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pansymaiduk -> Humilliating shopping assignment (9/5/2009 10:30:28 AM)

I wonder if a generous mistress would find time to give a lonely sub sissy a hunmilliating assignment to complete and report back on here?

I'm very into the self humiliation idea perhaps with a letter I could copy, paste and print off from here to hand to a sales assistant of lingerie store when purchasing something humiliating IE panties obviously for me under your instructions.

Imaginations a wonderful thing.

thanking you in advance

Sissy steve



dreamerdreaming -> RE: Humilliating shopping assignment (9/5/2009 12:49:06 PM)

Seems to me, it'd be far more humiliating for you to have to speak to the sales staff, and in your own words. [8|]

Yep. Go do that. Get some leopard print and zebra striped lingerie (matching bras and panties) and then post the yummy pix of you modeling them for us, on your profile. Run along now.



OttersSwim -> RE: Humilliating shopping assignment (9/5/2009 1:30:18 PM)

OP, let me make a recommendation to you.  Rather than looking for someone to change your future for you, why not take a hand in doing it yourself?  Your post is full of desperation and loneliness.  I feel sad that you find yourself in this place asking for help.  But look around and realize where you are...

Here you are at CollarMe, one of a very few internet dating sites devoted to people who kink, yet your profile is virtually empty.  You express the desire to woo a mistress for you to serve, yet you say nothing of who you are in life, what you offer into a relationship, what your interests are, etc.

Give it a go, fill out your profile, really think about what you bring and can offer a Lady in relationship.  Make your profile a shining example of -you-, all of you.  Embrace your kink, and take hold of your future in a positive way and keep up your search and be proactive about getting what you want. 

Send out letters of inquiry to Ladies that seem to have similar interests to your own, and most importantly, go REAL LIFE by looking into local BDSM events, munches, groups, etc.

Searching is hard, and it is especially hard for a male with female leanings, but you have an opportunity here to play the hand you have been dealt the best way you can.  Give it a go...[;)]



Lockit -> RE: Humilliating shopping assignment (9/5/2009 1:46:31 PM)

Please don't include a salesperson in your kink like that. Many in fact are quite young and many may have reasons they would find that offensive. I know I would and if it were my daughter working there... I would not be happy.

You are asking for someone to assist you in your kink which isn't far different than many around here. Whether it be someone be a key holder or do what you are asking, it is basically a situation where you call the shots and tell someone how to take care of your needs. That doesn't happen to work so well. Don't be so hungry that you disrespect other's in trying to meet your desires.

Now on a positive... do your shopping on your own, I am sure there could be some humiliation factors there if that is what you are seeking. Do try to find a dominant that you see as a person first and not a tool and be ready to prove who you are besides the kinky one with needs or desires. It isn't easy to find a match, but they can be found.

Good luck to you...



OsideGirl -> RE: Humilliating shopping assignment (9/5/2009 1:57:20 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Lockit

Please don't include a salesperson in your kink like that. Many in fact are quite young and many may have reasons they would find that offensive. I know I would and if it were my daughter working there... I would not be happy.
I second this. It may make the salesperson uncomfortable. Their job sucks enough without having to deal with your fantasies.



SweetNika -> RE: Humilliating shopping assignment (9/5/2009 1:58:51 PM)

Men go into department stores and lingire shops all the time and buy panties, bras, ect and are helped by sales people. I don't personally see how this situation is any different. So why the big deal about asking the sales person for help?



Lockit -> RE: Humilliating shopping assignment (9/5/2009 2:02:35 PM)

Handing a salesperson a letter from a dominant with the shopping list and how that letter might be worded could put the salesperson right in the dynamic... especially since they would be carrying out the dominant's wishes and part of the humiliation. In other words, asked to join a fulfillment of humiliation or kink, prevy to private matter's and put on the spot with no warning or desire to be a part of it/concent.

Going in and asking for help finding certain items... not so on the spot and not part of the orders from a dominant at least in knowing it.



OttersSwim -> RE: Humilliating shopping assignment (9/5/2009 2:09:51 PM)

Walking into any shop and handing the sales person a note is a good way to get shot by mall security...[;)]



SweetNika -> RE: Humilliating shopping assignment (9/5/2009 2:13:17 PM)

I misunderstood he was going to hand a "letter" to the sales person and not simply ask for their assistance.



leadership527 -> RE: Humilliating shopping assignment (9/5/2009 3:30:11 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: pansymaiduk
I'm very into the self humiliation idea perhaps with a letter I could copy, paste and print off from here to hand to a sales assistant of lingerie store when purchasing something humiliating IE panties obviously for me under your instructions.
*nods* I'm going to agree that this is dragging other people into something they really shouldn't have to be involved with. I'd say do it without the note and self-confession to the sales person. Of course, if you do that, then it's not very humiliating either. Heck, I buy most of my wife's lingerie. Now that I think of it, I've always bought most of her clothes of all sorts.



pansymaiduk -> RE: Humilliating shopping assignment (9/6/2009 9:06:58 AM)

Point taken from those more experienced than me, esp about making an innocent uncomfortable. I would never want that. Only excuse is I'm a newbie and have, obviously a  lot to learn and learn I will.

Regards steve



Lockit -> RE: Humilliating shopping assignment (9/6/2009 9:17:27 AM)

Just put some reality in your fantasy and think before you do. The outcome is typically far better.



