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RE: BDSM: Lifestyle or Activity? - 8/29/2004 12:26:25 PM

smile2cu

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ORIGINAL: MistressDREAD
I dont know if you heard it but I couldn't help but hear the sound of roaring laughter at your words of My being articulate here on the boards.

Hi DREAD, I was friendly, but serious. I've learned a lot from your posts. Ok, I don't always agree with each one, but as primarily a submissive, it gives me some perspective in this area. And you certainly don't seem shy about expressing your ideas, which is good.

p.s. I like your raven.

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RE: BDSM: Lifestyle or Activity? - 8/30/2004 12:05:36 PM

ScorpioMaster

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I consider this a lifestyle for is it a way of being and thinking. I know how the skills you learn in the lifestyle can be use in every day life. Example the skill of seeing something wrong and quickly takes action. I was an event last year and there was a car accident near our hotel the event was being held at. Our guys quickly helped the police and took action with the car accident. Te passenger in the car needed medical help and one our guys provide first aid. The ones who caused the accident tried to run away from it kids joy riding in a stolen car. Our security was able to help the police to catch one of the kids who was riding in the car tired to run away and they caught them. I was told by our head of security the police was impress how quickly took care of the problem. When I play with some one I am more focus and it has helped in the kind of work I do. So for me this is a way of thinking and being. It will take time to find the right person and I had to learn this myself. We have a great community and I am proud to call some of them my family. Do not give up hope for it could change the minute stop looking. Good luck and be safe

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RE: BDSM: Lifestyle or Activity? - 9/1/2004 4:03:17 AM

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For me it's a bit of both simply because the dynamics of my life allow it to be both, lifestyle in that its a constant part of my life and relationship with my husband as much a part of me as breathing is and has been for so long now I don't even remember too clearly when it wasn't lol activity because I am poly and therefore am able to have another partner when I want to and not to have one when I don't.

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RE: BDSM: Lifestyle or Activity? - 9/2/2004 5:04:07 AM

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Kink is part of my life, but not all my life is about. It's part of my lifestyle - my lifestyle doesn't revolve around it.

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