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CollarMe Relationships - Good or Bad?

A very successful, happy, loving, longterm or permanent relationship

33% (29)

A satisfying, happy shortterm relationship

12% (11)

Some happy and fun play sessions

10% (9)

Very neutral results, nothing seriously good or bad

10% (9)

A few not so happy relationships

3% (3)

Some bad play sessions

1% (1)

A seriously bad and traumatic relationship

1% (1)

Nothing but liars and fakes

4% (4)

A so bad event that u were ready 2 throw CollarMe and ur Comp away

1% (1)

No relationships at all so far, or were never looking for one.

14% (13)

Have found some friendships

5% (5)

Have found some friendships with benefits

1% (1)

Total Votes : 87

(last vote on : 9/4/2009 1:00:46 PM)
(Poll ended: 9/5/2009 12:01:00 AM)

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RE: CollarMe Relationships - Good or Bad? - 9/3/2009 7:34:43 PM

DarkSteven

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I met one woman who I dated for a week from here. Very bad fit.

I'm chatting with a woman that I met here and I think it shows great promise.

I've met several friends here including one sub who I attend kinkmeetings with as a friend, and a whole host of others, mostly wimmins, from the Calibirthday.

So I guess I'd choose All of the Above.

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RE: CollarMe Relationships - Good or Bad? - 9/3/2009 9:11:16 PM

twistednikki

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Ok so Master Robert and I have a wonderfull relationship full of love an understanding. When I met him I was liveing in the shadows and didn't know if I was comeing or going. Very soon after I met him my life turned arround for the better, yeah sure I still have my fair share of problems but nobodys perfect, The love Robert and I share is an unbreakable bond, " as I tell anyone I speeek too, and I hope that everyone could experience what I am, cause this has been one of the geeatest things in my life. I know alot of people would say we do not have a M/S relationship, but I can assure everyone we verry much do. Our relationship is delt with alot of love, and partnership, meening we always work together on almost evrything and insted of screaming and everything at one another we sit down an talk for the most part, but he is still in control and im better for it. I also wanna point something out, there our thoes of us who respond with abuse, and neglect, and then there are thoes of us who respond better with lots of love and understanding. Yes I think there are more then50% that do, and I just feel that there is nothing wrong with this, however thats why I try and look at the other side of things an im nobody too judge how people think an feel. Thats another nice thing about this lifestyle people seem too be more open then thoes who decide too live vina life. Thank you... Slave Nikki.....and goodluck too everyone who is searching.

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RE: CollarMe Relationships - Good or Bad? - 9/3/2009 9:17:38 PM

calliecox29

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The contact I make on here are hit or miss. There are a lot of people that are not really into the person's fetish, they just want sexual gratification ASAP and could care less about the lifestyle.

Although, there are a lot of sincere people on here. I love chatting and learning more about others. I have had some naughty fun too and will look forward to meeting others.

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RE: CollarMe Relationships - Good or Bad? - 9/3/2009 9:23:05 PM

VampiresLair

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We met here, and just looking at the guest list for our wedding is a good indication. We have quite a few CMers attending, others that cane make it for whatever reason. A CM member was THE first person we told that we were engaged... and she screamed! So, the romantic relationships are wonderful and Id never trade the friends for anything.

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RE: CollarMe Relationships - Good or Bad? - 9/4/2009 12:51:49 PM

RobertCloud

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Smiles at my girl... For the people who have never met my girl, she actually is quite a decent speller but when she has been not sleeping and then types in a hurry her spelling is the first thing that goes out the window.
I sat here and even asked her to spell several of her misspelled words and she spelled everyone of them correctly.

Too bad, but for some reason the edit function is not working on her message so she cannot fix it.

Thank you all that have been replying. It is good to see that there are so many good relationships on here. A few years ago I would have been skeptical about the responses but not anymore. Until I met my girl I had had very few good experiences and in fact most were horrible. However, I had just been scanning the main menu meat shop area and had not been in the forums much. After I made it into the forums I met more good people but none that were truly interesting for me.
My girl contacted my because of my profile and the fact that I was an author intrigued her. I am glad she did, I am truly happy that she spent so much time proving her sincerity to me. From those moments on my life has been climbing skyward.

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RE: CollarMe Relationships - Good or Bad? - 9/4/2009 12:58:58 PM

DavanKael

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There are a lot of negatives listed and not a lot of answers that encompass friendships as well as partner-type relationships, etc.
I re-met a guy on here and was in a relationship with him for the better portion of a year. I was very fond of him as was he of me, though he wasn't actually a Dominant (As he took orders from his 'collared' submissive: who took the collar only to avoid my being offered is as she 'could not bear for us both to have one'). So, some sour grapes there too for me.
Um, couple of dates.
A couple of quite close friends and a bunch of friends in general. I truly value the friendships I have made on CM; there are a lot of good folks here. :>
Davan

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RE: CollarMe Relationships - Good or Bad? - 9/4/2009 9:40:52 PM

RobertCloud

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As I have stated, to me relationships could have included friendships as well as romantic relationships. However, after seeing how many others had not seen it the way I had when I had posted it I did add two categories for friendships beyond what could be included within the others. If I had tried to add all the possibilities I would not have pleased everyone for someone would have stood up and said I had too many choices.

The old adage that you cannot please everyone sticks and I have all the choices I am going to add to the poll. If you cannot find one that suits you then I am sorry, but you will have to work around what is available.

< Message edited by RobertCloud -- 9/4/2009 9:41:41 PM >

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