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Straight male serving Gay Master - 9/12/2009 8:22:31 PM   
gaymansurinal


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Status: offline 		i am a straight male who suddenly has been having fantasy's about being owned by a Gay Leather Man or Couple, especially being degraded in public and some other extreme hardcore scenes. Should I pursue these? i just placed an add as a Gay slave here on collarme, even though i am attracted to Women, but he idea of being owned and denied my natural attraction is just soooo hot! Any advice even if it degrades me which i deserve and and understand thats what slave gets for trying to communicate with Superiors.

Thank You and Praise You all.
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RE: Straight male serving Gay Master - 9/12/2009 8:28:29 PM   
lovingpet


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ORIGINAL: gaymansurinal

Any advice even if it degrades me which i deserve and and understand thats what slave gets for trying to communicate with Superiors.




It is?

Anyway, as for your question. I don't have a clue what is or is not right for another person. Only you know if this should cross the line from fantasy to reality. I won't say it's right or wrong or whether or not I would desire such for myself. It really isn't anyone's place to do so. That is a judgement only you can make for yourself.

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RE: Straight male serving Gay Master - 9/12/2009 8:31:45 PM   
openmindedslave


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Status: offline 		Not a very uncommon desire out here. Some males who say they do not seek involvement with men , may secretly want to explore this type relationship. The idea of being controlled by someone you say you have nosexual desire to be with may not be totally true either. Many forms of humilation out here involve being controlled and forced to do something that they would not normally do .Anal play or strap on play  is one that many seek.And really who better to give you a rape scenerio if that is what a person desires but a person who has the strenght to take charge. I am sure there will be much written here on this subject..

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RE: Straight male serving Gay Master - 9/12/2009 8:34:41 PM   
MstrPBK


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Status: offline 		you just need to be sure what your comfortable perusing - no-one-else can make that decision for you.
I just so happen to be one of those Gay Masters who would take a straight slave ...

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RE: Straight male serving Gay Master - 9/12/2009 8:47:07 PM   
gaymansurinal


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Status: offline 		What would You do with/to You straight slave, Master?

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RE: Straight male serving Gay Master - 9/12/2009 8:59:10 PM   
DarkSteven


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ORIGINAL: gaymansurinal

What would You do with/to You straight slave, Master?


Y'know, none of us really need to know that except you and your prospective Master.  I advise using cmails to continue your conversation in private.


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RE: Straight male serving Gay Master - 9/12/2009 9:45:10 PM   
masterlink65


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Status: offline 		it is not un common for a straight or gay slave to be property to a master of different sexual orientation. what difference does it make if you are a slave? this is not about sex to me, this is about control, dominance/submission.

although an all male household, i would consider a female slave, straight, gay, bi, as long as slave is agreeable and trainable.

i have no interest in sexual orientation. only master/slave

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RE: Straight male serving Gay Master - 9/12/2009 10:25:54 PM   
DavanKael


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Status: offline 		I'm bound to get flamed for this but ah, well...OP, I think it's safe to assume you are probably bi, not straight.  That having been said, rock on!  :> 
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RE: Straight male serving Gay Master - 9/13/2009 12:39:16 AM   
Acer49


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ORIGINAL: gaymansurinal

i am a straight male who suddenly has been having fantasy's about being owned by a Gay Leather Man or Couple, especially being degraded in public and some other extreme hardcore scenes. Should I pursue these? i just placed an add as a Gay slave here on collarme, even though i am attracted to Women, but he idea of being owned and denied my natural attraction is just soooo hot! Any advice even if it degrades me which i deserve and and understand thats what slave gets for trying to communicate with Superiors.

Thank You and Praise You all.


You need to tell all of this to your prospective owner

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RE: Straight male serving Gay Master - 9/13/2009 6:23:56 AM   
SaharahEve


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ORIGINAL: gaymansurinal

i am a straight male who suddenly has been having fantasy's about being owned by a Gay Leather Man or Couple, especially being degraded in public and some other extreme hardcore scenes. Should I pursue these? i just placed an add as a Gay slave here on collarme, even though i am attracted to Women, but he idea of being owned and denied my natural attraction is just soooo hot! Any advice even if it degrades me which i deserve and and understand thats what slave gets for trying to communicate with Superiors.

Thank You and Praise You all.


Sure, pursue it - - what do you have to loose. I know a straight male (mental masochist) who's been serving a gay master over a year now. There's no sex involved; it's strictly service (errands, cleaning, objectification, etc.).

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RE: Straight male serving Gay Master - 9/13/2009 7:47:16 AM   
LanceHughes


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ORIGINAL: gaymansurinal

What would You do with/to You straight slave, Master?


WHOA!  I, too, am a gay male Dom who would have no problem with a straight slave.  BUT regardless of gender or sexual orientation, one does NOT use the term (with me, at least) of "Master" as you approach for the first time.

