warned the guys I've dated since not to surprise me that way! I got the same impression that you did, that she's somehow trying to exert Dominance over me. My Master doesn't want me to play those reindeer games with anyone but him! Maybe she's a Gorean or something, since they think that all slaves need to be subservient and obedient toward anyone who isn't a slave? "Any time you think you have influence, try ordering around someone else's slave." Nooreen, I'm not squicked by men licking boots, but ones which had been contaminated with horse poop *are* gross! Granted, I had sponged them off with a leather cleaner and conditioner before leaving the barn, so they weren't too filthy to walk about in. I'm not talking pony play, I mean the kind who weigh half a ton, are strict vegetarians, and are not potty trained. Would you run your shoes through a used kitty litter box and then make someone lick them? Yes, I've been a slave for almost 3 months now. I can assure you that my Master didn't brain wipe me and turn me into an amnesiac or zombie with no recollection of my previous relationships, including 5 years as a Domme, and another 4 years total as a somewhat dominant top or switch. I currently have a female submissive playpartner as well as my Master. She's service oriented, so that may very well come into our play in addition to bondage and S/M, but we don't have a formal D/s dynamic. When I was looking a few months ago, before my Master and I got involved, I was open to someone of any BDSM orientation, not specifically seeking this dynamic. MaamJay also has a Master, AllThatJaz has a Dominant (if I understand their dynamic correctly), and several other ladies here are switches. LadySweeetOrSour, that gave me a good chuckle to start the morning off! Thanks Peon, LP, and WyldHrt! She's got in a snit at me in the "Boiz" thread, and I already clarified over there, but she is determined to harass me about my current relationship dynamic.
< Message edited by Andalusite -- 9/1/2009 8:06:24 AM >
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