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Incontinence and diapers - 9/13/2009 11:56:13 AM

borntoroam

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If you know what it is, great.. if not, then go ahead and look it up. How would you feel about someone with this condition? And please, I don't really want to receive any hateful replies back - please refrain from doing so. I do use them, but I have a very light form of incontinence and I mostly wear them at nighttime and sometimes throughout the day. Would it be easier to have someone who was already into the fetish per se (I really don't want to make someone feel like they have to be into it i.e. force them)?

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RE: Incontinence and diapers - 9/13/2009 12:10:10 PM

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I don't think I would ever wish to turn a medical issue or challenge into a fetish. I think it would change how the medical issue was viewed and handled in the long run and in some way and that doesn't sound like a good idea to me. It seems that then we would not be viewing it as something we might seek to heal, change or help if it could be done and would then depend on it continuing to get some kink on. Even if it couldn't be changed, I can't believe that it is an emotionally healthy thing to view a medical issue into something else. It isn't like making the best of a situation to me.

I can't really explain how I feel... but my gut instinct is to say... no way! I am ill and I have some challenges and if someone used my challenges as a kink, I would find it offensive and as if my situation is belittled in a way and not considered properly because a man got off to my hardship or suffering. I don't like making my challenges a big deal anyway, but making them a fetish would make them a focus and a big deal. I would sooooooooo not be interested.

I know this is a challenging situation for you and I hope you find your answers and someone who understands them.

< Message edited by Lockit -- 9/13/2009 12:12:17 PM >

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RE: Incontinence and diapers - 9/13/2009 12:21:30 PM

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I was hoping for replies like this actually, thank you! I have been exploring the AB/DL (adult baby/diaper lover) scene for some time now, but a lot of it really bothers me. I am in no way a judgmental person, but some things just bother me a bit. I wouldn't want someone to have to deal with some of the things I've gone through (even though all of it is minor issues). My problems bounce back and forth. The last thing I want is to make someone indulge in something that they are not used to and just overall don't understand. Thank you for your opinion - I believe it will help me in the long run. I just want people to know it's not something uncommon and is definitely not a taboo subject amongst the world today. I'm just a person living life to the fullest/trying to make the best of it.

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RE: Incontinence and diapers - 9/13/2009 2:01:34 PM

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OP, based on your post, you sound like a nonkinky guy with a medical condition. I just get the feeling you'd be better off with someone who is also nonkinky and who understands your condition rather than someone who gets off on it. The fact that you say that a lot about the AB/DL scene bothers you strengthens that feeling.

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RE: Incontinence and diapers - 9/13/2009 2:09:12 PM

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Yes, you described me well - you're right; I'd probably be better off taking that route instead of taking that chance and getting extremely freaked out over someone trying to communicate in baby-talk (I don't understand that aspect AT ALL). Thanks for the words of wisdom!

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RE: Incontinence and diapers - 9/13/2009 2:10:55 PM

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You is wekkum, widdle man.

(Sorry, I couldn't resist!)

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