This is NOT meant to be used to hi-jack this thread. LOL!

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RE: Straight male serving Gay Master - 9/13/2009 10:32:27 AM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		He's definitely bi, just look at the username chosen. And it is incorrect to use the boards to elicit wanker material about how you would be forced to take his ten inches unlubricated etc, etc, etc.

Go find some porn that satisfies you, don't be rude and subject us to it.

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RE: Straight male serving Gay Master - 9/13/2009 3:45:47 PM   
SexyCarrot


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Status: offline 		Hey... whatever twirls your gerbil.



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RE: Straight male serving Gay Master - 9/14/2009 8:35:26 AM   
Chimortis


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Status: offline 		How do you even define straight, bisexual, etc? I never really liked those sorts of terms, since bisexual implies binary gender, which I've never been a huge fan of, knowing as many awesome people as I have who do not fit into a gender binary.

I think the OP is a fetishist more than anything else, and one of his fetishes is to be used, sexually, by another person who also has a penis. Fair enough. Why bother with labels?

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RE: Straight male serving Gay Master - 9/14/2009 8:40:09 AM   
Sunnyfey


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ORIGINAL: Chimortis

How do you even define straight, bisexual, etc? I never really liked those sorts of terms, since bisexual implies binary gender, which I've never been a huge fan of, knowing as many awesome people as I have who do not fit into a gender binary.

I think the OP is a fetishist more than anything else, and one of his fetishes is to be used, sexually, by another person who also has a penis. Fair enough. Why bother with labels?



Well, Bi-sexuals (when referenceing binary sexuality) are attracted to men and women

Pansexuals can be attracted to any sex (male,female, f2m, m2f, trans sexed, intersexed, genderqueer, genderfluid)

Thats the simple way to put it anyway.


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RE: Straight male serving Gay Master - 9/28/2009 6:04:21 PM   
SireKane


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Status: offline 		It is uncommon for a straight submissive male to serve a gay  dominant male. Most dominant men, straight or gay ,combine sex with bdsm. Personally, bdsm is foreplay to sex. I would never have someone in my charge who I did'nt have sex with.  In my opinion if you are a straight guy who wants to serve a gay guy, you are at least bi curious.  Be honest with yourself.

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RE: Straight male serving Gay Master - 9/28/2009 9:13:30 PM   
DavanKael


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ORIGINAL: Chimortis

How do you even define straight, bisexual, etc? I never really liked those sorts of terms, since bisexual implies binary gender, which I've never been a huge fan of, knowing as many awesome people as I have who do not fit into a gender binary.

I think the OP is a fetishist more than anything else, and one of his fetishes is to be used, sexually, by another person who also has a penis. Fair enough. Why bother with labels?



Oh, come on, the terms you noted are easily able to be defined. 
While the idea of 2 sexes is, imo, a bit constraining, that's no reason to toss sensibility and refuse to use terms. 
Why bother with labels: communication. 
  Davan


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RE: Straight male serving Gay Master - 9/28/2009 10:56:40 PM   
realtimemaster4u


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Status: offline 		To the original poster I certainly don't see why you shouldn't go for what's in your heart. There are all types of Masters out there who have different needs and desires in a slave. As a straight master myself I can see certain circumstance under which I'd consider taking on a gay male slave even though there would be absolutely no sex between me and them. If I can see reasons I'd take on a gay male slave even though the sex component is totally out of the picture then I'm sure there are reasons a gay master would take on a straight slave. Obviously these two situations aren't totally the same being in the straight master gay slave scenario the ultimate torture for the slave is that their master will never receive sexual gratification from using their body whereas in the gay master straight slave scenario it seems the master could be the one loosing out if sex is not an option.

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RE: Straight male serving Gay Master - 9/29/2009 7:39:42 AM   
antipode


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i am a straight male


If this isn't a passing thought, you are not. Accept who and what you are, or perhaps see a counselor or shrink.

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RE: Straight male serving Gay Master - 10/3/2009 12:56:41 AM   
Eivarden


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Status: offline 		A little correction to pan-sexual, it doesn't mean you like anything, it means you like someone regardless of their sex or appearance. You like them for who they are.

Someone who is Bi, can like transsexuals, and the others mentioned, based on their appearance.

As for the whole Straight sub for Gay Dom, it's plenty possible to be straight, but there can also be bi-curiosity.

Problem with curiosity, is once you try something, and you didn't like it, or didn't think anything of it, you're likely to stop. (So don't get yourself into a bad situation.)

My gay friend keeps trying to get me to sub for him, but I straight up tell him. "I'll never have feelings for you outside of friends, and I'll never be attracted to you. I don't think you will want that, I know I wouldn't."

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