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heartbound -> Best Toys for Punishment (9/9/2009 12:01:40 AM)
Mistress has mentioned that she is looking for a new toy specifically for punishment. I thought I would assist her by gathering some feedback. She does not like to cut the skin or leave major bruises. However, I have a relatively high pain tolerance. I would assume she wants to find something that I will dread that will not be used in general play. So I wanted to know what types of toys that people find to be extremely painful, yet do not cut or bruise. Any ideas? -heartbound

ranja -> RE: Best Toys for Punishment (9/9/2009 3:19:22 AM)
nettles? little electric zapper?

chellekitty -> RE: Best Toys for Punishment (9/9/2009 4:28:35 AM)
evil sticks...

RavenMuse -> RE: Best Toys for Punishment (9/9/2009 4:44:33 AM)
Jamaican hot sauce applied to 'sensitive' areas.

DesFIP -> RE: Best Toys for Punishment (9/9/2009 4:54:22 AM)
How about not rewarding you by spending time doing things to you? Because even if you don't enjoy the toy, you will enjoy the attention. What about asking you to figure out why you did whatever, what caused that behavior and finding a solution to the problem? And rewarding you for doing right in the future.

RavenMuse -> RE: Best Toys for Punishment (9/9/2009 4:59:46 AM)
des, Very much My initial reaction too... however the actual question raised was "what types of toys that people find to be extremely painful, yet do not cut or bruise." Personally I think folks who do the play punishment crap have rather lost the plot, but that's their choice

ranja -> RE: Best Toys for Punishment (9/9/2009 6:03:42 AM)
For some people it is a very good way to be if one person physically punishes another for 'out of line' behaviour while for others it would not work at all... Before we started our journey into the BDSM way of things i was a rather demanding but still naturally submissive type of person and he was uninterested and apathetic but still naturally Dominant... it sounds very contradictive but this is how we were... Now.. i still might get uppity and demanding and, oh dear, even unreasonable, while i am certainly not a brat and mostly try to be all good, sometimes i just fail miserably... this is how i am... i will never be a perfect person... but now He is not uninterested and closed off anymore, now when i bug Him He can slap me and poke me and instead of Him trying to ignore me and getting totally fed up with me, and my mood spiralling even more downwards too, now He has the ability to bring me around, vent His own annoyance and break the awful stubborness and singlemindedness i suffer at times. To be sent to my room to 'think about things' would not work at all, i hate to be ignored, it would not be a 'good' punishment because it would not make things better as i would only get more depressed and angry and i feel my respect for the man i love shrivel when he hurts me so as to ignore me. And when He raises up and hits me He takes control of me and puts me in my place then i admire Him and submit and follow His lead... somehow some physical punishment allows me to get control of my behaviour and my mind set again... it lifts my mood, His too and problems get resolved much quicker. To me our whole life is a game and if we play it well then there is so much fun to be had. sometimes He might force me down by my hair or prick me with the meatfork.

SteelofUtah -> RE: Best Toys for Punishment (9/9/2009 6:05:11 AM)
A 2X4. Steel

Acer49 -> RE: Best Toys for Punishment (9/9/2009 6:11:30 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: heartbound Mistress has mentioned that she is looking for a new toy specifically for punishment. I thought I would assist her by gathering some feedback. She does not like to cut the skin or leave major bruises. However, I have a relatively high pain tolerance. I would assume she wants to find something that I will dread that will not be used in general play. So I wanted to know what types of toys that people find to be extremely painful, yet do not cut or bruise. Any ideas? -heartbound Well it is still early yet; however I will give it a thought. Your most effective “toy” you have is that gray mass between your ears. It is easy to find an implement that causes physical pain however, you may want to not restrict yourself and attempt to “step outside of the box” in an effort to come up with a punishment that is just as effective, yet requires no tolerance and causes no marks what so ever. I realize it lacks a visual and has no erotic value, but then punishment is not meant to.

FirmhandNC -> RE: Best Toys for Punishment (9/9/2009 8:39:13 AM)
How About a large Milk & Molases enema held in place with a big ginger root fig plug. I don't think you will like that very much and neither will cut the skin

UKEvolutionary -> RE: Best Toys for Punishment (9/9/2009 8:59:44 AM)
For lifestyle, I would say the best "Toy" for punishment, would be something you DON'T enjoy doing, otherwise it's a "reward" and NOT punishment !!! sometimes this is as simple as "standing in the corner" or as "complex" ( lol ) as counting the number of rice in a packet !!! ( Just a couple of ideas ..... use imagination for others !! ) But as your question states "looking for a new toy specifically for punishment" I will "assume" it's for "play" in the bedroom and NOT "Lifestyle", I would suggest something like Ravenmuse said, or ginger / chilli, believe you Me, It IS "punishment" lol

