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dreamerdreaming -> RE: Advice needed! Please help! (9/28/2009 7:22:10 PM)
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Sounds like a good guy, but- bottom line:
If he's not kinky enough for you (translation: if he's more of a bedroom top, and happy being just that- and you desire something more like 24/7 TPE) then he may not be the best match for you. This is why your D/s or BDSM needs and desires should have been discussed in detail right from the start.
Its much better to find someone whose needs and desires match up closely with your own to begin with, than it is to take up the time of someone like this, who sounds like a really good catch, but maybe not the best match for you. After all you've only been together a few months, and already your getting upset that your needs and desires aren't being addressed to your liking.
To reiterate: A good catch does not equal a good match.
If you continue on with him, you may need to just realize that he's not exactly what you were looking for, and settle. Or, you can end it now while its still very early on, so that you'll both be free to seek the kind of person who already is what you want.
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