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RE: Being Truthful - 9/17/2009 12:34:57 PM

LadyPact

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ORIGINAL: Lucienne
So, how much money have you lost over the years funding the "relocation" of female slaves with few limits, interested in command and control but not love or marriage?

http://www.collarchat.com/m_2805483/mpage_2/tm.htm

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Whenever one of these threads come up, My immediate question to the OP in return is why is the issue such a problem for you? If you stop being a target for scammers, you won't get scammed. Sure, you'll still get the random note from someone in Nigeria. Report it and move on.

Other than that, if you've made yourself a target for being scammed, maybe it's time to stop looking at them and start looking at you.

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RE: Being Truthful - 9/17/2009 5:47:28 PM

sweetsub1957

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ORIGINAL: JaynJax

I find so many subs/slaves posting on this site that say they are in a certain location
and find out later they are actually in London or Nigeria or some other far out place.
When I see a profile that states Ohio/Alabama as their location, I know they are just
game players. Tell the Truth it doesn't take that much effort to just be plain truthful, but
then the scam and ripoffs doesn't work.

Not to be disrespectful or anything, but I have had letters in my cmail inbox that are from Dominants that most likely live in Nigeria. I don't think that either side of the kneel has a gravy train on being scammers and rip-offs. I think they're all over on both sides of the kneel, everywhere, and we just have to keep our eyes open and watch out for them.

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RE: Being Truthful - 9/17/2009 5:47:41 PM

DesFIP

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Oddly enough, OP, if you were writing people of your own age and attractiveness this wouldn't happen. The scammers almost always represent themselves as barely legal and of outstanding beauty, frequently with pics pulled from a porn site.

Try representing yourself as who you really are, warts and all, and being interested in women who represent themselves accurately instead of searching for the elusive 18 year old with Barbie stats. Because if such a person exists, it is doubtful she's looking for someone old enough to be her grandfather.

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RE: Being Truthful - 9/17/2009 7:37:44 PM

AnimusRex

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ORIGINAL: DemonKia

(Hint: Most 'real' chicks do not talk like porn. Period. Really. Generally only if they're getting paid for it. At least when it comes to random strangers on some website.)

Damn.

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