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AlexandraLynch -> RE: The "How To's" of Service (9/8/2009 9:07:57 PM)

Lay out my clothes, with appropriate layering for the day to come. I have the habit of putting on and taking off an outer layer (sweater or shirt) over a tank top depending on what I'm doing and how cold I feel. Warmed clothes in winter is a good way to show devotion without a word.

Hand me no cold drink that is not in an insulated cup. Keep track of my book, and bring it to me when I sit down. Answer the phone. Ask me if I need a pain pill if you see me sighing a lot and shifting uncomfortably. Remember I like it plain and good.

A sommelier would be wasted on me; I can't drink at all.



LanceHughes -> RE: The "How To's" of Service (9/8/2009 9:58:14 PM)

I like all automotive problems to solved without asking.  A chauffeur rates high on my wish-list.  Oil changes, etc. would not impinge on my consiousness, except to thank the slave for making it so.

Since I've known (at about age 10) what a valet is, I've often dreamed of having/owning one.  Easy for me to say because my sexual orientation feeds into their genders.  (Oh..... do NOT get your panties in a twist.  I  know there are fine female chauffeurs and valets.)  HMmmmm, Lance would you rather have a female chauffer/valet or none at all? ..... Bring her on!

As to cooking, I love to cook, so a person trained in prep work would be a great asset.  Of course, if I didn't want to cook, it happens in my style.  One time, I had an incredible experience with a new lover.  He and I were in the kitchen together for the first time.  We effortlessly worked with and around each other.  After the meal was consumed we simultaneously said "Did you notice ... " <we never got to the implied: "how well we worked together?"  The sex that night was.... <fill in your own positive adjective.>



SailingBum -> RE: The "How To's" of Service (9/8/2009 10:02:27 PM)

Ehhh you ppl have your priorities all messed up. Give a shit less bout how my freaking wine gets poured SHEESH... I trained my girl to give me a FanFuckingTastic Blow Job.  Nuff Said.

Motown BadOne



LanceHughes -> RE: The "How To's" of Service (9/8/2009 10:04:28 PM)

I forgot to mention.... I do NOT like to drive.  Chauffeur is designated driver at all times.  LOL!  And, hey, that scenario where the door is held open as I get out.... yeah... that's on my bucket list.



LanceHughes -> RE: The "How To's" of Service (9/8/2009 10:08:13 PM)

SailingBum: these things are in addition to that most basic level of service. LOL!  As a sailing enthusiast, surely there are things your slave girl can do aboard ship.

Somebody's signature says something like: "You know it's going to be a great blow-job when she puts on a Breathe Right strip."



SailingBum -> RE: The "How To's" of Service (9/8/2009 10:25:14 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LanceHughes

SailingBum: these things are in addition to that most basic level of service. LOL!  As a sailing enthusiast, surely there are things your slave girl can do aboard ship.

Somebody's signature says something like: "You know it's going to be a great blow-job when she puts on a Breathe Right strip."


Fucking A   She sucks a mean dick on the water as well. Y'all getting the point here???

BadOne



NuevaVida -> RE: The "How To's" of Service (9/8/2009 10:43:53 PM)

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I am often in his home, cooking/preparing (breakfast, snack or dinner) and have paid attention to how he likes things.  It helps that I love to cook for him and he loves my cooking. :)  Nothing too formal with us, but I do have the table set and the meals served in appropriate serving dishes.  He prefers to select and pour the wine and light the candles (there are always candles).  Most important to him is the shape I keep the kitchen while I am cooking.  No crumbs or water spills left behind, no rings (from glasses) left on the counter tops.  I don't start eating until he does.  I do not sip my wine until he raises his glass (we always toast, lol).  I do not finish my meal before he is finished, and both plates are cleared from the table together.

Sometimes I do all the dishes, sometimes he wants to be in the kitchen with me and decides how the dishwasher should be loaded (which always amuses me, lol).  We aren't very formal - we laugh a lot and doing the dishes together always results in us dancing together, which seems to always result in....

Yeah, dinner time is fun :)



heartfeltsub -> RE: The "How To's" of Service (9/9/2009 3:49:02 AM)

Nueva,

On a side note, it is great to "see" how happy you are from your posts.

heartfelt



NuevaVida -> RE: The "How To's" of Service (9/9/2009 7:27:14 AM)

Thank you, heartfelt! [:)]



pyroaquatic -> RE: The "How To's" of Service (9/9/2009 8:09:11 AM)

These sound all very specific and tailored to your desires.

Looks like I have lots of learning to do.



Andalusite -> RE: The "How To's" of Service (9/9/2009 8:42:07 AM)

pyro, while every dominant has different desires and requirements, taking some formal classes on service (either kinky or vanilla), learning how to properly launder delicates and other clothes, reading up on domestic tips, etc. can always be helpful. Even if they don't demand or request a particular service, they may be very glad when you offer it to them!



pyroaquatic -> RE: The "How To's" of Service (9/9/2009 10:16:50 AM)

And if I can indeed learn how to steep tea as one wants it or know the proper method of.... whatever.... the dominant wants it would make for a very valuable pyroaquatic.

