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Lordmanannan -> Generic Greeting 522 (9/8/2009 12:02:51 AM)

I'm new. This is my moment of public humiliation much like the twenty year old virgin outed to his much more experienced cohorts. I suppose we are all virgins after a fashion to something. I am twenty four years of age. I have often found myself attracted to BDSM websites. I never understood why, and like most vanillas I thought something was wrong with me. A few months ago I met a sub. We spoke about the nature of desire. I didn't feel like a freak anymore. Now I'm trying to learn more about my desire and the community to which I feel I belong.





LanceHughes -> RE: Generic Greeting 522 (9/8/2009 12:21:36 AM)

Welcome.  I like to say "We are all virgins.  Some of us will need extra time to figure out how we're going to be a virgin this time."  LOL!

You are on the right track - nice pic, decent profile.  That goes a LONG way toward being a success here. 

For a good example of how NOT to be successful here, check out the "introduction" forum string called "new to this site and it seems unfair."

Again, welcome (from a Dom with 25+ years in the scene - questions, feel free to ask on approriate forum or to me directly.)




DarkSteven -> RE: Generic Greeting 522 (9/8/2009 2:52:08 AM)

I'm not sure why you think that saying hello is humiliating.  Welcome!



sirsholly -> RE: Generic Greeting 522 (9/8/2009 2:57:37 AM)

a generic hello [:)]



Lordmanannan -> RE: Generic Greeting 522 (9/8/2009 9:49:10 AM)

Thanks Lance. I may take you up on the offer sometime. I noticed that thread. Someone that whines so much clearly doesn't understand their place.

Steven, it was more the process of saying that I was new to the scene that was humiliating than a mere greeting. ;)



SassySarijane -> RE: Generic Greeting 522 (9/8/2009 9:58:23 AM)

Welcome to the forums and you made a great first impression here [:)].



LanceHughes -> RE: Generic Greeting 522 (9/8/2009 2:01:55 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Lordmanannan

Thanks Lance. I may take you up on the offer sometime. I noticed that thread. Someone that whines so much clearly doesn't understand their place.

Steven, it was more the process of saying that I was new to the scene that was humiliating than a mere greeting. ;)



Ah, but we were ALL at one time just as much a "baby Dom" as you are now.  (That is NOT a perjorative term, just a fact.)  Please remember that EVERYONE in this life-style starts with zero experience, zero knowledge, so humilation is NOT necessary.

The "good" ones know that the learning process never ends.... Even though I have given more than 50 lectures on varius aspects of BDSM, I still go to other lecturers' presentations whenever I can.  Even if the material covered is the same, I always take away something even if it's only a new approach; even if it's learning from other's mistakes.

Now, maybe, just maybe you can find a sub that's into humiliation and turn YOUR burning cheeks into HER burning cheeks....... Oh, that was a good segue, wasn't it?
<bows, looking to audience for applause.  Hearing none, retreats in humilation.>



dreamofthemoon -> RE: Generic Greeting 522 (9/8/2009 3:47:12 PM)

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ORIGINAL: sirsholly

a generic hello [:)]

Another generic hello and welcome. [:D]



Lordmanannan -> RE: Generic Greeting 522 (9/8/2009 8:00:38 PM)

You're advice is sagacious and a very nice segue with entertaining imagery. Where do you lecture?

A thousand thanks Sassy and DreamoftheMoon.



pyroaquatic -> RE: Generic Greeting 522 (9/8/2009 8:12:38 PM)

Polite. Intelligent. You are full of Win, my good Sir.

Your style of prose has a certain element that rings inside of my skullpiece.

<claps for lance and mana>



sublace -> RE: Generic Greeting 522 (9/9/2009 12:23:37 PM)

Young Sir
A welcoming haze " wooo, you're cute! " Oh yes. i am done.
Thank you very much. You'll do just fine [:)]



Sunnyfey -> RE: Generic Greeting 522 (9/9/2009 1:24:32 PM)

Ok now that the hazing has started....

Wooo!! Girls is a cutey!!! And smart....and well spoken....quite drool worthy for you single gals. ( and maybe a smidge for us non-single gals....gotta love red hair!)

Joking as usual, Welcome to the forums sweetheart.



Lordmanannan -> RE: Generic Greeting 522 (9/9/2009 10:56:56 PM)

Oh, dear. This little game may call for some retaliation. Where have I misplaced that paddle...

Thank you ladies and Pyroaquatic. I may beg a conversation from one of you at a future date.



slaveToKnight -> RE: Generic Greeting 522 (9/10/2009 1:39:35 AM)

Welcome, I hope you find what you are looking for here [:)]



daintydimples -> RE: Generic Greeting 522 (9/10/2009 4:25:26 AM)

Welcome to the CM forums.

We were all new once. . . .



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