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Sunnyfey -> RE: Would you take on a bi Master/Dom? (9/15/2009 4:48:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Eigenaar quote: ORIGINAL: Sunnyfey quote: ORIGINAL: Eigenaar quote: ORIGINAL: Sunnyfey ORIGINAL: Eigenaar I really would not know how to state why certain points are illogical when you deny your own words. I am not a genius. I have YET to deny my own words at all in this thread. But I have cleared up your perception of what I wrote. Again, you have yet to make a logical debate about anything posted here. You have only come back with false accusations. What is not logical to me is that you in one post claim Elisabella is not picking on bisexuals/gay people and when Re read my post, *I never accused anyone of picking on gay or bi-sexual people* I accused YOU of picking on HER. Therefore, all of your arguments in reference to ME on this topic are false and illogical because you misread what I posted in the first place. You better ''re read'' my post. Where do I claim you accuse anyone of picking on gay or bi-sexual people? And where do I pick on HER? And where did I misread YOU? Apparently you have misread every post I have made on this subject.

krosiema -> RE: Would you take on a bi Master/Dom? (9/15/2009 4:48:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Eigenaar quote: ORIGINAL: Sunnyfey quote: ORIGINAL: Eigenaar Are you saying I am a genius not having had to look at NihilusZero his profile to get he is not a native English speaker? where does it state ANYWHERE on NihilusZero's profile, that English is not his native language? NihilusZero is Hispanic. That has absolutely nothing to do with what language he speaks. I don't understand what you are getting at. She means she doesn't know what made you decide that NihilusZero is not a native English speaker. He most probably is, from what little I read. And the only thing that might have given you the mistaken idea that he is not a native English speaker is that his profile says he's Hispanic. So of course, she's pointing out that Hispanic refers to his ethnicity, not where or how he was raised. Peace out (for reals this time)!

Sunnyfey -> RE: Would you take on a bi Master/Dom? (9/15/2009 4:50:39 PM)
thanks kro :)

mnottertail -> RE: Would you take on a bi Master/Dom? (9/15/2009 4:50:40 PM)
But being hispanic doesnt make him bi. NZero is not the subject of this thread if I have understood any of the english correctly. Ron

Sunnyfey -> RE: Would you take on a bi Master/Dom? (9/15/2009 4:56:34 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mnottertail But being hispanic doesnt make him bi. NZero is not the subject of this thread if I have understood any of the english correctly. Ron The lulz on here a freakin fantastic don't you think?

sexisubi -> RE: Would you take on a bi Master/Dom? (9/15/2009 5:01:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: allthatjaz. How would you feel about your Dominant/Master being bi ? Would you not get involved if you read that he was bi on his profile? Would it make a difference to your relationship if you were suddenly told he was bi? Are there any females that ended a relationship after finding there partner was bi? you know its funny you mention this cause i ask myself this a lot! i have no idea, i mean in some ways i would to think im open minded enough to not mind that they would want to bring a guy into the bedroom, that is about them.. and then i think but i dont really know how i would feel about them getting some from him, i would pray hes a top! i think i would attempt to look past it and see where it went from there. if we had been dating and then he just popped the im bi thing on me i would just ask a lot of questions, and if he really enjoys being with me and doesnt want to be with anyone else who cares. however i would need to ask him if he is then could be actually be with just me for the rest of his life or will i not be able to be enough for him?

Eigenaar -> RE: Would you take on a bi Master/Dom? (9/15/2009 5:05:22 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: krosiema quote: ORIGINAL: Eigenaar I would like to remind you of our correspondence only a few days ago in which you were very open and revealed events from your past most people would not entrust a complete stranger with. You all of a sudden stopped responding without a word and now you attack me and accuse me of left-field logic and lacking facility with the English language and not grasping the nuances whereas the English language is partly based upon Dutch as a result of the Dutch occupying what is now the UK several times and without mentioning your ''friend'' being derogatory without reason. I can assure you I get most if not more nuances the average native English speaker gets and that the discussed style of English is not always colloqial. Are you saying I am a genius not having had to look at NihilusZero his profile to get he is not a native English speaker? Please explain ''left-field logic'' in regard to my postings as well as your sudden attack and the assumption I do not crasp the nuances of the English language I spoke before you were born and don't forget were this desire to lynch is based upon. 1.) This is exactly what I mean by a personal attack. Yes, I'm very open, because that's the kind of person I am. Sorry, but you're not special. And yes, I stopped answering your mail. Because you became way too pushy and interrogating, instead of having a two way conversation where you share a bit of yourself and I share a bit of myself. I have lots of mail to answer, if I commit myself to answering every single one of them, so I pick and choose the ones I find most interesting and comfortable with answering. 2.) There is something called 'dry sarcasm.' The fact that you are way too sensitive to it speaks for itself. 3.) I don't know which "friend" you are talking about. Honestly. 4.) One example of left-field logic: That because English is based on Dutch and you speak Dutch that you probably get more English nuances than most native speakers. Um, sorry, but no, that logic does not hold. English is also based on Latin. Does that mean a Latin speaker (from the past) who learned English (after being teleported to the present) would speak English better than native English speakers? Furthermore, your last sentence there didn't make any sense at all, after I read through it three times. (I'm not even going to point out the misspellings, since I'm sure I have some of my own in this post.) Look just accept that you have deep-seated insecurities or that you just like trolling. It's okay; I troll forum boards, too. (Though, not CM, since many people here are too sensitive for my would-be troll-posts.) Chillax and peace out, kk? :) How come none of you remember having said certain things and are to lazy to scroll and read your own words? What do you mean by saying you are open and that I am not special? What does the ''special'' refer to? Were was I pushy? Why do you say sorry? Why do you mention dry sarcasm and where does it show I am sensitive to dry sarcasm? What makes you claim I do not get more English nuances than the average native speaker? Are you really saying I am transported/teleported from the past and that you did not get the lynching remark? You are pathetic. Where are all my misspelllings you mention and why would you mention them, where do I say I am immaculate? What is happening here? Am I considered a terrorist now?

