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May I seek advice from fellow slaves? - 9/14/2009 8:55:11 PM   
BoyDoggy


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Status: offline 		I told a mistress on online chat that I like being a human toilet but that was before I remembered it involved engetine what should I say also I am  under consideration of other Mistresses should they all be informed, should I ask that they share me, what  of this or should I not say anything and go with the best one I feel the most comfortable with and explain that I have no interest to the others. I deeply apologize for any doms this offends I am truely only seeking advice to my situation.

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RE: May I seek advice from fellow slaves? - 9/14/2009 8:57:20 PM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		If you are talking seriously with one, exploring if this could be a good relationship then you shouldn't be out trolling for others unless she says that's okay.

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RE: May I seek advice from fellow slaves? - 9/14/2009 10:15:19 PM   
Acer49


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quote:

ORIGINAL: BoyDoggy

I told a mistress on online chat that I like being a human toilet but that was before I remembered it involved engetine what should I say also I am  under consideration of other Mistresses should they all be informed, should I ask that they share me, what  of this or should I not say anything and go with the best one I feel the most comfortable with and explain that I have no interest to the others. I deeply apologize for any doms this offends I am truely only seeking advice to my situation.


While not submissive, I would suggest you lay it all on the table, likes, dislikes and any limits you have

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RE: May I seek advice from fellow slaves? - 9/14/2009 10:25:41 PM   
DePubed


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Status: offline 		Until you actually formally offer yourself to a Dominant(and He/She accepts you), you do not belong to them and you do not have to ask their permission for anything; just because you and they are mutually interviewing each other doesnt mean that you already belong to them.
You are totally free to talk to as many Dominants as you want to, whether online or in-person; as the fairy-tale states: you have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find the one that is the Prince(ess).

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RE: May I seek advice from fellow slaves? - 9/15/2009 12:26:42 AM   
RealSub58


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Status: offline 		I can only tell you what I did.
You must do what is best for you.

I was pursued by 2 doms.  One I knew from another site several years ago and sort of knew him,.
I wrote both in the beginning and told them about each other.

I supposed I tested their reply when I told each one that each were in "competition."  I was eager for their responses.

Immediately I heard what I wanted and cut strings with one.
I will never regret,.

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RE: May I seek advice from fellow slaves? - 9/15/2009 2:35:57 AM   
lally2


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Status: offline 		ive always tended to talk to more than one D at a time until one in particular stands out and then ill make the decision to concentrate on them.  until that time i have tended to not put all of my energy into one person until i meet them.

the reason for that is twofold.  one is that no matter how well you get on cyberly there is a chance that when you meet the chemistry just doesnt work or you just dont fancy them or they have irritating mannerisms or they dont click with you.  the other reason is that if you say goodbye to all of the others youll probably find that they will have moved on by the time youve realised the initial choice hasnt worked out for you.

theres nothing wrong in keeping youre options open, but always be honest.  im not sure if saying to them that they are in competition with each other would work for everyone.  personally, if someone said that to me id tell them to fuck off with themselves, but thats just me.  but certainly you should say that you wish to be open and honest with them and that you are talking to other Mistresses.  if theyre worth while people then they will appreciate youre honesty.

remember that nothing is sealed or delivered, you are noones slave until a committment has been made.

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RE: May I seek advice from fellow slaves? - 9/15/2009 5:24:31 AM   
slaveluci


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quote:

ORIGINAL: BoyDoggy

I told a mistress on online chat that I like being a human toilet but that was before I remembered it involved engetine

Ok, maybe I'm a dumbass or maybe it's simply too early but what the heck is "engetine?"
Seems like I might need to know that to appreciate the question but apparently no one else is having a problem with it's meaning..........luci

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RE: May I seek advice from fellow slaves? - 9/15/2009 5:29:00 AM   
sirsholly


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Ok, maybe I'm a dumbass or maybe it's simply too early but what the heck is "engetine?"
Luci...is there room on your "dumbass" chair for me? I am clueless too 

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RE: May I seek advice from fellow slaves? - 9/15/2009 6:46:17 AM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		Cool.  I get to sit on the chair and have both holly and luci in my lap! 

"Engetine"?


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RE: May I seek advice from fellow slaves? - 9/15/2009 10:54:15 AM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		When i was looking i was talking to a few Doms. I told them from the outset i was also talking with others. Some did not like that and moved on others were fine with it and stayed in touch. I thought honesty was the best policy. I was even meeting them. When i met Master and knew i wanted to be his and he wanted me i had to tell the others that i was taken. Sure i felt a little bad having to tell them, but i was not going to lie and keep them hanging. You should let them know you are talking to others so they are not blindsided thinking you were only talking to them then you tell them i can't talk anymore i found my Mistress.

