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RE: Cock Tease Versus Cock Focused - 2/27/2006 5:23:52 PM

cloudboy

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ORIGINAL: GoddessDustyGold

*laffs* Thank you for that bit of info, cloudboy. It is now confirmed. *wink*
I do take issue with your use of the word "fear", however. It is not a fear at all. It is a matter of frustration and even disgust. Perhaps I have been objectified for too long, and I refuse to feed it. So, if I feel it appropriate, I will cut it off at the pass, or not participate at all.
No, I don't think that most men are here (on the boards) with a hard on or an express angle to "get it up", in order to "get off". But there are a few, and they, especially if they are new to the boards, will attempt to misuse the forums. If that makes Me a "net nanny", so be it.
I do feel that a large percentage of the submissive males on this site who never visit the boards are here for exactly that reason. And I am sure they think this is a perfectly appropriate place to troll for cyber kink, regardless of the the contents of a Lady's profile. Perhaps you would like to read My email and figure out a polite way to reply for the next 30 days? It would sure take a lot of pressure off Me. I don't like to be one of those Dominas who does not reply to emails.

Your response is dead on, and I appreciate that you picked up on my comment being tongue-in-cheek. As for email, I'm sure you receive "all kinds of it" but the focus of this thread, as you noted, was centered on the MB.

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RE: Cock Tease Versus Cock Focused - 2/27/2006 6:54:45 PM

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Q.1. Men: how does that make you feel when women state: all men think through their cocks?

It makes me realize women can be as shallow as men.

Q.2. Dommes how do you feel when arrogant men say: "She can't get any on Her own so She has to command it"?

That sentence doesn't even parse for me.

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RE: Cock Tease Versus Cock Focused - 2/27/2006 8:20:52 PM

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Women: How do you feel when men think you are a cock tease

and ohh Dommes how do you feel when arrogant men say: "She can't get any on Her own so She has to command it"

I laughed when I saw this thread topic. People say a lot of generalizing comments. When I was younger, I was one of them. Its all just a part of not knowing yourself and not being able to respect differences between people.

I've been called a tease more times than I can count. And most of those were during my "slut" days of college.. where seriously.. its only teasing if you don't follow through.

Today.. I consider being a "tease" as a compliment.. means I'm doing something right... (or that the person calling me that is so desperate that a mere "HI" from me got their cock charged up.. one or the other) Seriously though.. I don't really care.

As for the "She can't get any on her own, so she has to command/demand it" Thats just hilarious. If all I wanted was to get some.. I could just leave the house and wiggle my ass at the nearest man (well proving of course his cock wasn't locked up by someone else). No one who knows me has ever accused me of having a problem getting laid.

I have also gotten the "You're a Domme because you're afraid of having to deal with a challenge (or real man), you just pick on the weak men" Or the "You're a Domme because you're too much of bitch for any normal man to handle" Which both make me laugh. I love a good challenge.. especially when he's on his knees after promising me he'd never go there. And yes.. my middle name might be "bitch" but that has never caused a lack of suitors, if anything my strong opinions has brought me more respect and admiration.

People like to judge what they don't understand. Thats fine. Just doesn't amount to a hill of beans with me.

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RE: Cock Tease Versus Cock Focused - 2/28/2006 1:36:39 AM

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ORIGINAL: cloudboy

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ORIGINAL: GoddessDustyGold

<snipped>I do feel that a large percentage of the submissive males on this site who never visit the boards are here for exactly that reason. And I am sure they think this is a perfectly appropriate place to troll for cyber kink, regardless of the the contents of a Lady's profile. Perhaps you would like to read My email and figure out a polite way to reply for the next 30 days? It would sure take a lot of pressure off Me. I don't like to be one of those Dominas who does not reply to emails.

Your response is dead on, and I appreciate that you picked up on my comment being tongue-in-cheek. As for email, I'm sure you receive "all kinds of it" but the focus of this thread, as you noted, was centered on the MB.

Now see, cloudboy, I didn't take the the OP as being strictly about the message boards. Yes, there has been some extra sensitivity on heated threads of late. But I tend to feel that we might not be quite so sensitive to some interesting discussion (I relate this to the recent thread by yourself on "oral") if many of us had not just spent the last week opening up emails that were disrespectful and presumptive as to our availability for play. We are treated as if that is our purpose in life, and when we don't respond we are mean, and/or we are fakes.
So, yes, for Me, the emails I get in My box are going to affect My reaction to a thread that seems to be more of the same, even if it is presented in
the form of a discussion topic. Perhaps some of the other Ladies feel the same.
Answer this question for Me, if you would, as a male submissive. Tonight, after I posted my earlier response, I got an email stating "I desire to meet you when I am in Phoenix March 19". That's it. Nothing else. Flip to profile: A few vital stats, and not a single written word. Curiosity got Me. I replied: "For what purpose?" The answer? "To play for hours and hours and hours." This is a male of mature years.
*Sigh* Does My profile say I am available for play? Does My profile say anything other than not seeking, do not chat, here for message boards?
Yet, 75% of My mail is in this vein. If you could just give Me the slightest clue as to why such a large percentage of the males seem to feel this type of approach is remotely acceptable, I would appreciate it. If it was an occasional idiot who didn't know better, it would be easier to brush off. But it is constant a flow of what I consider disrespect.
So I just ask that the boys please be a bit more tolerant when Dominas get a little testy about some of the subject matter. We are already dealing with being treated like fetish support most of the time.

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