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MstrTiger -> Hmmmmmm message? (2/27/2006 12:02:47 PM)

I recently received this message, “Hi master tiger I am a true slave and am looking for a real master to own me, can you tell me how big your feet are please?”. When I got it I thought Grrrrr silly fetishist and deleted the message without responding though it has brought me to consider if it is the worst sort of vanity expecting people to ignore what I look like (or what my feet look like) and like me for what is on the inside. Do you agree or do you think I am being overly dramatic? Well, obviously I am being overly dramatic though what are your thoughts on it anyway?



wolffeathers -> RE: Hmmmmmm message? (2/27/2006 12:05:37 PM)

I'm not sure that's vanity.

I would much rather people judge me for ME, then what I look like.



RavenMuse -> RE: Hmmmmmm message? (2/27/2006 12:06:23 PM)

Maybe they are believers in the old wives tale about the size of the feet being an indication of the 'size of the man'[:D]

But seriously, if it seems that odd to you then it is likely the person isn't what your looking for. "Thanks but no thanks"... next!



LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Hmmmmmm message? (2/27/2006 12:18:24 PM)

It is unrealistic to expect people not to care about how you look.

However, your assessment of that particular email was probably dead-on.

The good news is, you get to choose who you get involved with- so you will choose someone who's values and ideals on vanity match with yours.



Elegant -> RE: Hmmmmmm message? (2/27/2006 12:24:26 PM)

Perhaps she wished to buy you some boots?...<i>grin</i>



JohnWarren -> RE: Hmmmmmm message? (2/27/2006 12:39:04 PM)

Feet? Ha! It was your leg that was being yanked.



amayos -> RE: Hmmmmmm message? (2/27/2006 1:02:03 PM)

I would tend to have the same reaction you had. I am not dominant to offer a body part as the object of masturbatory worship. I don't think it's much an issue of vanity at all as it is an issue of authenticity of motive.

It is the body, mind and soul together that I am interested in.



ownedgirlie -> RE: Hmmmmmm message? (2/27/2006 2:24:34 PM)

And here i naively thought it was only (or at least mostly) females who had to contend with this....although the question i was most accustomed to was cup size, rather than shoe size [;)]

(i would gladly share my shoe size in exchange for Prada.......)



littlesassy -> RE: Hmmmmmm message? (2/27/2006 7:22:53 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MstrTiger

I recently received this message, “Hi master tiger I am a true slave and am looking for a real master to own me, can you tell me how big your feet are please?”. When I got it I thought Grrrrr silly fetishist and deleted the message without responding though it has brought me to consider if it is the worst sort of vanity expecting people to ignore what I look like (or what my feet look like) and like me for what is on the inside. Do you agree or do you think I am being overly dramatic? Well, obviously I am being overly dramatic though what are your thoughts on it anyway?

i agree with You Sir.



sylphgossamer -> RE: Hmmmmmm message? (2/27/2006 7:51:22 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

(i would gladly share my shoe size in exchange for Prada.......)


i love how you think! prada, gucci, givenchy, wang, chanel, dior, manolo, choo, louboutin....that sounds more than a fair trade to me. : )



ownedgirlie -> RE: Hmmmmmm message? (2/27/2006 8:09:43 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: sylphgossamer

quote:

ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

(i would gladly share my shoe size in exchange for Prada.......)


i love how you think! prada, gucci, givenchy, wang, chanel, dior, manolo, choo, louboutin....that sounds more than a fair trade to me. : )


Mmmmmmmmmmmmmm [:D]



IronBear -> RE: Hmmmmmm message? (2/27/2006 11:24:32 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MstrTiger

I recently received this message, “Hi master tiger I am a true slave and am looking for a real master to own me, can you tell me how big your feet are please?”. When I got it I thought Grrrrr silly fetishist and deleted the message without responding though it has brought me to consider if it is the worst sort of vanity expecting people to ignore what I look like (or what my feet look like) and like me for what is on the inside. Do you agree or do you think I am being overly dramatic? Well, obviously I am being overly dramatic though what are your thoughts on it anyway?


Not sure if I would have deleted the message my old son, it was an open invitation to rvjoy some machevalian humour and dominate the matter.

Perhaps a reply could have read:

"Big enough to walk over you after they have stomped your testicals into a pulp...."

Would have been interesting to see if the sender had replied to that or headed for the hills at high speed........



