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Chrisincuffs -> RE: definition of a switch (12/25/2009 8:21:38 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Underumam
My first profile years ago was a switch. Due to my lack of experience at the time I was basing the description upon my sexuality more than anything else. I have a dominant side, yet I rarely expresses myself as such. Bedroom play is one thing, and life in the "real world" is another. A man who allows people to walk over him in business and other dealings with the public will never be taken seriously, yet I am extremely submissive to the females in my life at home. My vocations as a truck driver, minister, carpenter and other manly occupations, demanded that I be firmly rooted in and function as a dominant male.Yet this is not how I wish to express myself in the other facets of my life. It's perfectly natural for me to submit to female energy, as well as to function in daily life as a strong man. Ms. Lockit describes me as a submissive alpha male. I prefer Her definition. lol.
I find it interesting you say this. Outside of the bedroom I am a very dominant person. I hate to admit but I've been called a control freak on more than one occasion. Up until the last couple years I considered myself Dominant in the bedroom as well. As soon as I had control in a relationship and dominated a male I lost complete respect for him in all aspects and walked all over him. I used them as toys, manipulated and tore them down as men. Then I met my Master. Friends at first then so much more very soon. We explored my behavior to learn that I need to be submissive in the bedroom. the only thing that turns me on is being on my knees before a Master, bound and controlled. The thought of Him makes my panties WET! the feeling of not being able to move, talk back, or bitch makes me literally moan out loud.
So does this make me a switch?
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