Ladynslave -> RE: Best Toys for Punishment (9/9/2009 3:04:48 PM)
Our best punishment "toy" was actually not intended for that purpose at all, but is VERY effective. I use a bamboo plant stake. They come in a variety of lengths and thicknesses or you can buy the 5' lengths and cut them to the size you need. A swing from the wrist causes quite a sting where a swing from the elbow will leave a series of small bruises across the buttocks. Leaves nice striped welts that last half a day. If bruises are left, they can be a reminder for a few days. I have never taken a full arm swing so I don't know but imagine that it would have the potential to break the skin. I love that it inflicts pain with a minimum of effort on my part so punishment doesn't have to last too long and Slave can get onto whatever I had planned next or correcting what he was in trouble for to begin with. Lady

sweetsmileysub -> RE: Best Toys for Punishment (9/9/2009 4:09:28 PM)
You could try an Epilady, that device for hair removal. I tried in many years ago and decided that I could not tolerate it and took it back to the store.

kiwisub12 -> RE: Best Toys for Punishment (9/9/2009 4:39:27 PM)
A cattle prod will do it excellently - no marks and no pleasure! [:'(]

mauve -> RE: Best Toys for Punishment (9/9/2009 5:28:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ranja For some people it is a very good way to be if one person physically punishes another for 'out of line' behaviour while for others it would not work at all... This I believe to be true. It depends on the offence as well as the individual themselves. While I hate to be ignored as well, it is the perfect punishment for backchatting or bossiness [X(] ''Before we started our journey into the BDSM way of things i was a rather demanding but still naturally submissive type of person and he was uninterested and apathetic but still naturally Dominant... it sounds very contradictive but this is how we were...Now i still might get uppity and demanding and, oh dear, even unreasonable, while i am certainly not a brat and mostly try to be all good, sometimes i just fail miserably... this is how i am... i will never be a perfect person... but now He is not uninterested and closed off anymore, now when i bug Him He can slap me and poke me and instead of Him trying to ignore me and getting totally fed up with me, and my mood spiralling even more downwards too, now He has the ability to bring me around, vent His own annoyance and break the awful stubborness and singlemindedness i suffer at times.'' I can see abit of myself in what you have said so far. I do get cropped on occasion, which I'm not overly found of but for me I find it an effective tool to help get my concentrate on what I'm meant to be doing. [:D] "....And when He raises up and hits me He takes control of me and puts me in my place then i admire Him and submit and follow His lead... somehow some physical punishment allows me to get control of my behaviour and my mind set again... it lifts my mood, His too and problems get resolved much quicker."

MistressSassy66 -> RE: Best Toys for Punishment (9/9/2009 8:29:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: heartbound Mistress has mentioned that she is looking for a new toy specifically for punishment. I thought I would assist her by gathering some feedback. She does not like to cut the skin or leave major bruises. However, I have a relatively high pain tolerance. I would assume she wants to find something that I will dread that will not be used in general play. So I wanted to know what types of toys that people find to be extremely painful, yet do not cut or bruise. Any ideas? -heartbound I use one of those paddles that you can find at colleges. Its called the "Thank You may I have another" paddle. I have a pic of mine on my profile.

GotSteel -> RE: Best Toys for Punishment (9/9/2009 10:24:38 PM)
http://www.toystoysonline.com/electric.htm http://www.extremerestraints.com/miscellaneous_51/large-shock-prod_472.html http://erostek.com/html/et-232.html

Focus50 -> RE: Best Toys for Punishment (9/10/2009 3:42:46 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: heartbound Mistress has mentioned that she is looking for a new toy specifically for punishment. I thought I would assist her by gathering some feedback. She does not like to cut the skin or leave major bruises. However, I have a relatively high pain tolerance. I would assume she wants to find something that I will dread that will not be used in general play. So I wanted to know what types of toys that people find to be extremely painful, yet do not cut or bruise. Any ideas? Punishment implies the girl has done something to displease me to the point of anger. And I'd certainly be in no mood to accept her assistance in punishing her as a consequence.... For mine, the "best" punishment is one a sub dislikes most - the withdrawal of attention. Corner-time (for her) usually achieves the desired outcome as it also gives me time to cool off. For a time, I had considered obtaining a suitable punishment garment for her to wear - something drab, shapeless and generally unappealing etc but I decided that merely ignoring her existance for awhile got her refocused (no pun intended). Focus.

quietlycontent -> RE: Best Toys for Punishment (9/10/2009 4:26:49 AM)
This can't be classed as punishment received, but once while fishing i urinated on one of those electric fences they use instead of barbed wire to keep cattle in. And believe me it hurts. So if you live near a dairy farm ??????????????? The possibilities are endless.

Ramesh19 -> RE: Best Toys for Punishment (12/11/2009 5:15:01 PM)
Here any sub/slave

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