littlewonder -> RE: Would you take on a bi Master/Dom? (9/15/2009 6:04:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: allthatjaz This is really a question for sub/slave females, though the thread is obviously open to all. How would you feel about your Dominant/Master being bi ? Would you not get involved if you read that he was bi on his profile? Would it make a difference to your relationship if you were suddenly told he was bi? Are there any females that ended a relationship after finding there partner was bi? If he told me he was bi, to be honest it would most likely be the end of the relationship. I'm not attracted to bi men. I don't switch, I don't have any interest in fucking him in the ass or anyone else fucking him in the ass since I am monogamous and I would see him as someone else completely different than who I thought I was with.

Sunnyfey -> RE: Would you take on a bi Master/Dom? (9/15/2009 7:25:44 PM)
"are you serious? So far I only met fakes, blunt rudeness and indifference on this site" Your assuming most of us are fake and rude and don't care about you. Which is about the same as "No body like me!! Everyone hates me!! They are so mean!!", which denotes a persecution complex. AGAIN you have YET to answer the questions in the OP, or directly talk about anything referenced in the OP.

Elisabella -> RE: Would you take on a bi Master/Dom? (9/15/2009 8:35:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mnottertail But being hispanic doesnt make him bi. NZero is not the subject of this thread if I have understood any of the english correctly. Ron According to his profile NZero is bisexual. And also pretty fucking hot. Therefore I think the OP should be rephrased to: Would you date a bisexual dominant? If not, would your answer change if I was talking about NZero?

DavanKael -> RE: Would you take on a bi Master/Dom? (9/15/2009 8:35:37 PM)
How would you feel about your Dominant/Master being bi ? **Just dandy if He is a person that I love, who loves me, and all of that other good relational stuff. :> Would you not get involved if you read that he was bi on his profile? I had one male partner who was very boy-leaning bi- and had a cum fetish. I did not know about the cum fetish prior to the relationship or there would not have been a relationship. Prior to that, I venerated bi- guys as 'ideal'. After that, I'm somewhat more skeptical but it would be the height of hypocrisy were I not to accept a person with the same orientation as I and while I am many things, a hypocrite, I am not. And, I have been with 'straight' men who have had sex with males (Probably prior to having been with that guy and definitely one of my partners after him had been with men). Their dedication to me would be most important and I'd prefer they orient with being bi- as I do (Or similarly): that it's an optional, not pivotal aspect of their sexuality, no fetishes, etc. So, as with any other trait, I'd assess on an individualized basis. More importantly, though, is the overall person and the overall context of the relationship. Would it make a difference to your relationship if you were suddenly told he was bi? If I was with someone and he misrepresented an important aspect of who he is/lied there would be a big freakin' problem regardless of what the detail was. If he suddenly 'discovered' his bi-ness, I'd be highly skeptical and also think that my radar and communication skills had taken a serious dive and be concerned overall. Are there any females that ended a relationship after finding there partner was bi? **Probably but I am not one. Davan

Sunnyfey -> RE: Would you take on a bi Master/Dom? (9/15/2009 8:36:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Elisabella quote: ORIGINAL: mnottertail But being hispanic doesnt make him bi. NZero is not the subject of this thread if I have understood any of the english correctly. Ron He's great in bed too....just sayin [:)] According to his profile NZero is bisexual. And also pretty fucking hot. Therefore I think the OP should be rephrased to: Would you date a bisexual dominant? If not, would your answer change if I was talking about NZero? Yeah and he's great in bed....just sayin

