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allthatjaz -> blood tied (9/6/2009 7:17:30 AM)
We are blood tied, that is to say we have shared bodily fluids including blood. We did this with the full knowledge and understanding of what it means. I will add that we were certain that neither of us had a transferable disease before going down this route. For those of you that are blood tied, how long into the relationship where you before you went ahead? and did you both get tested first? For those of you that are not, what stops you?

SweetNika -> RE: blood tied (9/6/2009 8:02:39 AM)
Sharing of ones blood with another person is one of the most intimate and personal actions in the world. It is sharing part of our essense our being. I have done it in the past and it happened about a year into the relationship and we both were tested twice before doing it. I have not done it since, I'm not sure if I would. Honestly most people I know are against the idea.

Acer49 -> RE: blood tied (9/6/2009 8:11:53 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: allthatjaz We are blood tied, that is to say we have shared bodily fluids including blood. We did this with the full knowledge and understanding of what it means. I will add that we were certain that neither of us had a transferable disease before going down this route. For those of you that are blood tied, how long into the relationship where you before you went ahead? and did you both get tested first? For those of you that are not, what stops you? If you are going to engage in such activities, it is your responsibility to be medically cleard before you engage with each new partner. You owe it to your partner to let him or her know if you have been active with another before you engage is further activity

Aileen1968 -> RE: blood tied (9/6/2009 8:14:48 AM)
We are both extremely turned on by blood play. We haven't done it yet mainly because of a funny goof up on my part involving a cute little pink razor. Ha. I'm such a dork at times. Anyway...it's way up on the list of things he wants to do to me. Cutting and drinking is just hot.

allthatjaz -> RE: blood tied (9/6/2009 8:21:29 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Aileen1968 We are both extremely turned on by blood play. We haven't done it yet mainly because of a funny goof up on my part involving a cute little pink razor. Ha. I'm such a dork at times. Anyway...it's way up on the list of things he wants to do to me. Cutting and drinking is just hot. Get it put into a vodka shot as a celebration when you do it.... its got a real kick to it! [:D]

allthatjaz -> RE: blood tied (9/6/2009 8:22:39 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SweetNika Sharing of ones blood with another person is one of the most intimate and personal actions in the world. It is sharing part of our essense our being. I have done it in the past and it happened about a year into the relationship and we both were tested twice before doing it. I have not done it since, I'm not sure if I would. Honestly most people I know are against the idea. I think you said that beautifully. Ty

allthatjaz -> RE: blood tied (9/6/2009 8:27:26 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Acer49 quote: ORIGINAL: allthatjaz We are blood tied, that is to say we have shared bodily fluids including blood. We did this with the full knowledge and understanding of what it means. I will add that we were certain that neither of us had a transferable disease before going down this route. For those of you that are blood tied, how long into the relationship where you before you went ahead? and did you both get tested first? For those of you that are not, what stops you? If you are going to engage in such activities, it is your responsibility to be medically cleard before you engage with each new partner. You owe it to your partner to let him or her know if you have been active with another before you engage is further activity I totally agree with you Acer. Getting medically tested first is in our opinion vital. As far as engaging with another partner, the only time we would do this is with a third person and before it gets intimate we would expect all of us taking a visit to the same clinic on the same day and picking up the results together. Even then I would be careful not to become blood bonded with a third person because if that person is not living with us 24/7, as we both do, then I would always worry that the third person could of gone astray in between seeing us.

pompeii -> RE: blood tied (9/6/2009 8:27:36 AM)
We used to blood-swear the most sacrosanct of our childhood secrets in the treehouse ... but only with the best friends whom we'd known our entire lives...

SweetNika -> RE: blood tied (9/6/2009 8:30:41 AM)
Do you think if you shared of yourself in this manner with other parterns that it would cheapen the meaning of doing?

allthatjaz -> RE: blood tied (9/6/2009 8:39:46 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: pompeii We used to blood-swear the most sacrosanct of our childhood secrets in the treehouse ... but only with the best friends whom we'd known our entire lives... OMG we used to do that too. I hope kids are not still doing that today though

Aileen1968 -> RE: blood tied (9/6/2009 8:39:57 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: allthatjaz quote: ORIGINAL: Aileen1968 We are both extremely turned on by blood play. We haven't done it yet mainly because of a funny goof up on my part involving a cute little pink razor. Ha. I'm such a dork at times. Anyway...it's way up on the list of things he wants to do to me. Cutting and drinking is just hot. Get it put into a vodka shot as a celebration when you do it.... its got a real kick to it! [:D] The infamous blood martini.

