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lightwatcher -> Traveling switch (9/3/2009 9:25:17 AM)

I have been a long time fan of BDSM, but never had the guts to do any real time stuff that wasn't done to self.  In fact, I am confused as to which side of the coin is more polished. Am I a sub or a Dom?  At the moment I will call myself a switch for lack of experience in either realm.  Hopefully by joining this site and meeting new people I will gain insight as to which behavior better suits me . 

My goal is to meet someone that would like to train me, or a person that would like to be trained by a novice (the latter would be more of a growth experiment and learning experience).  My creativity knows no bounds.  The mind is a wondrous playground that I love exploring.  

I am an avid traveler.  As I write this I am in the middle of a cross country trip.  Austin is my home for the next week or so and then off to Phoenix, L.A. and who knows where?




sirsholly -> RE: Traveling switch (9/3/2009 11:12:42 AM)

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lightwatcher -> RE: Traveling switch (9/3/2009 1:25:25 PM)

Thanks!




DarkSteven -> RE: Traveling switch (9/3/2009 4:41:38 PM)

Instead of wondering, I suggest you get thee to a dungeon/play party.  You may find out that you have a marked preference for one side of the paddle.  Or not - switches are fine too.




lightwatcher -> RE: Traveling switch (9/3/2009 7:50:26 PM)

Thanks for the advice!




daintydimples -> RE: Traveling switch (9/4/2009 3:55:58 AM)

[sm=line.gif] Welcome to the CM forums.

All three cities you mentioned have large kink communities. I agree, get thee to a dungeon.






SweetNika -> RE: Traveling switch (9/4/2009 10:32:36 AM)

Welcome to the forums!




lightwatcher -> RE: Traveling switch (9/4/2009 7:54:15 PM)

Thanks for the help everyone!





david94015 -> RE: Traveling switch (9/4/2009 10:33:30 PM)

I've been to the local dungeons here (San Francisco)  and have had play sessions as both a top and a bottom. I am learning more about topping by being a bottom. I regret to say that I am still a "switch". 




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