No offense to anyone but I aspire to be more than just a living dildo. :P



BKSir -> RE: The "How To's" of Service (9/9/2009 10:28:08 AM)

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ORIGINAL: pyroaquatic

And if I can indeed learn how to steep tea as one wants it or know the proper method of.... whatever.... the dominant wants it would make for a very valuable pyroaquatic.

No offense to anyone but I aspire to be more than just a living dildo. :P



Never underestimate the importance of a properly brewed and blended tea.  Getting the temperature and flavours just right can lead to a comforting feeling for the drinker, resulting in a very pleasant day.  Getting them wrong can be disappointing, to the point of frustration and annoyance, which will also end up reflecting on the rest of the day.  If you do find a D-type that enjoys teas, look for a good place to find it as fresh as possible, and start practicing making your own blends.  Imagine his or her joy in knowing that "Pyroaquatic worked and created this perfect blend specifically tailored to me."



NihilusZero -> RE: The "How To's" of Service (9/9/2009 12:34:47 PM)

30 points a piece:

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ORIGINAL: SteelofUtah

Ultimatly I find that the word "Effortless" comes to mind when I think HOW I want something done.


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ORIGINAL: Level

Being served with warmth, and concern for my happiness, is what matters.


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ORIGINAL: Musicmystery

Any girl worth her keep will quickly learn the little things that need doing or that I like and begin anticipating them.


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ORIGINAL: kyraofMists

Whatever we do is to be done with grace. That doesn't necessarily mean physically graceful, but grace in attitude. We cannot act as if it is a chore, be passive-aggressive or have a bad attitude.

(+20 points for this one)



mixielicous -> RE: The "How To's" of Service (9/9/2009 4:58:50 PM)

FR after read,

Number One and I are quite fresh, and not openly in a D/s relationship (its our natural dynamic, we have never discussed BDSM.. yet), so I try to keep it simple. Walking silently, other than a jingle from bangles (or other jewlery) is something I was trained to do and it has stuck. He likes it when I wear my bell anklet as I am often naked (less items to noise & shuffle) and that way he can track my wanderings around the house while he does w/e. Also being graceful in general, not making much noise during dinner other than conversation. Being silent while he reads or does work. On our first date he was not at the table when dinner was served and the 's' in me awaited his return to begin. He was very greatful for this, and so now he always eats first. Simply remembering what he says he likes. He expects obedience and smiling as much as possible (his dad was a therapist so he can "read" me quite well and knows instantaneously when a negative thought flickers over the radar).

Always look stunning. If I know we are sleeping in and romping around in the AM I will rise when I hear him starting to wake and freshen up, brush my teeth and apply some make up (not the full face, just some color.. I am of an odd pale complexion, lol)

He is sober, so I try not to get too tipsy around him, buzzed is ok but it is expected that I am always coherent.

Oh, also he is fraternity president so we attend many social events. I always read a full paper and make sure I have much to talk about so he does not feel obligated to occupy me or tote me around b/c I cannot carry a conversation with strangers.

I look forward to our relationship evolving to the point where all my service skills can be utilized.



NihilusZero -> RE: The "How To's" of Service (9/9/2009 5:06:17 PM)

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ORIGINAL: mixielicous

Number One

I was tempted to reward points on the possibility of this being a Trek reference...but then I realized that that would essentially make him the de facto s-type (since, preserving proper hierarchy, the captain would be the D-type), so it's probably not related to that.

[&o]



LanceHughes -> RE: The "How To's" of Service (9/9/2009 5:59:05 PM)

I'm not a beer drinker, but one of my boys home-brews.  He bought a sampler pac of 12 differnt styles of beer.  Over a few days of  my sampling and telling him my like/dislikes, he decided on what he could brew that I might like.  Sure 'nuf.  He designed and created a brew just for me!  Of course, we needed a name. WARNING!!! Next phrase IS copyrighted: "Flog Grog."  (NOT available in your local store. LOL!)



Sunnyfey -> RE: The "How To's" of Service (9/9/2009 6:05:39 PM)

thats pretty damn cool Sir Lance



mixielicous -> RE: The "How To's" of Service (9/9/2009 10:26:12 PM)


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ORIGINAL: NihilusZero

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ORIGINAL: mixielicous

Number One

I was tempted to reward points on the possibility of this being a Trek reference...but then I realized that that would essentially make him the de facto s-type (since, preserving proper hierarchy, the captain would be the D-type), so it's probably not related to that.

[&o]



That is what I have named him(lord I do not like the sound of that). Were not exclusive, but hes at the top of my list. I create alias' for CM ;)



onlyfreelycaged -> RE: The "How To's" of Service (9/10/2009 9:05:24 AM)

yes to all of the above.

I always like good service, good food, and a good ambiance.

the only problem is I don't always agree on what good service is.

sometimes, I just want food on my plate, that's not cold.. other times, I just want cold food... and I just want it right now, for whatever reason. (sometimes, it's because I'm out the door.)



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