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JaynJax -> How do you relocate a slave and not loose your money? (9/15/2009 11:53:25 AM)

I have over the year found several slaves that want me to relocate them, however they need money to
make the trip. I know just as sure as I know my name...if I send money, I will not see them or the money.
Some are probably men posing as women to get money out of unsuspecting men. I'm very careful, and
because of that....these so called slaves say..."your just playing with me, and not sincere."  So my question
is...is there someway to relocate someone without getting taken?  Jay



mnottertail -> RE: How do you relocate a slave and not loose your money? (9/15/2009 11:57:24 AM)

sure, kinda. You have names, addresses and so on? Can you get them to let you check their credit? Will they sign a loan note and have it notarized? You can get civil with them then. do they have a car? will they give you title to it? If you are paying, you have the right to those sorts of invasions of their privacy to gauge your risk.

They show and stay, let's say a month and they get the paper back, forgiven.

It will minimize the risk.

Ron



mmsprecious -> RE: How do you relocate a slave and not loose your money? (9/15/2009 11:59:27 AM)

My knee jerk reaction was "you can't"...I may stick with that, but I suppose one could go to the slave and "collect her" and her stuff and move her while being there with her...to make sure the money goes to/for what it is meant for.. I mean...you should probably meet someone in person before moving them however far away to be your slave.

His precious



CarrieO -> RE: How do you relocate a slave and not loose your money? (9/15/2009 12:04:26 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: JaynJax

I have over the year found several slaves that want me to relocate them, however they need money to
make the trip.

Have you met these women in person?

I know just as sure as I know my name...if I send money, I will not see them or the money.
Some are probably men posing as women to get money out of unsuspecting men. I'm very careful, and
because of that....these so called slaves say..."your just playing with me, and not sincere." 

Which is why I'm asking if you've met with them yet.  Would you have a problem going to met them, if they are some distance away, if they are unable to afford coming to you?

So my question
is...is there someway to relocate someone without getting taken?  Jay

Common sense and some background research on scammers.




lilivontramp -> RE: How do you relocate a slave and not loose your money? (9/15/2009 12:04:59 PM)

Give your time to slaves who are financially secure and don't need you to give them any money for the move, or only look local.



krosiema -> RE: How do you relocate a slave and not loose your money? (9/15/2009 12:09:00 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: JaynJax

I have over the year found several slaves that want me to relocate them, however they need money to
make the trip. I know just as sure as I know my name...if I send money, I will not see them or the money.
Some are probably men posing as women to get money out of unsuspecting men. I'm very careful, and
because of that....these so called slaves say..."your just playing with me, and not sincere."  So my question
is...is there someway to relocate someone without getting taken?  Jay


Ask them to relocate and promise to reimburse them (with receipts) once they arrive? Or tell them to give you info and buy the plane ticket for them? (That way, even if you lose money, at least they haven't gained anything.) Or go to them to see them?



Lashra -> RE: How do you relocate a slave and not loose your money? (9/15/2009 12:17:26 PM)

Find someone who doesn't need you to send them money, that is the way to do it. If they really want to be you, then they will find a way or you could drive to get them. Send them money? No way not unless I had met them many times and known them for at least a year.

~Lashra



DemonKia -> RE: How do you relocate a slave and not loose your money? (9/15/2009 12:18:47 PM)

FR, after read thru

Ya know, this isn't Amazon or EBay, nor mail-order SlutMart, right?

If you're willing to spend cash to relocate them, then the first step would be spending some cash to go meet them wherever they are . . . . . .

There's at least CM one person I'd go meet, immediately, if I had the cash to spend . . . . . So, if you've got the cash to go meet, then you're lucky . . . . .



Lockit -> RE: How do you relocate a slave and not loose your money? (9/15/2009 12:18:48 PM)

Being lonely isn't a good reason to go to stupid, which is what the scammer's use to take advantage and it must be working for some of them.

If you are willing to bring someone to you without meeting them first, you can always buy a refundable ticket, in case they don't use it and you don't lose it. First mention of this, most scammer's will be gone anyway. (Oh and most scammer's will challenge your sincerity to goad you into doing what you really don't want to do.) You could also go visit them or pick them up. Then you can say no if you find they aren't a scammer, but no way would you want that in your home.




Sunnyfey -> RE: How do you relocate a slave and not loose your money? (9/15/2009 12:21:50 PM)

Master sent me a plane ticket. It was my choice to accept said plane ticket or not after that, and either way he would not have lost money, besides a service fee for refunding a ticket.



IronBear -> RE: How do you relocate a slave and not loose your money? (9/15/2009 1:02:46 PM)

If a girl was the one in a million I'd help her relocate interstate or within Queensland to my address. Overseas? Not on your Nelly. Years of waiting and a whole pile of Red tape even with a signed employment contract the Immigration crap is horrendous since 9/11

However back to some from Aussie, simple really. If I am paying I go and personally escort her in wrist and leg shackles as well as a steel collar and chain leash.




