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thishereboi -> RE: male slaves sharing in their Mistress's period (9/15/2009 1:34:34 PM)

Yea, bring me some chocolate, a good book and get out of my face. I'll call if I need anything.



sweetcheeksbbw -> RE: male slaves sharing in their Mistress's period (9/15/2009 1:53:06 PM)

I find this thread very interesting.  I know the intent of the person who started it was taking another route but it's nice to know that other Dommes have made their subs earn their red wings.  Nothing feels as good as sex during that time!  I'll have to think so a way that my sub can commiserate with me next month.



ShaktiSama -> RE: male slaves sharing in their Mistress's period (9/15/2009 3:29:10 PM)

Honestly, I have done all sorts of things while on my period in the past, but I am more than capable of gauging what is appropriate with an individual partner and I behave accordingly.  I certainly would not want my menstrual blood to become a "nasty/dirty" type fetish for anyone, because I don't think it's dirty or disgusting or whatever.

When I've been with men for whom my body and all its various fluids were sacred territory, blood was just an especially intense part of the package.  That said, I would prefer to close up shop when I'm with a non-pagan, for obvious reasons.  I don't want to deal sexually at that time of the month with a man who would feel "degraded" by the experience.



LadyHibiscus -> RE: male slaves sharing in their Mistress's period (9/15/2009 3:55:04 PM)

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ORIGINAL: ShaktiSama

Honestly, I have done all sorts of things while on my period in the past, but I am more than capable of gauging what is appropriate with an individual partner and I behave accordingly.  I certainly would not want my menstrual blood to become a "nasty/dirty" type fetish for anyone, because I don't think it's dirty or disgusting or whatever.

When I've been with men for whom my body and all its various fluids were sacred territory, blood was just an especially intense part of the package.  That said, I would prefer to close up shop when I'm with a non-pagan, for obvious reasons.  I don't want to deal sexually at that time of the month with a man who would feel "degraded" by the experience.


Be honest, you wouldn't want to deal with a man like that at ANY time of the month! [:'(]



MsStarlett -> RE: male slaves sharing in their Mistress's period (9/15/2009 3:55:52 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Sunnyfey

The most "Sharing" that will be done by my submissive during my periods is making totally sure I dont run out of  tampons, ibprofen, dr.pepper, my cigs, or chocolate.


Amen on the Chocolate.  Hubby always laughs that he just keeps his head low and leaves the chocolate on the computer desk.



AlexandraLynch -> RE: male slaves sharing in their Mistress's period (9/15/2009 7:28:55 PM)

In theory, I don't care. In practice, I have a body that hates me for the first 48 hours of flow, and I'm not going to be devising interesting and meaningful or degrading or whatever rituals for my subs. I am going to give them instructions, take massive amounts of opiates and muscle relaxants, and attempt to sleep through as much of that part as I can. Their job is going to be taking care of whatever it is I can't, such as laundry, meals, feeding animals, etc. and reminding me to keep taking the pain pills.

(Advances in prescription drugs are a happy thing; the other alternative is to put up with labor-intensity pains from solar plexus to knees for 48 hours, and that is just no fun for anyone around me.)



undergroundsea -> RE: male slaves sharing in their Mistress's period (9/15/2009 7:39:05 PM)

I recall a thread in the past where a question was asked about the sub inserting a tampon in the rectum at the same time, and the consensus in the thread was that such a practice was unsafe.

Cheers,

Sea



alittlebent -> RE: male slaves sharing in their Mistress's period (9/15/2009 8:21:46 PM)

IC, I am now kept in a chastity belt for the duratition. I was just curious about how others dealt with it or not. I was not thinking about sharing as in actually  sharing but sort of a tribute type sharing in...d sync, did not mean to demean anyone.



ShaktiSama -> RE: male slaves sharing in their Mistress's period (9/15/2009 10:11:11 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus
Be honest, you wouldn't want to deal with a man like that at ANY time of the month! [:'(]


Lol...degradation has its place.  Sometimes I'm a bit more sensitive and touchy than others, that's all.  [;)]



DemonKia -> RE: male slaves sharing in their Mistress's period (9/15/2009 11:57:10 PM)

FR, after read thru

Okay. So I got a story.

My dearly-departed, mostly-vanilla ex used to wash out my fabric pads*. He wasn't squicked easily, was a hard-core environmentalist, & he got pleasure from providing that intimate service, from being allowed to have that connection with me . . . .. & it definitely was an intimacy booster for both of us . . . .