allthatjaz -> RE: blood tied (9/6/2009 8:43:24 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SweetNika Do you think if you shared of yourself in this manner with other parterns that it would cheapen the meaning of doing? Do you mean if I were to split from my partner and do it with a new partner? or do you mean with a third person? If its the later, yes it would cheapen it. You know yourself that its an incredibly deep and intimate thing to do. It was like getting married [:)]

SweetNika -> RE: blood tied (9/6/2009 8:45:46 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: allthatjaz quote: ORIGINAL: SweetNika Do you think if you shared of yourself in this manner with other parterns that it would cheapen the meaning of doing? Do you mean if I were to split from my partner and do it with a new partner? or do you mean with a third person? If its the later, yes it would cheapen it. You know yourself that its an incredibly deep and intimate thing to do. It was like getting married [:)] I meant with a new partner or partners. And to me this is far more intimate than marriage.

littlewonder -> RE: blood tied (9/6/2009 9:30:47 AM)
I've done a lot of bloodplay in my past. I grew up as a goth and a punk. It was part of the sexual fun so for me it's not intimate or moreso than marriage. I am tested for diseases about once a year though.

DavanKael -> RE: blood tied (9/6/2009 9:37:42 AM)
I am not currently in a partnered relationship but being blood tied, assuming there is testing and exclusivity (At, at the very least, very careful and always mutually consensual forays outside with testing ideally) I find it to be a highly attractive idea. Shedding and sharing of blood with intent has interested me for quite some time and no longer being in a relationship where that was not an option has unfettered my thoughts further. :> Davan

IronBear -> RE: blood tied (9/6/2009 9:38:08 AM)
I have one Blood Brother, we did it in 'Nam in a traditional manner of his people (Lakota). besides being a bloody goo mate he was the best Mstr Sgt I knew and taught me a lot.. Now I'm part of the family. Neets and I have shares fluids, as I have with a small number of ladies as part of the final initiation into the Clan O'Sliabh. (my Pagan Group). The bonds formed are remarkably strong.

DavanKael -> RE: blood tied (9/6/2009 9:50:15 AM)
Blood ritual is strong and significant in the Lakota tradition. He must have thought very well of your Iron Bear. :> Davan

allthatjaz -> RE: blood tied (9/6/2009 9:57:48 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SweetNika quote: ORIGINAL: allthatjaz quote: ORIGINAL: SweetNika Do you think if you shared of yourself in this manner with other parterns that it would cheapen the meaning of doing? Do you mean if I were to split from my partner and do it with a new partner? or do you mean with a third person? If its the later, yes it would cheapen it. You know yourself that its an incredibly deep and intimate thing to do. It was like getting married [:)] I meant with a new partner or partners. And to me this is far more intimate than marriage. Hopefully I will never have another partner and I can't start to imagine going down this route with another person. I am really into blood play and when I see someone bleeding from needles and such, the vampire in me wants to lick it all up! I do resist though. I would only marry the man that I want to spend the rest of my life with. Its the same with blood bonding for me.

allthatjaz -> RE: blood tied (9/6/2009 10:07:08 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: IronBear I have one Blood Brother, we did it in 'Nam in a traditional manner of his people (Lacota). besides being a bloody goo mate he was the best Mstr Sgt I knew and taught me a lot.. Now I'm part of the family. Neets and I have shares fluids, as I have with a small number of ladies as part of the final initiation into the Clan O'Sliabh. (my Pagan Group). The bonds formed are remarkably strong. quote: Lakota IronBear I am hugely envious of you. I practice hook suspension as part of the Lacota sun dance and a few years ago was invited to the Black Hills but was unable to make that journey. I very much hope to one day.

MasterFireMaam -> RE: blood tied (9/6/2009 10:44:01 AM)
I am a vampire. Every donor I've ever had has gotten tested and come back clean before I'd accepted them. I get routinely tested every year and, when a partner and I decide to be fluid bonded sexually, I'll have them get tested, too. I use condoms religiously when not fluid bonded with a male partner. My boyfriend and I became bonded before we intended when a condom broke. It'd been almost a year since he'd been tested but given his activity, it was unlikely that he had anything. Still, he went and got tested again. My test was relatively recent at the time. We're both clean...and enjoy being fluid bonded as well as blood bonded. When slave elliot became mine, I had him get tested for two reasons. One, he's my property and I wanted to know and two, he's a potential donor for me and so the knowledge is important. Master Fire

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