OscarHargraves -> RE: Hmmmmmm message? (2/28/2006 7:04:03 AM)

My immediate reaction would be to censor you for not answering the e-mail. Yes you may be right and this is probably a fetishist, but it was rude not to at least answer and say why you aren't interested. I know most guys get upset when women do this and I see no reason why we shouldn't show the same courtesy to them (and others) that we expect. Would it have been that hard to send them a simple, "No thank you"?



ownedgirlie -> RE: Hmmmmmm message? (2/28/2006 8:26:00 AM)

To me, any sort of reply just seems like an invitation for them to write again. i guess i developed this "don't bother to reply" attitude when i was spending more time in chat rooms - getting IM'd like crazy from those who wanted to cyber. If i bothered to reply with a "No thank you" they would follow it up with something charming like "Fuck you, bitch." Also if i bothered to reply to all of them i would be spending all my time doing that and no time visiting with actual friends. my thought is similar to call screening at home - i did not invite you to interrupt what i am doing, so i will decide if i want to reply or not. Bitchy? Maybe. But that's my thought on it.

When i expressed to my Master my interest in joining this forum, he granted approval on the condition that i make it obvious that i am owned, because he didn't want me to have to deal with players like that (he knows i can handle it, but he likes being possessive that way and i find it sweet...heehee). Hence my "obvious" name, LOL. my profile says i am owned, and just here for the discussion board and to talk to friends. And yet i STILL get messages from those with a different agenda. So, they do not warrant a reply in my opinion.

Some from this board have messaged me to discuss something "offline, " and i am absolutely open to that. That's a different story than being hit on.



LthrdWolf -> RE: Hmmmmmm message? (2/28/2006 9:51:17 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MstrTiger

I recently received this message, “Hi master tiger I am a true slave and am looking for a real master to own me, can you tell me how big your feet are please?”.



Wanted to know the size of your dick -plain & simple- so ignore it as crass or enjoy it & respond - up to You.

LthrdWolf



yourMissTress -> RE: Hmmmmmm message? (2/28/2006 11:13:13 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: sylphgossamer

quote:

ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

(i would gladly share my shoe size in exchange for Prada.......)


i love how you think! prada, gucci, givenchy, wang, chanel, dior, manolo, choo, louboutin....that sounds more than a fair trade to me. : )


MMMMM, I really didn't think I was going to get wet reading this thread...



Arpig -> RE: Hmmmmmm message? (2/28/2006 7:59:59 PM)

Well I am with you on this one Tiger, I would hope to be judged by what is on the inside as well...but then again, given my looks, that isn't really much of a surprise now is it



FangsNfeet -> RE: Hmmmmmm message? (2/28/2006 8:44:14 PM)

You had a sub flirting with you. I don't think he/she really cared what the size of your foot looks like. I'm sure the messenger just wanted to say something that would get your attention above the others.

If I where in you shoes this is how I would reply:

"How big are my feet? Just one is big enough to knock you down, pin you, and be forced up your ass. You would then be have to worship my feet by cleaning them with your tongue. Are you sure you're ready to serve under my feet?"

Weather than giving any actual measurments or sizes, just assure you have what it takes to get the job done.

Now please, Save the Drama for your Mama



slavejali -> RE: Hmmmmmm message? (2/28/2006 9:48:56 PM)

i think she wanted to know the size of your C***.Can we say that word here? I starred it out just in case lol

and btw, I dont believe that foot thing is true.



BitaTruble -> RE: Hmmmmmm message? (2/28/2006 11:43:04 PM)

quote:

I recently received this message, “Hi master tiger I am a true slave and am looking for a real master to own me, can you tell me how big your feet are please?”. When I got it I thought Grrrrr silly fetishist and deleted the message without responding though it has brought me to consider if it is the worst sort of vanity expecting people to ignore what I look like (or what my feet look like) and like me for what is on the inside. Do you agree or do you think I am being overly dramatic? Well, obviously I am being overly dramatic though what are your thoughts on it anyway?


In all honesty, if you don't want people to respond to your looks, less provocative pictures would probably be in order. You've got three very hot pics up, so what, exactly, do you expect? I think you are being a bit on the dramatic side, but physical attraction is important in a relationship. How would you respond to someone who wrote to you and said something like.. "You're not really, physically, my type, but I like what you have to say anyway. Can we chat?" Are you likely to respond to someone who tells you up front they don't find you their cuppa, but want to give it a chance anyway? Do you give them that chance, or do you move along to someone who does find you physically appealing? On the flip side, if a picture turns you off, do you write to the person anyway if you have other things in common or will you send out an email to someone who is really hot and attractive to you, but doesn't have what you're really looking for in other areas?

Bottom line, if he wasn't for you, no harm, no foul. You ignored the email, so it's time to move passed it. Rather than being upset, be flattered that you attacted him in the first place. I mean, aren't you trying to attract people? Sometimes they're the wrong ones, but you have to break a lot of eggs to make quiche.

Um.. just out of curiosity.. how big are your feet? ;)

It was a joke! ::laughs::

Celeste



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