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Shoe/foot cleaning - 8/30/2009 9:28:45 PM   
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Do many dommes like foot/shoe worship for the purpose of getting cleaned up?  I have a strong desire of being used by a mistress for this purpose (as well as for purposes such as enjoyment for both of us, humiliation for me, and amusement for her).  Where one of the main reason for doing it is so she feels clean or doesn't track dirt indoors, or save cleaning them herself.
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RE: Shoe/foot cleaning - 8/31/2009 5:56:43 AM   
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Foot worship via cleaning is mostly symbolic.  It's not REALLY to clean the shoes.  Although, I do have one boy who likes to cum on my shoes and then lick them clean.  In that case, he jolly well better do a good job... and he does.  

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RE: Shoe/foot cleaning - 8/31/2009 8:05:44 AM   
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I love having My boots, shoes or feet worshiped. I enjoy it very much. But it's certainly not clean :-) If I would let them lick dirt of My boots, it would be only for My enjoyment and his humiliation. But I also let them clean and polish My boots if needed.

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RE: Shoe/foot cleaning - 8/31/2009 12:56:38 PM   
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No way am I preventing tracking in dirt from outside by letting a man clean my shoes before I step into the house! Kind of makes winter and neighbors difficult. I can see the humiliation aspects and such, but that doesn't reason out for me. The last thing I want to do is wait until things are clean to get in the door and doing what I really want to be doing. I am not thinking kink, worship or any other thing, than getting into the house. lol

Eating dirt may be interesting for some, but I have no desire to have my man eat dirt. I haven't made a guy eat mud pies since I was a kid.






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RE: Shoe/foot cleaning - 8/31/2009 7:36:28 PM   
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Saliva isn't a good cleaning product. Actually, this reminds me of a funny incident a few years ago. I stopped by a BDSM social event (part of a big weekend workshop/party) on my way home from horseback riding, still wearing my breeches and tall boots. Some "submissive" guy knelt before me and asked me if he could lick my boots! I recoiled a bit and snapped, "No!" He seemed a bit taken aback, and I explained that I wasn't interested in foot worship from strangers in any case. Since I *knew* where those boots had been, even though they were reasonably clean to walk around in, trying to lick them would be a very bad idea.

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RE: Shoe/foot cleaning - 8/31/2009 8:54:52 PM   
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Of course you would be against boot licking ~ because you're a slave. Seriously, he was asking dommes, not slaves. Why are you, [a slave] who identifies as a ~slave~ in here answering questions that are asked of dominant women? Yah, o.k. ~ I'll concede anyone can ask, but think about it ~ you're a slave answering a question meant for a dominant woman. Why do you think you are qualified to answer a question asked to a mistress when you're a slave giving slave answers? it's like a master asking submissive women why they love swallowing cum and a mistress comes in and says, "any woman who says they love cum swallowing is full of shit. that slimy sticky shit wouldn't even be appeal to the man and it's his own. gross." Seriously, you're not a mistress, you're a slave and his question was directed to a mistress for a mistress's answer. You're always here answering and you're a slave. And it's usually an answer that undermines female domination.... just sayin...

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RE: Shoe/foot cleaning - 9/1/2009 1:49:40 AM   
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Andalusite's profile states that she's a switch, Noreen.

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RE: Shoe/foot cleaning - 9/1/2009 2:10:11 AM   
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Peon nailed it. Funny that the word 'slave' is used 9 times in Noreen's post and not once in Andalusite's profile.

Any member here can chime in on any thread they like, regardless of orientation, including Mistresses who want to comment on cum swallowing in the Sub forum.... just sayin...


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RE: Shoe/foot cleaning - 9/1/2009 2:36:27 AM   
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So I should not be posting in the general bdsm discussions because I'm not a general?????

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RE: Shoe/foot cleaning - 9/1/2009 2:51:59 AM   
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quote:

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andalusite~

Of course you would be against boot licking ~ because you're a slave. Seriously, he was asking dommes, not slaves. Why are you, [a slave] who identifies as a ~slave~ in here answering questions that are asked of dominant women? Yah, o.k. ~ I'll concede anyone can ask, but think about it ~ you're a slave answering a question meant for a dominant woman. Why do you think you are qualified to answer a question asked to a mistress when you're a slave giving slave answers? it's like a master asking submissive women why they love swallowing cum and a mistress comes in and says, "any woman who says they love cum swallowing is full of shit. that slimy sticky shit wouldn't even be appeal to the man and it's his own. gross." Seriously, you're not a mistress, you're a slave and his question was directed to a mistress for a mistress's answer. You're always here answering and you're a slave. And it's usually an answer that undermines female domination.... just sayin...