He didn't do it all the time, but fairly regularly he would wash whatever batch was soaking in a basin in the bathroom . . . .

* Fabric pads -- yep, I'm such a hippie, but they're also way more comfortable on a bicycle than the paper-&-plastic variety . . . . .



islandgyrl -> RE: male slaves sharing in their Mistress's period (9/16/2009 1:05:12 AM)

I'm surprised no one has mentioned the Instead menstrual cup.
 
http://www.softcup.com/product/what_is_softcup.php
 
edited to add the link
 
Island
 



MaamJay -> RE: male slaves sharing in their Mistress's period (9/16/2009 2:59:41 AM)

Well I've sex when I've had a period and it can do wonders to ease the cramps! But that's not so much a D/s thing, just a horny thing and first happened with an otherwise very vanilla partner.

I had high hopes at this time in life for it to be a thing of the past but sadly, it comes and goes. However, you gotta love a Master who when His sub inexplicably starts rolling around in the bed and groaning, struck down suddenly by ovulation cramps (yeah, that means i can get pain every 2 weeks!!), reaches up to the shelf above the bed and without even looking, grabs the Ponstan and the bottle of water, pops 2 capsules and hands them over! Lifesaver!

Maam Jay aka violet[A]



asuwismaaam -> RE: male slaves sharing in their Mistress's period (9/16/2009 3:24:22 AM)

Male slaves  dont really have a say what  they do and when they do , if its that time of the month  you grin and bare it what ever it may be



LadyHibiscus -> RE: male slaves sharing in their Mistress's period (9/16/2009 8:47:48 AM)

Well threre is that whole NEGOTIATION thing that happens before you get enslaved....



OttersSwim -> RE: male slaves sharing in their Mistress's period (9/16/2009 9:15:43 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Well threre is that whole NEGOTIATION thing that happens before you get enslaved....


...ssshhhh....LadyH, you are spoiling the fantasy of it all...how are we supposed to fetishize you wimmins if you keep trying to bring that logic stuff into it?  You're ruining my immersion...  [&o]



LadyHibiscus -> RE: male slaves sharing in their Mistress's period (9/16/2009 9:19:45 AM)

sorry, Otters... back to your previously scheduled exfoliation! [;)]



Politesub53 -> RE: male slaves sharing in their Mistress's period (9/16/2009 12:42:53 PM)

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ORIGINAL: asuwismaaam

Male slaves  dont really have a say what  they do and when they do , if its that time of the month  you grin and bare it what ever it may be


Dont try this at home !!!

I suggest instead that you grin and bear it. Taking it upon yourself to grin and bare "it" could very well end up with a trip to casualty.
[;)]



ChampagneMojito -> RE: male slaves sharing in their Mistress's period (9/16/2009 1:00:31 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MaamJay

Well I've sex when I've had a period and it can do wonders to ease the cramps! But that's not so much a D/s thing, just a horny thing and first happened with an otherwise very vanilla partner.



Snap.    Sometimes I feel like it at that time, sometimes I don't.  I certainly don't see what the fuss is about - for me, menstruating is a powerful part of my womanhood, not something dirty/disgusting/unnatural. 

him, well, he's appreciative, whatever time of the month it is..... as he should be.  [;)]

E x



Lockit -> RE: male slaves sharing in their Mistress's period (9/16/2009 1:53:17 PM)

I don't see it as dirty and disgusting. I see how some view it as something that could be though! lol

Sometimes it does help to have sex when dealing with cramps and I have used that many times... of course I got three pregnancies out of it! (Yes, some can get pg at that time! I happen to be one of them or used to be. lol)

I just don't want someone making that time a fetish. A time of whatever is called for, for the woman... cool! But that is a my thing sorta thing.. not a his thing sorta thing. lol



LadyHibiscus -> RE: male slaves sharing in their Mistress's period (9/16/2009 2:08:17 PM)

Exactly, Lockit!  I am an old time Witch, feminist, all that jive, and it never dawned on me that my period was ICKY (except when I had to clean up after waking up in a lake, ah the joys of youth [8|])  but it is a FEMALE thing, not something to be co-opted by men.  I can see where "sharing" the experience in some way can be a form of intimacy---yay for your rag-washer, Kia!---but not a fetish.



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