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PlayfulOne -> Growing subs (2/27/2006 4:39:43 PM)

When we found one another my little one was (and still is) on the heavy side. She was cute, adorable, carried herself well, and all I ever saw was the truly wonderful person she is. Things unfold and I find when she was younger she was super skinny and had thyroid issues that would send her heartbeat racing, and while trying to control this they completely fired her thyroid. Somewhere along the line she gave up going to the doctor and having her medicene regulated and just accepted things.

Fast forward, I come into the picture, she decides she should look better on my arm goes to the doctor, gets her blood work done and new medicene, keeps her appointments to go back, starts a work out schedule. Yesterday I undressed her by just grabbing her pants and hardly pulling.

Before me she was in situations where she was misued and taken advantage of by people who were only interested in kinky sex. I have spent a lot of time working on her focus and discipline and I can see her just growing and opening like a beautiful flower.
the funny part is those who only wanted a kinky screw missed out. The more she has grown in herself she has become an ever amazing joy to own.

Now that everyone is rolling there eyes at me, I just wanted to acknolege her accomplishments, her growth, and how proud I am of her.

She is away looking after her sick grandmother tonight so she will just be surprised tomorrow.

I have never been so proud to call someone mine

K



BitaTruble -> RE: Growing subs (2/27/2006 4:46:00 PM)

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Now that everyone is rolling there eyes at me, I just wanted to acknolege her accomplishments, her growth, and how proud I am of her.


No eye rolls from this quarter. I think she's lucky to have found someone astute enough to recognize her potential. Kudos to you and to her for the growth.

:)

Celeste



krikket -> RE: Growing subs (2/27/2006 4:58:10 PM)

How wonderful for You both. Thank You for sharing... :)



IronBear -> RE: Growing subs (2/27/2006 5:28:34 PM)

Hats off to you mate. She is in good hands.......



Vancouver_cinful -> RE: Growing subs (2/27/2006 6:30:55 PM)

That's wonderful! So many people don't recognize people's potential. They want a storybook prince or princess.

I'm happy for you both.

Cin



angelic -> RE: Growing subs (2/27/2006 6:37:40 PM)

how wonderful for Bboth of Yyou!!! You sound like One that makes sure she always knows where Your heart is. Truly heartwarming! Thank You for sharing this beautiful relationship Yyou have.



truesub4u -> RE: Growing subs (2/27/2006 6:42:18 PM)

Mr Kyle,

I think that's just great. I personaly think you both lucked out in meeting each other. For one to grow, one needs tended to. And I think it goes both ways.

I'm so happy for both of you..




PlayfulOne -> RE: Growing subs (2/27/2006 6:50:55 PM)

thank you all

We had some pictures that were taken a couple of days ago and some that were taken about a month ago, and I just had someone ask me if I was sure they were the same person. Looking a tthem now all I can say is wow, I guess seeing her everyday I needed someone else to point oout how much she has changed.

There were times during the beginning, when her corner time is a good example. She asked me why she was being punished. I told her your not, just trust me, now from her corner time she has learned how to focus her attention, slow down her thoughts, and concentrate on making positive things happen. Now she was on a trip with her mother to see about her grandmother, and hide in the bathroom to do her corner time (even though I had excused her for the trip) because she felt unbalanced and lost without the time.

Watching them grow and learn is always the best part for me ( not that the other stuff isn't right up there, :) )

K



SimplyV -> RE: Growing subs (2/27/2006 7:20:17 PM)

This is a great thread.

Too many times you hear of the problems.. the issues.. the BDSM activities.. And rarely do you hear about the growth and changes that really show how successful a partnership is..

This was great to read and very encouraging. Great to see what happens when things work.

Kudos to you both.. may your happiness continue all the rest of your days.

V



RiotGirl -> RE: Growing subs (2/27/2006 8:51:36 PM)

i agree simply and i think this is an awesome thread. Thanks for sharing and congratulations to you both! Well done



Cloudz -> RE: Growing subs (2/28/2006 4:36:10 AM)

How lovely. You both have already found the great reward in accepting each other and growing together. Thank you for starting off my day on such a lovely note. The facts are that the outer package can be completly enhanced or totally spoiled by the inner workings.



ShiftedJewel -> RE: Growing subs (2/28/2006 5:53:25 AM)

I thought you were going to post gardening tips... lmao

Just kidding... it's a very touching story, you are both lucky and blessed to have found each other.

Jewel



windchymes -> RE: Growing subs (2/28/2006 8:49:21 AM)

Wow, that was like a breath of fresh air. You're awesome!

Just shows you what a loving touch can do. Do you think she would have blossomed the way you say if you had punished or humiliated her, hoping for those results?

Just wondering.



Littlepita -> RE: Growing subs (2/28/2006 10:59:43 AM)

That was so lovely PlayfulOne.

When I met my Joe, I told him that I was overweight and needed and wanted to lose weight. Years of poor self-esteem, being mistreated and just giving up on myself had really packed on the weight. He helped me to focus and held me accountable by sending him my food diaries and weighing in every week. Then I started my divorce and moved in with my sister. That stress has been so incredibly overwhelming for me that I have gained almost 25 lbs of the 50 I had lost. I feel horrible about it, but my Joe won't allow me to beat myself up for it.

So, in two days we will start our lives together and we both know there is a lot of work to do with my weight and self-esteem. But, we love each other and he promises that I will get to where I want to be. To have someone who loves me that much and believes in me inspite of my failures is mindblowing.

There is nothing in my opinion more important for a sub then to have a Dom that sees her become all she can be and is patient and loving during the process.



SimplySubmissive -> RE: Growing subs (2/28/2006 11:24:38 AM)

Smiles softly... sometimes we don't consider ourselves and our health. Then along comes someone to please.. now we have a reason to be the best we can be. In an ideal world, we wouldn't need a reason to take care of ourselves, but I'm glad Your little one has found One such as You, and a reason to take care of herself! I think it's awesome that You would post a truly upbeat story here for all to read, about how proud You are of her!
take care, and good luck to you both in the future!



DragonNphoenix -> RE: Growing subs (3/1/2006 9:45:06 PM)

I would not roll my eyes at your post. I am glad that she has someone that cares for her the way that you do. We subs/slaves will grow wonderfully in the hands of good owners.

1st Girl Phoenix



LSUDomme -> RE: Growing subs (3/2/2006 12:31:43 AM)

I have to agree. Basically hearing what you said about your little one causes one to realize what beauty can be found in this.



slavejali -> RE: Growing subs (3/2/2006 1:17:14 AM)

It's wonderful to hear of the dynamics within a productive partnership - congrats to both of you~



redheadedfire4u -> RE: Growing subs (3/2/2006 6:10:30 PM)

oh what a wonderful thread ... thx for the positive start to a day.
I wish Y/you all the best in the future.


quote:

ORIGINAL: SimplyV

This is a great thread.

Too many times you hear of the problems.. the issues.. the BDSM activities.. And rarely do you hear about the growth and changes that really show how successful a partnership is..

This was great to read and very encouraging. Great to see what happens when things work.

Kudos to you both.. may your happiness continue all the rest of your days.

V


Couldn't put it better V,

*pass over the Vodka, my turn to pour the drinks, we need to celebrate life a little more *

warm smiles to all



newflowers -> RE: Growing subs (3/2/2006 6:19:21 PM)

no eyerolling at all. yours was a lovely post and i wish the best of all good things to the both of you.

newlfowers



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