Not that Peon and Wyld didn't already properly address this, but out of curiosity, why would you feel the need to try to dictate who can post on this forum and who can't?  Her post was relevant to the topic and was actually kind of funny, considering where her boots had been.  I don't see how her contribution was undermining anything.

Perhaps you should know a thing or two about a person's experiences before making your determination on who qualifies to post on this forum or not.


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RE: Shoe/foot cleaning - 9/1/2009 3:34:56 AM   
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Further, this section would be quite dull without the constant input of Peon, Polite, Darch, Chia, Sea, Kal and about a dozen other sub males.  I enjoy being surrounded by a diverse group of people with different views and perspectives on any given subject.

Of course, Noreen may be playing a Domme Game with the Andalusite,  but I warn you from personal experience, that can go very wrong if both participants don't know and agree to what's going on.

----Now, back to my SHOES!  I do love my shoes.  I love wearing them even though they hurt my feet.  For a short period of time, they are SO worth it.  I love stepping on my boys with my lovely shoes.  However, the whole 'worshiping' thing just doesn't really flip my trigger.  Does nothing for me.  But my Wall-e enjoys it SO much that I'm sort of 'Why not let him have his fun?'  It is rather fun with him because he has such a deep fetish for it.  After trampling him, kicking him and stepping on his genitals in a pair of shoes... it just sort of follows that he should kiss the shoe that brought him such painful delight and then lick his filth off them.

Do I make everyone do it?  No.  I tease my new boy frequently because when I first said something to him about my shoes or painted toe nails, he looked me square in the eye and said "You have feet?  I hadn't noticed."  *giggle*  I've been working on correcting that attitude. 


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RE: Shoe/foot cleaning - 9/1/2009 3:37:12 AM   
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Still, I think it was wrong of Anda to refuse that poor man his offer of bootlicking.  Quite unladylike, actually. 

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RE: Shoe/foot cleaning - 9/1/2009 4:18:56 AM   
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But you're not catching the point, Peon...  It should be part of the whole.  Having a stranger run up and beg to lick your shoes out of the clear blue is rather disarming.  A man who is stricken by a Lady's charms may walk up and possibly ask to kiss her hand, that would be elegant.  However, strangers boot licking is a touch crass.  He might as well have asked "May I swat that lovely ass?"  It just doesn't fly.

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RE: Shoe/foot cleaning - 9/1/2009 4:24:32 AM   
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I don't see why not.  Women are forever coming up to me and offering me a BJ as a way of saying 'hello'.  But, then, I live in Bristol, UK.  Women have extremely refined manners here.

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RE: Shoe/foot cleaning - 9/1/2009 4:28:13 AM   
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*giggle*  I'll try to remember that Peon.  Should you ever make it to my side of the pond, should I greet you at the airport by shaking your penis instead of your hand?

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RE: Shoe/foot cleaning - 9/1/2009 7:54:02 AM   
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quote:

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I don't see why not.  Women are forever coming up to me and offering me a BJ as a way of saying 'hello'.  But, then, I live in Bristol, UK.  Women have extremely refined manners here.

too funny Peon...indeed Ladies and gents; Bristol is well known throughout the UK for the cheerful and enthusiastic greeting that all the women offer. Manys the time I have had to beat these exuberant greeters off me old Uncle as we walked down to the pub. At his age it could be fatal you see. I won't even get into the chaotic production that a visiting Bishop brings to the Womens Auxillary Wednesday meeting....all you can hear is the arthritic clicks as the ladies hit the floor kneeling.

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RE: Shoe/foot cleaning - 9/1/2009 7:59:12 AM   
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MsStarlett, I assumed Peon meant that it would have served him right if I *had* let them lick them! I've had a couple of my previous boyfriends lick my shoes/boots before, and it can be rather erotic if we're both in the right mood, but it's generally not one of my triggers. My feet are super ticklish though. One of my previous boyfriends tried to suck on my toes unexpectedly one night, and I squealed and accidentally kicked him in the face! He wasn't hurt, I was barefoot, and didn't do it very hard, but I've warned the guys I've dated since not to surprise me that way!