Matt's littleone

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RE: May I seek advice from fellow slaves? - 9/15/2009 12:19:34 PM   
SouthernSpankin


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quote:

ORIGINAL: slaveluci

Ok, maybe I'm a dumbass or maybe it's simply too early but what the heck is "engetine?"
Seems like I might need to know that to appreciate the question but apparently no one else is having a problem with it's meaning..........luci


Lol. When I first read it, I couldn't come up with anything--I had no idea what the heck he was trying to spell when he wrote "engetine," either. Then, just now, I came back to this thread to see if anybody figured out the brain-teaser yet... and I had a light-bulb moment...

I think he is trying to write the word "ingestion" -- that he is trying to say: "I told a mistress on online chat that I like being a human toilet, but that was before I remembered it involved ingestion. What should I say?"

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RE: May I seek advice from fellow slaves? - 9/15/2009 12:23:15 PM   
sirsholly


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quote:

ORIGINAL: SouthernSpankin

quote:

ORIGINAL: slaveluci

Ok, maybe I'm a dumbass or maybe it's simply too early but what the heck is "engetine?"
Seems like I might need to know that to appreciate the question but apparently no one else is having a problem with it's meaning..........luci


Lol. When I first read it, I couldn't come up with anything--I had no idea what the heck he was trying to spell when he wrote "engetine," either. Then, just now, I came back to this thread to see if anybody figured out the brain-teaser yet... and I had a light-bulb moment...

I think he is trying to write the word "ingestion" -- that he is trying to say: "I told a mistress on online chat that I like being a human toilet, but that was before I remembered it involved ingestion. What should I say?"

this made me laugh out loud.



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RE: May I seek advice from fellow slaves? - 9/15/2009 12:25:11 PM   
VirginPotty


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Status: offline 		School must be closed today

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RE: May I seek advice from fellow slaves? - 9/15/2009 12:26:16 PM   
Sunnyfey


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Joined: 9/21/2007
From: OK
Status: offline 		*headdesk*

so when we become submissive, do we also lose all functioning brain patterns?

Tell her you don't want to eat shit, tell them both you are talking to other besides them. It's really THAT simple.


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RE: May I seek advice from fellow slaves? - 9/15/2009 2:30:34 PM   
windchymes


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

Cool.  I get to sit on the chair and have both holly and luci in my lap! 

"Engetine"?



Oh let's just dogpile.....I don't know what it means, either.

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RE: May I seek advice from fellow slaves? - 9/15/2009 2:34:35 PM   
Aylee


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quote:

ORIGINAL: SouthernSpankin

quote:

ORIGINAL: slaveluci

Ok, maybe I'm a dumbass or maybe it's simply too early but what the heck is "engetine?"
Seems like I might need to know that to appreciate the question but apparently no one else is having a problem with it's meaning..........luci


Lol. When I first read it, I couldn't come up with anything--I had no idea what the heck he was trying to spell when he wrote "engetine," either. Then, just now, I came back to this thread to see if anybody figured out the brain-teaser yet... and I had a light-bulb moment...

I think he is trying to write the word "ingestion" -- that he is trying to say: "I told a mistress on online chat that I like being a human toilet, but that was before I remembered it involved ingestion. What should I say?"



Can I come sit on the dumbass chair. . . because I am not sure what it means to be a human toliet without ingestion. 

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RE: May I seek advice from fellow slaves? - 9/15/2009 4:07:24 PM   
lizi


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quote:

ORIGINAL: windchymes

quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

Cool.  I get to sit on the chair and have both holly and luci in my lap! 

"Engetine"?



Oh let's just dogpile.....I don't know what it means, either.


Well, yesterday when this thread popped up I actually tried looking up engetine in the dictionary because I thought I was the only one who didn't know what it meant...lol. Guess what? It's not in the dictionary.

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RE: May I seek advice from fellow slaves? - 9/15/2009 4:14:20 PM   
DarkSteven


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quote:

ORIGINAL: windchymes

quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

Cool.  I get to sit on the chair and have both holly and luci in my lap! 

"Engetine"?



Oh let's just dogpile.....I don't know what it means, either.


quote:

ORIGINAL: Aylee

Can I come sit on the dumbass chair. . . because I am not sure what it means to be a human toliet without ingestion. 


Life is good here in my chair. 


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The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

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RE: May I seek advice from fellow slaves? - 9/15/2009 6:45:46 PM   
jasada89


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Status: offline 		which one do u want to serve or feel more comfortable with maybe ask about sharing see what they say

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