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TimrehIX -> New Roommates and Toy Boxes (9/1/2009 8:36:02 PM)
I am a gay sub male in Dallas. Because I can only barely meet my financial obligations, I will be moving from my own nice little apartment into an unfortunately decorated (pink gag) room located in a three bedroom house with a woman I grew up with, who is like a sister, and her boyfriend. They are straight and for the most part vanilla. I am not comfortable sharing my kinkiness with them. Has anyone here had a similar living situation, and could relate their experiences being kinky in a vanilla household? I also have a collection of toys that will be making the move with me. In my current apartment I give them their own drawer, no lock. I don’t expect privacy to be an issue at all but I also expect that my housemates will find themselves in my room at some point. So, I need a toy box. I would like one with a lock but I was hoping someone could point out a good one online.

Lockit -> RE: New Roommates and Toy Boxes (9/1/2009 8:44:30 PM)
When I had to safety proof for my adult son, I bought a plastic bin that had handles with holes on the handles. I then put locks in them. For about thirty dollars, all was safe, water proof and no one noticed it or thought it might hold some dark secret.

MissCake -> RE: New Roommates and Toy Boxes (9/1/2009 8:49:59 PM)
Right now stores like Target, K-Mart and Wal-Mart have inexpensive foot lockers on-sale for the "back to school" crowd. BDSM activities have a tendency to be somewhat noisier. Expect to either address the issue of overnight guests right up front, or expect not to host any visitors. Chances are, a lifelong friend close to you in age will be pretty accepting of your proclivities.

Lockit -> RE: New Roommates and Toy Boxes (9/1/2009 8:56:29 PM)
The metal foot locker's that I have seen were easily broken into. lol That's why I went with the plastic one. Mine was like an ice chest without the wall that made it one. Very sturdy and no one was getting into that without a lot of work. I think we found it at ace hardware.

TimrehIX -> RE: New Roommates and Toy Boxes (9/1/2009 9:06:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lockit The metal foot locker's that I have seen were easily broken into. lol That's why I went with the plastic one. Mine was like an ice chest without the wall that made it one. Very sturdy and no one was getting into that without a lot of work. I think we found it at ace hardware. As long as it is obvious I don’t want them in it I don’t think they will try to get in to my stuff. I love locks, but the most important features are size, and opaqueness. quote: ORIGINAL: MissCake BDSM activities have a tendency to be somewhat noisier. Expect to either address the issue of overnight guests right up front, or expect not to host any visitors. Chances are, a lifelong friend close to you in age will be pretty accepting of your proclivities. I can have guys over. I just need to hang something on the door knob. And let the roommates know when someone is staying over. I plan to be kinky outside the house. I would hate to wake anyone up with my barking. :P

Aileen1968 -> RE: New Roommates and Toy Boxes (9/1/2009 9:13:03 PM)
I picked up two rubbermaid like footlockers from home depot (could have been Lowes). Each was under $20 and they are designed to be locked with a padlock.

WyldHrt -> RE: New Roommates and Toy Boxes (9/1/2009 10:30:12 PM)
Not a toy box per se, but my main toybag is a 30" long rolling duffel bag I got at WalMart. The 2 main compartments have double zippers, so are easy to secure with padlocks. As a bonus, I don't have to unpack/repack when going somewhere with my toys. Just another option to think about.

GreedyTop -> RE: New Roommates and Toy Boxes (9/1/2009 10:48:36 PM)
the thing I like about the footlockers is that tehy can serve several purposes.. storage, table, seating....

DesFIP -> RE: New Roommates and Toy Boxes (9/2/2009 2:03:53 AM)
Our stuff lives in a large suitcase under the bed. The feet of the bed are higher than normal which allows storage under. You can get 6" or 9" bed raisers at Bed, Bath & Beyond.

LillyoftheVally -> RE: New Roommates and Toy Boxes (9/2/2009 5:50:11 AM)
I have always lived with people not as active or not really at all involved with BDSM and have never had a problem, toys under the bed, they in't go searching and conversation as and when needed

subtlebutterfly -> RE: New Roommates and Toy Boxes (9/2/2009 8:48:27 AM)
I recommend a "trophy" wall[8D]

shadowowl -> RE: New Roommates and Toy Boxes (9/2/2009 10:43:36 AM)
I often use a suitcase with a lock though when I had to expand to 2 suitcases it started to get a little tricky lol. and yes under the bed works good I've done that as well. Another trick I have done is have a small case with things that are more regularly used and a bigger one for stuff that is only sometimes.

MissCake -> RE: New Roommates and Toy Boxes (9/2/2009 10:26:28 PM)
I was moving and I had a box I didn't want my mother snooping in when she was helping me move. I labeled it "Sex Toys and Dildoes". She didn't snoop.

Snowstep -> RE: New Roommates and Toy Boxes (9/2/2009 10:43:54 PM)
I'v always used a toolbox. Easy to carry and almost all are designed to be locked.

mixielicous -> RE: New Roommates and Toy Boxes (9/3/2009 12:33:09 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MissCake I was moving and I had a box I didn't want my mother snooping in when she was helping me move. I labeled it "Sex Toys and Dildoes". She didn't snoop. lol, was that even what the box really contained??

littlesarbonn -> RE: New Roommates and Toy Boxes (9/3/2009 12:27:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MissCake I was moving and I had a box I didn't want my mother snooping in when she was helping me move. I labeled it "Sex Toys and Dildoes". She didn't snoop. I was living in a kink household once, so I had a trunk I labeled "Math and Physics textbooks". There was so much dust on that one, it was ridiculous.

Gleegal67 -> RE: New Roommates and Toy Boxes (9/3/2009 1:17:41 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MissCake I was moving and I had a box I didn't want my mother snooping in when she was helping me move. I labeled it "Sex Toys and Dildoes". She didn't snoop. OMG...I did the same exact thing when my Mother helped me move to the desert...I had about 6 boxes I labeled as Sex Toys...Clean...Sex Toys...Dirty....she was appalled...but she didn't snoop either! Heeeheeeeheeeee...I'm 42 and still love to torment my Mother Unit...heeeeehhhheeeeehhheeee

LaTigresse -> RE: New Roommates and Toy Boxes (9/3/2009 1:22:54 PM)
There are a variety of inexpensive locking plastic bins at places like Walmart. I just toss everything into the closet of the room we call my closet. If someone goes snooping and finds something, they deserve the embarrassment they are going to experience![:D]

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