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DelRey -> I know it must be out there (2/25/2006 5:37:12 PM)

I know it must be out there and I also know at least one of you know where it can be found.

I'm looking for a questioner to pass along to a prospective sub/s. You know the type, i.e. if you have answered 2-6 questions you are in this category, if you answered 7-9 it puts you in this category and if you answered 10 or more you should just find someone to tie you down and have there way with you....

If you have links to this type of questioner it would be appreciated.



MHOO314 -> RE: I know it must be out there (2/25/2006 5:43:40 PM)

You mean I assume a questionnaire? My question is why? One person's 2-6 is another persons 7-9--IMHEO, as the Dominant you ask the questions that need to be answered--if I was a sub and had some questionnaire shoved at Me, I'd wonder at the capability of My Dom--



jamesthehumanrug -> RE: I know it must be out there (2/25/2006 5:46:33 PM)

DEAR DELREY,
PLEASE:DO TELL US HOW FLORIDA IS THESE DAYS;
LINK,TO QUESTIONERS;
SORRY FOR MISUNDERSTANDING YOUR POST BUT, I ,JUST DON'T KNOW,OR I DO, NOT GET IT;YET....
LATER....
instead ,of "wish you were here" .... believe-me, or , just
trust-me;

i wish i were there -rite ,now-!



krikket -> RE: I know it must be out there (2/25/2006 5:49:23 PM)

There are a fairly large number of sites that have D/s quesionnaires on them for the sub. I've often found it curous, however, that there aren't more for the Dom/me side of the coin. i've sometimes asked a potential partner to fill one out also, and if they refuse that pretty much does it for me. While i'm a firm believer in D/s, in the beginning of things i'm of the opinion that what's good for goose is good for the gander..or something like that..lol.

cheers



DelRey -> RE: I know it must be out there (2/25/2006 6:07:46 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: krikket

There are a fairly large number of sites that have D/s quesionnaires on them for the sub. I've often found it curous, however, that there aren't more for the Dom/me side of the coin. i've sometimes asked a potential partner to fill one out also, and if they refuse that pretty much does it for me. While i'm a firm believer in D/s, in the beginning of things i'm of the opinion that what's good for goose is good for the gander..or something like that..lol.

cheers



krikket,
that is what I'm looking for, if you come across the link/s please email them or post them.

thanks

DelRey



theRose4U -> RE: I know it must be out there (2/25/2006 6:57:30 PM)

I think that the BDSM checklist is acually what you're asking about. Last time I saw it was on castlerealm.com

Not sure though as I put it on the ole hard drive for future reference.



KnightofMists -> RE: I know it must be out there (2/25/2006 7:07:41 PM)

why not just make your own?



RiotGirl -> RE: I know it must be out there (2/25/2006 7:31:19 PM)

quote:


PLEASE:DO TELL US HOW FLORIDA IS THESE DAYS;


It's been hot during the day and cooler at night. We're about to get a cold spell, thankfully. Its supposed to rain any day now and it sprinkled abit, but enough to be considered rain. i was afraid it was going to start getting hot again, but it seems like we are saved for another week! Woot woot! The mosquito's are coming out and of course i'm getting eaten alive, because all little blood sucking creatures love me. So the flea stuff is on the animals and the bug zapper is turned on, the dog is being searched for ticks regularly...



faith4thejourney -> RE: I know it must be out there (2/25/2006 7:46:49 PM)

My mentor pointed me to a very good one on www.soulshaven.com...there is one for submissive and one for Dominant.

~Faith~



IrishMist -> RE: I know it must be out there (2/25/2006 8:21:08 PM)

I agree with everyone else DelRey, how come you just don't write your own? Mean alot more to the submissive/slave is she knew it came from YOU and not off some web site. At least, I would think so anyway.



OscarHargraves -> RE: I know it must be out there (2/26/2006 7:00:42 AM)

I understand where you're coming from. It's darned hard to remember all the stuff you want to put in that questionaire.

I suggest that you start with Castlerealm.com and look there. OsideGirl (on here) also wrote a couple of good things. She titled them "My Advice to Beginning Dominants" and "My Advice to Beginning Subs", They are not questionaires, but they could be used to formulate some good questions. (I have copies. If you want to contact me directly I'll send them to you.) There are also a number of other sites that have similar ones,........ but the others are right too. Get together a number of these and read them. Take out the questions that fit YOUR situation and use them to cobble together your own personal questionaire that fits your needs. Personalize this as much as possible and keep it on your computer so yoiu can update it as needed. Then just print off (or e-mail) a copy whenever you have a need for it and it will have the info that's pertinent to YOU.



aurora31 -> RE: I know it must be out there (2/26/2006 7:20:02 AM)

I love this questionnaire....it is very thourgh and you can compare yours with a potential partners side by side. I also love the fact the you can show if it is something you have actually tried or not. And all the different degrees of interest from must have...to I don't know I haven't tried it yet...to hard limit.

aurora



fyreredsub -> RE: I know it must be out there (2/26/2006 7:28:23 AM)

http://souiser.hyperchat.com/redox/9levels.html

hope this helps....it will at least give you an idea of where the sub/slave feels they are at



orfunboi -> RE: I know it must be out there (2/26/2006 7:44:54 AM)

i have heard of BDSM checklists, but never a questionaire like that. On Fallen Goddess, a lesbain website, they are always posting questionaires like "which muppet would you be" or "how deviant are you" which provide the type answers you described. But those are mainly joke type questionaires. Not anything i would base choosing a partner on. i hope someone provides a link, cause i would be interested in seeing just what it was all about.



MissA -> RE: I know it must be out there (2/26/2006 7:57:55 AM)

Since definitions of people and titles having to do with BDSM vary so widely I'd suggest a combination of ready made questions that fit to your own personal definitions. It really only matters what you and your prospective partner/s are doing and if that's working for you. You could write down how do you define the different "types" you're wanting to categorize or positions you're wanting to fill (service-oriented sub/slave, pleasure sub/slave etc...) then get ideas from online questionaires and make your own.

~Ms. A~



DelRey -> RE: I know it must be out there (2/26/2006 10:50:47 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: IrishMist

I agree with everyone else DelRey, how come you just don't write your own? Mean alot more to the submissive/slave is she knew it came from YOU and not off some web site. At least, I would think so anyway.


likely will happen, but i want to plagiarize the meat out of one that someone has already put some blood sweat and tears into. I'll take it and then put my spin into it.

work smart not hard, ya know.... ?



DelRey -> RE: I know it must be out there (2/26/2006 10:56:33 AM)

great posts everyone thanks, Faith's post hit the nail on the head. I was just what I was looking for. Thanks Faith, Your a Doll...



DragonNphoenix -> RE: I know it must be out there (2/27/2006 12:19:52 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: krikket

There are a fairly large number of sites that have D/s quesionnaires on them for the sub. I've often found it curous, however, that there aren't more for the Dom/me side of the coin. i've sometimes asked a potential partner to fill one out also, and if they refuse that pretty much does it for me. While i'm a firm believer in D/s, in the beginning of things i'm of the opinion that what's good for goose is good for the gander..or something like that..lol.

cheers



My Dragon has one for Dom/mes as well as one for slaves/submissives. I think that castlerealm is the best place to start looking. Also... theslaveregister as a couple I think.

1st Girl Phoenix



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