PeonForHer -> RE: Humilliating shopping assignment (9/6/2009 9:22:51 AM)

Steve,

Done a certain way I think a lot of mistresses would indulge you in something like this, if not this itself.  No letter, but she could, for instance, have you go out to buy every possible embarrassing item in her need-list - and from separate shops, too.  It could take a whole day.  The mistress gets her items without traipsing around the shops and no shop assistant is bothered either. 

I think you're lucky that you don't have a really awkward kink-desire to satisfy.  Many do.  Concentrate on connecting vanilla-wise with a woman, as everyone's saying.  I'm sure that's the way forward . . . .



LadyPact -> RE: Humilliating shopping assignment (9/6/2009 11:22:41 AM)

All of the above is why you don't want to go about this in this way.  Here's a page out of the Dominant's Handbook.  This is the part that happens behind the scenes that the boys who enjoy these kinds of humiliation games that they don't know until someone tells them.

When it comes to things like lingerie shopping, toy shopping, or any other situation that could be used to set up these little things, I tend to go to the same business over and over.  I get to know the sales people.  In the beginning, I'll drop a little hint that I happen to be a kinky person.  This is usually pretty easy with the famous purse that looks like a stiletto boot bottom that has the chains on it.  I see how that is received (most people love that thing) and go on from there.  If they aren't receptive, I wish them a good day.

If they are receptive, I may discuss an idea a little more and I *ask* them if they would be willing to be a part of it.  Some will and some won't.  When I find those that will, I find out what days they work and what hours would be good to pull something like what I have in mind off.  My little game shouldn't be done during their high customer hours, because I have no right to drive their business away.  Before I leave, and this is important, I tip them and I tip them well.

All of this happens before the boy has ever stepped one foot inside the lingerie shop or the toy store to buy that dildo.  I've already done the set up and he doesn't have a clue.  I'm not involving someone behind the counter that doesn't want to be.  Sometimes, you get really lucky and find someone who actually enjoys being a part of all this. 

And that's what you should be aiming for, OP.  An actual Dominant woman who is going to enjoy playing these kinds of games with you.  Not some random chick who will write you a note for an assignment.



fadedshadow -> RE: Humilliating shopping assignment (9/6/2009 5:34:04 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: pansymaiduk

I wonder if a generous mistress would find time to give a lonely sub sissy a hunmilliating assignment to complete and report back on here?

I'm very into the self humiliation idea perhaps with a letter I could copy, paste and print off from here to hand to a sales assistant of lingerie store when purchasing something humiliating IE panties obviously for me under your instructions.

Imaginations a wonderful thing.

thanking you in advance

Sissy steve


if you're going shopping get me a t-shirt and a pizza. =]



marsneedswomen -> RE: Humilliating shopping assignment (9/6/2009 6:05:13 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

All of the above is why you don't want to go about this in this way.  Here's a page out of the Dominant's Handbook.  This is the part that happens behind the scenes that the boys who enjoy these kinds of humiliation games that they don't know until someone tells them.

When it comes to things like lingerie shopping, toy shopping, or any other situation that could be used to set up these little things, I tend to go to the same business over and over.  I get to know the sales people.  In the beginning, I'll drop a little hint that I happen to be a kinky person.  This is usually pretty easy with the famous purse that looks like a stiletto boot bottom that has the chains on it.  I see how that is received (most people love that thing) and go on from there.  If they aren't receptive, I wish them a good day.

If they are receptive, I may discuss an idea a little more and I *ask* them if they would be willing to be a part of it.  Some will and some won't.  When I find those that will, I find out what days they work and what hours would be good to pull something like what I have in mind off.  My little game shouldn't be done during their high customer hours, because I have no right to drive their business away.  Before I leave, and this is important, I tip them and I tip them well.

All of this happens before the boy has ever stepped one foot inside the lingerie shop or the toy store to buy that dildo.  I've already done the set up and he doesn't have a clue.  I'm not involving someone behind the counter that doesn't want to be.  Sometimes, you get really lucky and find someone who actually enjoys being a part of all this. 

And that's what you should be aiming for, OP.  An actual Dominant woman who is going to enjoy playing these kinds of games with you.  Not some random chick who will write you a note for an assignment.



I think this is great advice to those who play these types of games. You definitely want consent from the third party involved before going through with this and is grounded in the real world sensitivity. Someone working in the stores probably experienced this from time to time, but may not have enjoyed being apart of the game being played but had to do so because it is their job. With all the big talk about consent, I think that consent applies to all involved whether they are direct players or indirect players.



thishereboi -> RE: Humilliating shopping assignment (9/7/2009 5:08:03 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

And that's what you should be aiming for, OP.  An actual Dominant woman who is going to enjoy playing these kinds of games with you.  Not some random chick who will write you a note for an assignment.



I'm not sure he is really looking for an assignment. The second poster in this thread did what he asked and gave him an assignment. I just looked at his profile and it seems that he ignored it. Damn and I was really looking forward to seeing those leopard prints [:'(]



pansymaiduk -> RE: Humilliating shopping assignment (9/7/2009 10:03:15 AM)

I am actually going to do what the kind lady said,,,,, it will take time but i will do what was ordered. pic to follow



Andalusite -> RE: Humilliating shopping assignment (9/7/2009 2:39:53 PM)

Ok, here's your humilating feminisation shopping command: Wear your favourite bra and falsies, with a pair of baggy sweatpants (preferably pink or purple), clunky shoes, a top in a contrasting colour such as orange or green, and curlers in your wig. Go to the nearest store and purchase one package of prunes, a large cucumber, and a box of tampons.



iwearpanties -> RE: Humilliating shopping assignment (9/20/2009 4:16:03 AM)

not thats a tag for mastercard PriceLess ?



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