I got the same impression that you did, that she's somehow trying to exert Dominance over me. My Master doesn't want me to play those reindeer games with anyone but him! Maybe she's a Gorean or something, since they think that all slaves need to be subservient and obedient toward anyone who isn't a slave? "Any time you think you have influence, try ordering around someone else's slave."

Nooreen, I'm not squicked by men licking boots, but ones which had been contaminated with horse poop *are* gross! Granted, I had sponged them off with a leather cleaner and conditioner before leaving the barn, so they weren't too filthy to walk about in. I'm not talking pony play, I mean the kind who weigh half a ton, are strict vegetarians, and are not potty trained. Would you run your shoes through a used kitty litter box and then make someone lick them?

Yes, I've been a slave for almost 3 months now. I can assure you that my Master didn't brain wipe me and turn me into an amnesiac or zombie with no recollection of my previous relationships, including 5 years as a Domme, and another 4 years total as a somewhat dominant top or switch. I currently have a female submissive playpartner as well as my Master. She's service oriented, so that may very well come into our play in addition to bondage and S/M, but we don't have a formal D/s dynamic. When I was looking a few months ago, before my Master and I got involved, I was open to someone of any BDSM orientation, not specifically seeking this dynamic. MaamJay also has a Master, AllThatJaz has a Dominant (if I understand their dynamic correctly), and several other ladies here are switches.

LadySweeetOrSour, that gave me a good chuckle to start the morning off!

Thanks Peon, LP, and WyldHrt! She's got in a snit at me in the "Boiz" thread, and I already clarified over there, but she is determined to harass me about my current relationship dynamic.


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RE: Shoe/foot cleaning - 9/1/2009 8:04:50 AM   
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MsStarlett, I assumed Peon meant that it would have served him right if I *had* let them lick them!

I didn't really mean anything much, Anda.  I was just talking drivel.

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RE: Shoe/foot cleaning - 9/1/2009 8:25:02 AM   
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I don't see why not.  Women are forever coming up to me and offering me a BJ as a way of saying 'hello'.  But, then, I live in Bristol, UK.  Women have extremely refined manners here.


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RE: Shoe/foot cleaning - 9/1/2009 11:08:31 AM   
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ORIGINAL: NoreenSwan

andalusite~

Of course you would be against boot licking ~ because you're a slave. Seriously, he was asking dommes, not slaves. Why are you, [a slave] who identifies as a ~slave~ in here answering questions that are asked of dominant women? Yah, o.k. ~ I'll concede anyone can ask, but think about it ~ you're a slave answering a question meant for a dominant woman. Why do you think you are qualified to answer a question asked to a mistress when you're a slave giving slave answers? it's like a master asking submissive women why they love swallowing cum and a mistress comes in and says, "any woman who says they love cum swallowing is full of shit. that slimy sticky shit wouldn't even be appeal to the man and it's his own. gross." Seriously, you're not a mistress, you're a slave and his question was directed to a mistress for a mistress's answer. You're always here answering and you're a slave. And it's usually an answer that undermines female domination.... just sayin...


Actually I am a dominant and I tend to agree with Andalusite with this one. Not that it was really a statement on much except a personal experience she had. I'm not sure why you made such a big deal out of it and correcting her as you have would be considered wrong around here, as anyone can post on a thread on any board... but to add insult to injury... you attacked her using titles, you cannot prove one way or another as you didn't know she was a switch. Now, I don't know if you disrespect switches if you did know or if you think slaves must act certain ways, but around here... people are people and they have as much right speaking here as anyone else, no matter the title.

I would have to ask... if we are all clumped up as a whole by a title... that I surely don't always fit... as anyone going for my feet rather than my brain or some part of me is something I do not like and is more likely to get kicked in the head... Does that make me any less dominant or unable to speak my mind? I did point out how unrealistic some of the origninal post was. Because I am a dominant that doesn't like this, does that mean that I too, in your opinion shouldn't be discussing it or are you only coming after the submissive types?

I've stayed out of other arguements and didn't say anything when I agreed or disagreed because it wasn't worth the forty some pages of arguement, but this is a bit hard to overlook.

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