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MasterK100 -> I think I am in love with a Mistress but I am a Master what should I do? (9/11/2009 6:37:44 PM)

I am in love with a Dom that is seeking online romance but not Dominate men though she is seeking sub men what should I do? PLEASE HELP



GoddessImaginos -> RE: I think I am in love with a Mistress but I am a Master what should I do? (9/11/2009 6:41:45 PM)

Ok:
1) is this real, or just a fantasy situation?
-and-
2) for the 20,000th time, folks: "dominate" is a VERB. "Dominant" is a descriptive. You are a Dominant, and dominate is what you do.



Lockit -> RE: I think I am in love with a Mistress but I am a Master what should I do? (9/11/2009 6:45:36 PM)

At eighteen, I can understand a bit of confusion, but have you even met her? 



VampiresLair -> RE: I think I am in love with a Mistress but I am a Master what should I do? (9/11/2009 7:36:14 PM)

You think you are in love, have you at the very least spoken with this person? If her profile says she is looking for online subs only, but you dont know anything else about her... then you are probably best advised to get over her and move on. If you have actually talked with her, and know her interests, maybe you can find out if she is interested in anything with anyone. However, if you are so easily infatuated with someone who you have never even met, Id suggest very strongly turning off the PC and getting a healthy dose of reality before you even try and find someone for yourself.

DV



DarkSteven -> RE: I think I am in love with a Mistress but I am a Master what should I do? (9/11/2009 9:01:28 PM)

Fella, you've got to slow down.  And learn not to take the tick marks next to Dom, sub, Mistress, and Master so dang seriously.

With no experience, you have self identified as a Master. 

The you claim to be in love with some Domina who is only interested in online and you're afraid that that means you may not be a true Master.  Would it make you feel better if I told you that some Doms served as subs or slaves to learn the ropes?

Personally, I think that you could stand to get some experience under your belt.  Try subbing and see how it feels to you.





pyroaquatic -> RE: I think I am in love with a Mistress but I am a Master what should I do? (9/11/2009 9:03:04 PM)

You win a prize D-Steve.

And I do not sense a smidgen of darkness in your heart either.

YOUR NAME IZ LIES I SAY!!!



OttersSwim -> RE: I think I am in love with a Mistress but I am a Master what should I do? (9/11/2009 9:03:23 PM)

Drink 18 ounces of Orange Juice and sleep on it...trust me, this will work.  thishereboi recommended it...it is the secret remedy so such things!

If it doesn't work...you might consider that it is a big pond and there are lots of people out there who might be better suited to you.  If she is a Domme looking for submissive males, and you are not one...not much point in pursuing it...



LadyHibiscus -> RE: I think I am in love with a Mistress but I am a Master what should I do? (9/12/2009 2:14:37 PM)

If thishereboi recommended it, I would TOTALLY go for it, the woman is a genius. 

On other fronts, in the romance department orientation doesn't matter to me.  I don't need power exchange at home.  Maybe that lady doesn't either.



angelikaJ -> RE: I think I am in love with a Mistress but I am a Master what should I do? (9/12/2009 2:33:09 PM)

To the OP,

How do you know you love her?

What do you love about her?

Love, lust, infatuation and intrigue are different things.

Go out and meet some folks, perhaps at a TNG munch.

Real people are so much more interesting than a profile you might stumble across.
However, the problem with real people is that they tend to turn out to be so very human...



mnottertail -> RE: I think I am in love with a Mistress but I am a Master what should I do? (9/12/2009 2:38:07 PM)

Nobody is in love at 18. They are just sucking and fucking.

Ron



RockRoyaltyyx -> RE: I think I am in love with a Mistress but I am a Master what should I do? (9/12/2009 2:43:56 PM)

All you can do is talk to her about the situation and how you feel.
Dom, Sub or whatever. i think 2 people should be able to talk to each other




Lockit -> RE: I think I am in love with a Mistress but I am a Master what should I do? (9/12/2009 2:47:30 PM)

Where would she fit in with the two or three submissive's you want for your poly situation?



mnottertail -> RE: I think I am in love with a Mistress but I am a Master what should I do? (9/12/2009 2:50:08 PM)

Alpha Mistress?

Is this possible? Or, am I the only one?




angelikaJ -> RE: I think I am in love with a Mistress but I am a Master what should I do? (9/12/2009 3:34:41 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

Alpha Mistress?

Is this possible? Or, am I the only one?




Ron, 

I think it is possible that you are the only Alpha Mistress here.



daintydimples -> RE: I think I am in love with a Mistress but I am a Master what should I do? (9/12/2009 3:42:35 PM)

*takes on Ron as an alpha Mistress



subtlebutterfly -> RE: I think I am in love with a Mistress but I am a Master what should I do? (9/12/2009 3:47:28 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Lockit

At eighteen, I can understand a bit of confusion, but have you even met her? 

pffff who needs to meet...all the marriage proposals from people I've never even talked to geee
ya dont need to meet you'll meet her anyway when you marry.. it's inevitable[:D]



DemonKia -> RE: I think I am in love with a Mistress but I am a Master what should I do? (9/12/2009 6:36:44 PM)

*after read thru & smirking*

*fans self at thought of the divine CD, Mistress Ron(ne), & hir guynormous clit*

Hehehe . . . .



DavanKael -> RE: I think I am in love with a Mistress but I am a Master what should I do? (9/12/2009 6:46:15 PM)

Ron, I know you're alpha Mistress and all (Please send out directives on how all who have vowed to serve you must conduct themselves) but gotta disagree with you: I was in love and loved my husband at 18 and there was sucking and fucking.  :>
OP: Youdo seem to be rather all over the place.  Perhaps clarifying based on what folks have pointed out and asked. 
  Davan



ShiftedJewel -> RE: I think I am in love with a Mistress but I am a Master what should I do? (9/12/2009 8:18:45 PM)

Addressing the issue at hand here... To the OP:

The very best advice is to first think of her as a woman. Sooooooooo... after doing that ask the question differently... "Help!! I'm in love with a woman, what should I do???" You'd be surprised how much better you get treated by people in general when you treat them like people first, orientation last.

Jewel



frankieboy52 -> RE: I think I am in love with a Mistress but I am a Master what should I do? (9/15/2009 6:13:10 AM)

Better go slow..i said i was in love with my Mistress at the time and she ran for the hills..i'll never say it again....not even if it is beaten out of me.



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