Sunnyfey -> RE: Would you take on a bi Master/Dom? (9/15/2009 9:18:37 PM)
We're making NZero blush btw....just sayin

krosiema -> RE: Would you take on a bi Master/Dom? (9/15/2009 11:41:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Sunnyfey quote: ORIGINAL: Elisabella quote: ORIGINAL: mnottertail But being hispanic doesnt make him bi. NZero is not the subject of this thread if I have understood any of the english correctly. Ron He's great in bed too....just sayin [:)] According to his profile NZero is bisexual. And also pretty fucking hot. Therefore I think the OP should be rephrased to: Would you date a bisexual dominant? If not, would your answer change if I was talking about NZero? Yeah and he's great in bed....just sayin Lol. You've got a great catch and now you're just making us jealous on purpose. :P

krosiema -> RE: Would you take on a bi Master/Dom? (9/15/2009 11:50:32 PM)
Okay, I've had some thought and decided to re-answer the question. This is really a question for sub/slave females, though the thread is obviously open to all. How would you feel about your Dominant/Master being bi ? I sort of answered this already. It'd probably make me feel insecure, because I believe people are attracted to men for different reasons than they would be attracted to women, physically. And I'd wonder if he's like me better as a guy. Would you not get involved if you read that he was bi on his profile? It's by no means a hard limit. If everything else is a fit, being 'bi' would not stop me from seeing him or potentially being in a relationship with him, as long as he can allay my insecurity regarding that point. Would it make a difference to your relationship if you were suddenly told he was bi? No. If I trust someone, I trust someone. I think that it's impossible to tell someone _everything_ about you, so I would expect new information to be popping up. Also liking guys would not be an issue because it's not directly related to me, or an important part of his past. (Unless his first true love was a guy, then I would expect to know.) Are there any females that ended a relationship after finding there partner was bi? Hrm, I haven't.

allthatjaz -> RE: Would you take on a bi Master/Dom? (9/16/2009 2:01:38 AM)
ok, ok Im back[;)] and hopefully 'ants in his pants' has retired! This post was not set out as a judgment but more as an inquiry. So many men desire to see a woman with another woman and it seems that women in general (apart from a few of us) don't like the thought of there partner being with another man.... past or present. At the end of the day its all to do with what turns us on and turns us off and if it turns you off then that doesn't make you anti bi, its just your sexual preference and nothing including your mother is going to change your mind on that front. I am not a swinger... honestly I'm not Davan[;)] but I have been told that at a swinging party you will never see man on man (unless of course its a gay swingers party). That you will see plenty of girl on girl but man on man is a complete no no. I wonder if thats because women just wouldn't cope with that kind of spectacle ? women can do it in public but lets keep the boys stuff behind closed doors. Dominant women will often put there male sub in a forced bi scenario. I have done it myself and been a very satisfied voyeur. Perhaps Dominant women in general get turned on by a bi submissive male and yet when it comes to a Dominant bi male it seems us women that like that are in the minority.

DesFIP -> RE: Would you take on a bi Master/Dom? (9/16/2009 4:40:17 AM)
I would no more date a bi man than a poly male. Because if he needs someone of the opposite sex to complete him, then he couldn't be monogamous with me. And I'm only interested in a long term monogamous relationship. Long term here being defined as aiming for the rest of our lives. And although a bi person could happily stay in a relationship with a person of just one sex for a while, I don't think that they would be happy like that for the next 30 years. So why set up a relationship with a sell by date?

daintydimples -> RE: Would you take on a bi Master/Dom? (9/16/2009 6:04:43 AM)
I think it is a common misconception that someone who identifies as bi can never be monogamous. This is just rubbish in my opinion. I would have no problems accept a bi master. If anything it would be a plus to me. We could share a sweet lil masochistic male subbie. (Just saying.)

allthatjaz -> RE: Would you take on a bi Master/Dom? (9/16/2009 7:13:58 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: daintydimples I think it is a common misconception that someone who identifies as bi can never be monogamous. This is just rubbish in my opinion. I would have no problems accept a bi master. If anything it would be a plus to me. We could share a sweet lil masochistic male subbie. (Just saying.) Your right, it is very much a misconception. I am bi and but thats not to say I can't remain happily monogamous to my partner. My partner is bi and would only ever consider a woman that can accept his bi side but thats not to say he can't remain happily monogamous to me. quote: I would no more date a bi man than a poly male. Because if he needs someone of the opposite sex to complete him, then he couldn't be monogamous with me. And I'm only interested in a long term monogamous relationship. Long term here being defined as aiming for the rest of our lives. But why would he need someone of the opposite sex? Being bi could mean that he's had a past experience or that he just feels (on occasion) sexually attracted to the same sex. Being bi does not mean I need a female lover anymore than I need that Lamborghini that keeps driving up and down our road. I may look at it and admire it but it doesn't mean I need one.

DemonKia -> RE: Would you take on a bi Master/Dom? (9/16/2009 7:49:02 AM)
Yeah, the equating of bisexuality & polyamory is buggin' me. It is no more inherent in bisexuality to be poly than it's inherent in heterosexuality to be monogamous . . . . . Perhaps it's a taint-by-association thing, that bi men must be as intrinsically slutty as gay men or similar reasoning. One of the problems with that is that not all gay men are giant sluts . . . . Ultimately none of these labels are monolithic straight-jackets, except to those narrow-minded enough to make them so . . . . . .

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