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A new sub to the fold? - 2/27/2006 11:04:26 AM

larangel

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Hi, can any subs help me?
Ive been wih my master for five years now & i love him & the life style very very much. He as been looking for a while for a new sub to join us & now it seems that he has found someone. Even though i am happy about this & want to do everything to please my master i just cant help feeling a little bit jealous - should i feel like this, & what can i do about it??
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RE: A new sub to the fold? - 2/27/2006 11:16:20 AM

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RE: A new sub to the fold? - 2/27/2006 11:26:35 AM

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Yeah... what she said.

But... I do understand. We have been looking for a while for another.. and even though we have found her.. I am wondering how I will be when she moves in. I wonder if I will have any jealousy to deal with.

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RE: A new sub to the fold? - 2/27/2006 12:20:47 PM

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Larangel: I just want to give you a virtual high -five for being brave enough to admit that you feel a bit jealous. It's a tough thing to do when you've already agreed that you'll be ok with another joing you and your Master. Good for you, your bravery, and your honesty.

It may have been mentioned in one of the threads that LA was so kind to post, but I think talking to your Master is going to make all the difference. Jealousy usually stems from the unknown...the more you know about what he intends and how things will work, the better you'll feel.

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RE: A new sub to the fold? - 3/1/2006 6:36:48 AM

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Hi, thanks for your replies & advice - i will talk it over with my master & hopefully he will give me a damn good thrashing for being so silly! Larangel

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RE: A new sub to the fold? - 3/1/2006 1:17:36 PM

reba

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Hi I am not a sub but a mistress,I think that if your master shows more
affection for the new sub and pays no attention to you at all. then maybe you ask him or her
if he still wants you around, say what you feel the, subs I had did.

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RE: A new sub to the fold? - 3/1/2006 1:32:11 PM

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Sometimes the ideas and fantasies we have may not work out in practicality and are best kept as fantasies and ideas. Like, the "living of something" is very much more work than the idea of it. Some people are just not made up to live in poly relationships although the idea seems cool.

I could use myself as an example, if i had a poly fantasies it would be to have a Master and Mistress...probably cuz of the extra attention i would get (yeah yeah selfish of me hey, but its a fantasy so there lol)..but in reality, I know that is never going to play out, it wouldnt suit my personality, I'm a one person partner.

Also, sometimes, if we get introduced to an idea for long enough we begin to embrace it, just from being exposed to it, however, that doesnt mean the idea is actually akin to what it is we really want in life, or how we wish to really live it.

When topics of jealousy come up, these are just the things I think of.....

Since I've got no experience in this area, most smart course of action is to disregard this post lol

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RE: A new sub to the fold? - 3/1/2006 2:43:16 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

Jealousy

Jealousy (2)

Jealousy (3)

Jealousy (4)

Breaking Jealousy

Jealousy...help?

Jealousy and the M/s relationship

Slaves jealousy

Controlling my jealousy

LA,

I have often thought it, but don't think I have ever said it. I love your style.

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