Acer49 -> RE: How do you relocate a slave and not loose your money? (9/15/2009 1:13:21 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: JaynJax

I have over the year found several slaves that want me to relocate them, however they need money to
make the trip. I know just as sure as I know my name...if I send money, I will not see them or the money.
Some are probably men posing as women to get money out of unsuspecting men. I'm very careful, and
because of that....these so called slaves say..."your just playing with me, and not sincere."  So my question
is...is there someway to relocate someone without getting taken?  Jay


I do not feel that one party should carry the entire burden of relocation, Both should be willing to put in to it, that way both have a vested interest in its success. and if one is unable, then one must be willing to sign a note saying they will repay over time.



SweetNika -> RE: How do you relocate a slave and not loose your money? (9/15/2009 1:18:12 PM)

I moved from California to Maryland to be with my former owner. I payed to move me and my children, I set up my job prior to moving, I arranged housing for me and my children before moving. We lived seperately for almost 4mths before we moved in together. If I ever relocated AGAIN I would do it the same way, that way I was established on my own before we became a joint house hold.



Mercnbeth -> RE: How do you relocate a slave and not loose your money? (9/15/2009 1:30:34 PM)

quote:

How do you relocate a slave and not loose your money?


Visit them first, and suggest doing so as soon as possible; or say you're coming to them to pick them up to take back. If they come up with a reason to deny you from coming, you know you've got involved with a fraud.

Wherever it is, see it as an adventure. Expect nothing to be as represented. Enjoy the trip and take anything positive that happens as a bonus.

It was a long time ago, but that philosophy worked well for me. I had a personal two week time limit from first contact to meeting. I may have missed out on someone not willing to be as up front and direct as I was, but it turned out great. Going to meet people was a great experience; even when in person, the individual was 50-60 pounds, and 10 years removed from the profile picture. Hell, I even shared a drink with someone who wasn't even the gender represented in the profile.

YOU control who can take advantage of you.



SaharahEve -> RE: How do you relocate a slave and not loose your money? (9/15/2009 1:49:57 PM)

I would verify their identity first. Tell them it's for a credit/criminal background check. If they're willing to move in with you, they should have no problem sending you a snap shot of their license... right?



windchymes -> RE: How do you relocate a slave and not loose your money? (9/15/2009 2:28:08 PM)

I guess I have the wrong approach.  If I choose to travel to "check out" a potential Dom/partner, I prefer to handle my own finances, and always have.



LaTigresse -> RE: How do you relocate a slave and not loose your money? (9/15/2009 2:57:04 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: JaynJax

I have over the year found several slaves that want me to relocate them, however they need money to
make the trip. I know just as sure as I know my name...if I send money, I will not see them or the money.
Some are probably men posing as women to get money out of unsuspecting men. I'm very careful, and
because of that....these so called slaves say..."your just playing with me, and not sincere."  So my question
is...is there someway to relocate someone without getting taken?  Jay


I don't do it. If someone wants to be with me, they will find a way. Otherwise.......NEXT!!!!!!!!



BKSir -> RE: How do you relocate a slave and not loose your money? (9/15/2009 3:05:59 PM)

After knowing him online for well over a year, and verifying his identity on the phone and via webcam chatting, I relocated the pet by buying him a plane ticket.  He was more than willing to get it himself, and ended up whining enough about it that we finally gave in and allowed him to pay back half of it so he'd shut up.  Sending money though?  Not a chance.  He's back in canada now, still... don't get me started on that, it pisses me off... but will be back here in short order.  If he were to call and have a good reason that he needed $50 or 100, I'd help him out of course.  But that's entirely different than "I want to relocate down there to you, can you send me $1000 for plane ticket and expenses?"  I know him, I know that he'd do what he says he needs it for, I know he's not a scammer.  But even when relocating him down here, I wouldn't have sent the cash the first time.  I'm not an idiot.



pyroaquatic -> RE: How do you relocate a slave and not loose your money? (9/15/2009 3:08:50 PM)

Looo....

I like this option: Get walking. I seem to be using this phrase lots. If the slave REALLY REALLY REALLY wants to be with you then they will walk. Or drive, driving is nice too. Everyone else has excellent suggestions.



DarkSteven -> RE: How do you relocate a slave and not loose your money? (9/15/2009 3:17:11 PM)

OP, to be extremely blunt, the first step is taken by writing a profile that would appeal to a genuine slave.  What is it that you offer that would make a slave want to relocate to you?  Right now, your profile states that you want a slave with few limits who cannot expect love from you.

If you cannot entice the real ones, then you will have ONLY the scammers.



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