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Ialdabaoth -> RE: Bisexuality/Gay = Submissive? (9/17/2009 2:06:59 AM)
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ORIGINAL: Sunnyfey
In another thread there is a prevailing theme that Bi-sexuality (especially if the person is male and on the receiving end) equates to a submissive personality, or that bi-sexuality is some how "not Dominant"......I'm throwing in the gay aspect also because it seems to follow the same "logic".
what say you?
Well, I'm a dominant male, and I'm vaguely bisexual (I'm really more genderqueer, but functionally I may as well call myself bi). I'm very dominant to both males and females I'm involved in, but in completely different ways.
For males, I want something almost like military/"old guard" relationships. I tend to be attracted to boys that... well, that give off the same sort of persona that you expect from a well-trained doberman or german shepard. I like "guard dog" boys. Which can lead to some weird situations, as the boys I tend to try to acquire tend to be perceived as far more dominant (and far more worthy of being called Dominant) than myself. But I want boys that compliment me - boys that excel in the social and physical arenas that I don't, but that need someone like me to provide direction and intellectual/spiritual guidance. People who don't want to think too deeply about what they're doing or why, but who need to be pointed in a direction and told "sic!".
For females, I generally want a harem of sex slaves. I want girls that are pretty and small, and obviously demure, ornamental, and submissive.
If possible, I tend to try to build a hierarchy - most of the girls that I'm attracted to are themselves attracted to the "Beef McRockhard" type, so I've found it's easier to just find a few of those types of boys that are into me, and give them the pretty girls - they look better with them anyways, and that way I get to run the whole show like it was my own private little doll-house, where every day is a tea party and then we play dress-up!
Anymore, though, I've kinda given up on both sides - I no longer feel I have the spiritual fortitude to maintain relationships with boys or girls, so I've resigned myself to looking for other people that might be capable of pulling off my style of dominance, and who might find it fun, that I might pass on my accumulated skillset before abandoning it altogether.
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